Do all men cheat?

[Vanessalalinda]

[es.biggs]

^^^haahahahahahaha

i'm more concerned though with the men who do have attractive, smart, fun and sexual partners and STILL cheat. whats up with that???

Just because the person is attractive, smart, fun, and sexual doesn't make them perfect for you/me/anybody. I mean she sounds like an ideal partner but there's a lot of aspects that go beyond that. People cheat for a lot of reasons but the main few I am thinking of right now are probably....

1. They aren't happy with their relationship, and need to look elsewhere2. They don't have the integrity to decline an offer in respect to their partner3. They are just plain a$sholes and think they can get away with it4. ....plenty of stuff I'm leaving out. I'm no Dr Phil hahahaha

[ztommyx]

no i'm not, how can i exercise trust by tricking him?

and as i mentioned before, this isnt about him cuz he hasn't done anything to make me think he would. it's about what i keep seeing in other cases as well as what my stupid friend told me

how is it a trick? just a test... or you afraid he'd fail?

and who says he's not cheating? what you don't know won't hurt you

[Vanessalalinda]

ok....

[Icon27]

well then how about we were raised in generation X and we want everything now, fast food, car loans and toys we can't afford. Bigger better faster, I blame society Child support and alimony is crazy, myself with 2 children would pay oh 1300 to 1900 a month, I pay 46% in taxes in Canada+ I wouldn’t have the dependents as a tax write off at the end of the year. From a strictly money standpoint it makes sense to cheat then break up( I take my chances but the payments are the same ) and for every year I get away with it its 1 less year of child support + I get to see my kids everyday. I’m fixed so there’s no chance of more kids if I cheat or with my wife, I have clearly chosen not to do so. So far, I’m not perfect I don’t claim to be but that’s life right. I love debates and I don’t mind even losing but I’ll always play devils advocate.

[NolimitZ32]

Vanessa I don't cheat, I have had opportunities and chances to cheat on multiple GFs multiple times but I didn't because if I didnt want to be with my GF and my GF only then I wouldn't be with her. Tell your friend he is a pathetic excuse for a MAN or rather that he still hasn't grown up to realize that karma is a b**** and what goes around comes around. And most importantly that he is cheating because of his insecurities, if he was happy and secure in his relationship he wouldn't cheat but he feels that there is something about him that's not good enough. I've seen that happen, used to work with a guy who was so insecure and scored so much p**** and when I asked him why he would cheat on his beautiful girlfriend who mind you used to bring him lunch at work, he said "I don't believe that I am good enough to keep her interested and I am almost positive she will sooner or later cheat on me so why wait till she does it?" f***ed up isn't it? Either way your friend is a douche, one of many that give good guys a bad name.

[Vanessalalinda]

he is a douche

[simmode1]

Either way your friend is a douche, one of many that give good guys a bad name.

To be real about it... a string of hoes can turn a good guy into a douche. I am living proof. Real talk. Rehabilition back to being a nice guy is a bish, too...

Man, Icon27 made his topic waaaay more interesting! Yeah, I might have cheated in past dating relationships, but I don't think I can see myself doing it in a marriage. Why? Just because of the practical reasons Icon mentioned: If you get caught, the divorce & child support will destroy your azz.

Its hard enough dealing with scorned ex girlfriends threatening property damage or other crazy ish. F*** screwing around on a chick who is entitled to half your chit. I had a chick say she was going file for divorce on me under 'Common-law Marriage'... Awww man, you know I was researching that chit like a muthaphuka!

It think thats when i decided that I can't cheat ANYMORE. I just have to decline exclusive relationships until I am absolutely certain that this is the girl I wanna be with forever and share everything I own with.

That experience also taught me that the most powerful statement in the WORLD is "I love you". Do not, I repeat, DO NOT invoke that chit if you don't really know what it means! That chit is like a magical spell! If you ain't ready for what could happen once you unleash those words and it backfires on yo' azz... OMG you better pray. Can't just be throwing them words around.

[itZjoker]

^ Lol I cant help but to read that and look at the black dude in your avatar and imagine a guy talking all ghetto. Sorry.

Anyways, you guys are saying that you love the other and would never cheat of course, because you are satisfied. What if she never wants to have sex?

Just asking, I know all you would say sex isn't important or anything, but that's really because you guys are already gettin some ya know?

[simmode1]

Haha... yeah I had to get a little ethnic in that post.

If your mate never wants sex, or for some reason, can't have sex... thats a bonifide problem, homie.

If she's physically unable to have intercourse, the guy needs to be understanding, but she's also gotta be realistic. People have needs. She needs to do something to keep her man satisfied. If she can't tend to them traditionally, she's gonna have to get innovative if she wanna keep her man at home.

If your woman just plain doesn't want sex, as the man in the relationship, it's your duty to find why. Get to the root of that problem and fix whatever it is. Sex is a good thing. I can't imagine someone just arbitrarily deciding they don't like it without some kind of background reasoning.

[Vanessalalinda]

yes definitely...i cant imagine just not wanting sex. if i were to ever avoid it its because it probably isnt very good. and if its not very good then we're probably not commincating well and it all just leads to a bigger problem.

[djdopamine]

not really fair cause I flirt with everyone, I look for reaction and am not shy its fun for me, I do it to my mother in law the worst but she is a sexy b****. ( always said thats why I married my wife cause I knew what she would look like when she’s older.

and don't get me wrong I am attracted to my wife but shes boring and I thought with time she would change( I have a high sex drive and hers is very low and low self image to boot. ) If I didn’t love her I would have left her.

but sex is sex and that’s what gets us into trouble.even thought of going to a professional, its not personal for both parties.

to many things to watch out for these days. good topic really surprised at some guys reactions towards this.is a rub and tug cheating? how about a strip joint? no then how about a privet dance at a strip joint? Now ask your self if were trapped by marriage, what other animal mates for life and if they do what is there life span. is this really natural for the better meant of the species, we naturaly seek out better mates for better offspring to garentee they will be stronger faster better looking and so on.

meh or its all BS.

just beat off bro. its good for ya!

[simmode1]

just beat off bro. its good for ya!

The sad reality for many marriages.

If you're gonna go it alone, you might as well have stayed single. Damn society and the institution telling us the you gotta get married and have 2.5 kids and whatnot.

yes definitely...i cant imagine just not wanting sex. if i were to ever avoid it its because it probably isnt very good. and if its not very good then we're probably not commincating well and it all just leads to a bigger problem.

Yeah, guys who have problems getting sex think its because girls/women really don't like sex... which ain't true. Homeboy just ain't got no game! I.E. not a good communicator...

Theres a double negative for ya, Joker...

[skinZ32]

how about this.... i dated a girl for 8 years(i loved ths girl with all my heart )...... yes we broke up and saw other people durning that time but we always came back to each other.

after the last time we broke up (march of last year) she was engaged and MARRIED with in 3 months of us breaking up. i went a year wiht out talking to her and she said that she (never cheated on me) but thats bullls***, she may have not had sex with a guy while we were dating( i still dont beleive her on that) but she was talking to this guy (that she is now maried to) and lied about "talking" to him while we were together.

so as far as im a concerned she cheated one me becasue she was putting more effort into a relationship with another guy while we we were still together.

SHEEEES A HOE!!!!!! lol

like that other cat sait "what goes around comes around".... and KARMA is muthaF***** b*****

[skinZ32]

Just because the person is attractive, smart, fun, and sexual doesn't make them perfect for you/me/anybody.

true .. my ex was all of that buit had a bad attitude....

post pics of your cheating exs keeping it safe for work..........

oh vannesaa i miss you

[skinZ32]

oh vannesaa i miss you

[itZjoker]

simmode & Vennessa

I'm 16 and she's 17. She's still a virgin. That's her reason why I would assume.

[skinZ32]

simmode & Vennessa

I'm 16 and she's 17. She's still a virgin. That's her reason why I would assume.

my cheating ex.... so yes i believe women cheat as much as men

she haunts my dreams

[Vanessalalinda]

im here!!

BTW I was in AC a few weeks ago and i'm in the p0ker room at a full table surrounded by very serious men. Suddenly the dealer stops and says "did anyone ever tell you you look like Rachael Ray?

[Pieceofsand]

just a test... or you afraid he'd fail?

enough said there

and SKINZ32, post moar pictures of your cheating ex

[Vanessalalinda]

relationships have enough games. i don't like games.

[legion]

Man, I'm kinda tired of being a man-whore.

lol I definitely haven't finished this phase yet

I also choose to remain single so I can do whatever I want (and I tell girls this up front) because I just came out of a relationship in which I was cheated on. I have never cheated before and I don't plan on it, but I have been tempted many times.

[Icon27]

just beat off bro. its good for ya!

you saw I have been married for 11 years right, even 3 times a day gets tiresome after awhile, I'm not 16 anymore..besides if you spank it your just getting off and it does nothing for your stamina( if you weren't a 1 min man you will be after a few months of spanking. )

None the less why should I have to just cause I'm married its like being in prison for being the good guy and sticking with her.

me personally we have a long thought out conversation about what happening every few months she swears she will try to change and well doesn’t.. last one I offered her 20,000 and 1000 a month if she wasn’t happy( I told her she has one life to live and she should do that if she’s not happy with me. swears she’s happy, organisms like crazy but just doesn’t crave sex, while I'm sick of begging just to do all the work and have her scream like a banshees but put no effort into it.. swear to god I have mad skills after working on her for so long.

meh life short never know right place right time anything could happen or it may never. but thats some reason guys can be pushed into it.

[Vanessalalinda]

i thought flin flon was a joke. it's a real place!!

[Icon27]

yep little mining town of 15,000you planning a vacation to come see me aren't ya

shhh don't tell anyone. oh wait .

[Vanessalalinda]

yes i'm coming over to fix ur marriage..you won't know what hit you both.

[Icon27]

If it was a matter of fixing it would have been done, both parties have to work at it, its not something that can happen over night( of course ) they say anything worth while takes work right, maybe we will get it right somewhere down the road.

you guys seem like pretty interesting people, I'll be watching for more topics to chime in on.. never know what people know until you ask.

just a canucks point of view, its also cold up here hits -55 in the winter.

[Vanessalalinda]

no wonder she doesn't wanna get nekkid!!!

[simmode1]

besides if you spank it your just getting off and it does nothing for your stamina( if you weren't a 1 min man you will be after a few months of spanking. )

I don't agree. If you can last 10 minutes with your hand you can go all nite with just about any chick, IMO. It's like that old joke: How do you get to Carnegie Hall?

Better learn your stroke number! http://vids.myspace.com/index....35077

I've said too much...

[es.biggs]

hahahahahaha this thread is crazy.