Do all men cheat?

[tg]

neither- i've never been cheated on that i'm aware of- its just something that bugs me. and all these celebrities cheating don't help either

not that you know of.

Would you get mad at your boyfriend if he played tennis with another girl? How about if he rode on a jet ski with another girl? how about if he gave another girl a massage? You need to know that it isn't black and white. The reason why the idea of partner having sex with somebody else is so repulsive is two-fold. You don't want them falling in love with somebody else and leaving you (ego driven), and you don't want them procreating with somebody else if you're going to be in a relationship with them (instinct/logic driven). It is something that is hard-wired, so to speak. When if you remove both of these obstacles, is it still offensive? I know of a few people who are in relationships and who frequently (I'd go so far as to say more often then not) have sex with a third person or another couple, but if one were to go off and have sex with another person on their own and not tell the other, there would be just as many if not more issues than if a member of a regular couple did it. And there are obviously couples that choose to artificially inseminate, its more the fact that if you did it without consulting the other, that would be an issue
Modified by tg at 12:32 PM 3/21/2010

[simmode1]

I'm not

Yeah, I'm not really cut for this stuff. I mean, I do it and do it well, but I'd much rather be in a solid & commited relationship.

I love lavishing love and affection on my significant other... the only issue is finding a girl worthy of it or a girl mature enough to accept it. That's the hard part. All these hoes over the past few years have gotten me pretty jaded.

A guy finding a good girl is about equally as hard as a girl finding a good guy, IMO.

[Vanessalalinda]

hahahahhaha

i figured i could get a lot of male perspective on here

[Vanessalalinda]

Yeah, I'm not really cut for this stuff. I mean, I do it and do it well, but I'd much rather be in a solid & commited relationship.

I love lavishing love and affection on my significant other... the only issue is finding a girl worthy of it or a girl mature enough to accept it. That's the hard part. All these hoes over the past few years have gotten me pretty jaded.

A guy finding a good girl is about equally as hard as a girl finding a good guy, IMO.

hahahaha all these hoess..

[djdopamine]

[ffrpwner]

i have twice.....

i was young and stupid and partially drunk(but that is still no excuse) and as soon as i did it i called her and told her i did it i felt so guilty..... it will never happen again i am lucky to still be with this girl....i would never dream of hurting her again

a friend of mine cheats on his girl like its a sport.....i have a hard time hanging out with him any more.....

[djdopamine]

A guy finding a good girl is about equally as hard as a girl finding a good guy, IMO.

agreed.

[Vanessalalinda]

I'll be honest- i have done it as well. i was unhappy and was looking to give myself a reason to get out so i cheated. i broke up with him soon after that. it was stupid and i would not do it again. if i need to i'll just have to grow a pair and say i'm unhappy.

i would just like to feel that if my b'f seems genuinely happy with me and i do what i have to do to keep him happy, that no skank can simply come along and all that goes out the window because supposedly men 'just cheat'

maybe that's why i'm so afriad of it. cuz i did it. if i was able to do it(and i'm teh type of person to return to the store if i got too much change back) then why wouldnt anyone else.

[tg]

yeah, that Caucasian guy is going to be pissed that the Asian cable guy didn't ring the door bell before coming in to hook up the new tv.

[djdopamine]

Lol tg, watch family guy much? That sounds exactly like something that would happen on that show.

[Z31toZ32]

[djdopamine]

[vitaminZ]

I would say " ALL " would be too broad..I've cheated on my girlfriend NUMEROUS times..but i am 21..and i own a 300zx.



but seriously..I'm just not ready to be tied down.

[A Paratrooper's 300zx]

I actually pride myself in the fact that I have never cheated and will never cheat. Of course thoughts have occurred (and almost actions) but I have more self restraint than to deeply scar the person I care for. I have been cheated on numerous times and it's one of the worst thing that could happen if you are seriously involved with a person. So many relationships fail now a days because of the lack of communication and respect for the other person. It's a two way street... you can't just sit back and let the other do the work. I am happy with my girlfriend and she is without a doubt the most beautiful person I have met thus far and therefore see no reason to destroy what I have

[Pieceofsand]

Leykis 101 here

[tg]

well here is an analogy that works for me:

Do you drive above the speed limit? Do you do it because you hate your drivers license and you hate driving?

It is human nature to push the limits and to try to have the best of everything... it is the reason why you try and get ahead in life, it is unfortunate when it happens when dealing with a relationship, but why speed if you're happy driving the speed limit?

[A Paratrooper's 300zx]

well here is an analogy that works for me:

Do you drive above the speed limit? Do you do it because you hate your drivers license and you hate driving?

It is human nature to push the limits and to try to have the best of everything... it is the reason why you try and get ahead in life, it is unfortunate when it happens when dealing with a relationship, but why speed if you're happy driving the speed limit?

Negative. I drive above the speed limit because I enjoy it. Not because it's bad or it's "illegal" or I wanna live outside the bounds. I do the things in life that I enjoy because I enjoy them. I have lived through some of the most horrific sh*t life has to offer and now see the absolute amazement in the simple things. I am ahead in life as far as where I imagined myself to be years ago. If I can come out unscathed from 2 foreign wars, Hurricane Katrina, jumping out of planes and doing some other unspeakable things... I feel pretty damn lucky and now need to focus on what makes me happy and not striving to live the "American Dream" of undeserved wealth and false happiness. A wealthy man has everything and nothing. An enlightened man has the world.

[Vanessalalinda]

I hope it doesn't take 2 wars for people to stop them from making stupid decisions lol

[A Paratrooper's 300zx]

I hope it doesn't take 2 wars for people to stop them from making stupid decisions lol

No... that just aided me haha

[Ace2cool]

I've been cheated on.... Never cheated. I would never want to hurt anyone that I care for as bad as that hurt me, so I will never cheat.

[Broadfield]

well here is an analogy that works for me:

Do you drive above the speed limit? Do you do it because you hate your drivers license and you hate driving?

It is human nature to push the limits and to try to have the best of everything... it is the reason why you try and get ahead in life, it is unfortunate when it happens when dealing with a relationship, but why speed if you're happy driving the speed limit?

Horrible analogy, but whatever. Plain and simple: If you are going to cheat, then break it off with the person you are currently with. If you don't, then you are a low life in my book. End of story. If you cheat, then you lie..... I don't like liars either.

[XxTaTixX]

I've cheated before and i been cheated on too...from my experience most guys i know cheat on their gf. they told me they do it because they can and have a chance to but they still wanna keep their gfs cuz they love them.

[Broadfield]

they told me they do it because they can and have a chance to but they still wanna keep their gfs cuz they love them.

Hahaha, that's the most F'd up way of showing someone you love them.

I think the lesson here is that people that cheat have no idea what love is. They make think they do, but they obviously don't. Being in love entails many things. One of those is respect for your partner. Cheating on your partner is not respectful.

[DMeN Z]

Hahaha, that's the most F'd up way of showing someone you love them.

I think the lesson here is that people that cheat have no idea what love is. They make think they do, but they obviously don't. Being in love entails many things. One of those is respect for your partner. Cheating on your partner is not respectful.

Sounds about right...Seems like they're separating lust and love into their own categories... I've never cheated but have been tempted/almost seduced various times. However, I have been cheated on...

[XxTaTixX]

Hahaha, that's the most F'd up way of showing someone you love them.

I think the lesson here is that people that cheat have no idea what love is. They make think they do, but they obviously don't. Being in love entails many things. One of those is respect for your partner. Cheating on your partner is not respectful.

yeah but depends.

[XxTaTixX]

when i cheated was when the relationship was at its worst. you know fighting everyday and stuff. thats always when that guy comes around and makes you feel special and gives you the attention that your not getting from your partner. same thing with guys i think or maybe its just me.

[djdopamine]

Hey Ace, your signature is dope!

[vitaminZ]

well here is an analogy that works for me:

Do you drive above the speed limit? Do you do it because you hate your drivers license and you hate driving?

It is human nature to push the limits and to try to have the best of everything... it is the reason why you try and get ahead in life, it is unfortunate when it happens when dealing with a relationship, but why speed if you're happy driving the speed limit?

[Broadfield]

yeah but depends.

when i cheated was when the relationship was at its worst. you know fighting everyday and stuff. thats always when that guy comes around and makes you feel special and gives you the attention that your not getting from your partner. same thing with guys i think or maybe its just me.

No offense, but you will NEVER make a good girlfriend or wife as long as you think like this. You are very young though, so I'm sure you will change your outlook on things.

[REDWINTERZ]

I've been cheated on.... Never cheated. I would never want to hurt anyone that I care for as bad as that hurt me, so I will never cheat.

That's not what I heard... Didn't you get in a Z31 the other day? Did you tell your Z32 about it?