nissangirl74 wrote:
Maybe I'm missing something, but I didn't think Michele was whining at all. She wants to look good, for herself, and for Ryan. There's nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself, as long as it's for a good reason. She wants to tone up (that's what she means by "fluffy"), as do I, as well as other people who have posted. It's about getting healthy and staying that way. I have a lot of things left to do in this life and I need to be healthy in order to enjoy them. As for beauty and attractiveness, well, that's just a bonus.
I was just saying... nobody wants to be the out of shape one next to the really in shape one. For example, say we're at the beach in the summer. I like fit-looking couples. The guy with the six pack, for example, standing next to and hugging the girl with a gut? Meh. NOT saying that I have one. I just don't want to get there.
Sorry if I whined.
I don't think I'm unattractive, nor do I think I'm fat. I'm a size 2 to 4 for crying out loud. It's just that if someone who is a size two puts on say... 5-10 extra pounds, it's really noticeable. I don't think I'm fat. I'm just not toned, nor strong. And I can readily admit that.