Do all men cheat?

[Vanessalalinda]

No offense, but you will NEVER make a good girlfriend or wife as long as you think like this. You are very young though, so I'm sure you will change your outlook on things.

yeah i mean when i cheated it was because the relationship was bad. but after i did it i realized what i coward i was for not being honest and saying look this isnt working and just walked away without respecting him like he should've been respected. but you make mistakes and you learn u know.

[Weber3211]

I would say " ALL " would be too broad..I've cheated on my girlfriend NUMEROUS times..but i am 21..and i own a 300zx.



but seriously..I'm just not ready to be tied down.

then don't be in a relationship, douche.

[Ace2cool]

from my experience most guys i know cheat on their gf.

Personally, I think that's just the company you keep. There are plenty of people still out there with good morals.

they told me they do it because they can and have a chance to but they still wanna keep their gfs cuz they love them.

Then they have a f*cked up definition of what "love" is. That's the best way to hurt someone badly. You don't do that to someone you truly love. Once again, just sounds like you need to upgrade the quality of the company you keep.

Hey Ace, your signature is dope!

Thanks bro!

That's not what I heard... Didn't you get in a Z31 the other day? Did you tell your Z32 about it?

[Chattzx]

then don't be in a relationship, douche.

+1 douche move

[simmode1]

then don't be in a relationship, douche.

There ya go. thats the bottom line. If you're not ready to be with just one person, then don't be. You might surprised at the amount to chicks that will still have sex with you even though you told them up front you don't want to be in a relationship...

[Ghut300zx]

simple awnser is YES. he cheated on you and you have aids and are gonna die plus your timing belt is gonna snap tomarrow and you will have no car.

but seriously no, and if he is a cheater he is also a dousche bag and those are pretty easy to spot.

[LIBRILZ]

Personally, I think that's just the company you keep. There are plenty of people still out there with good morals.

Then they have a f*cked up definition of what "love" is. That's the best way to hurt someone badly. You don't do that to someone you truly love. Once again, just sounds like you need to upgrade the quality of the company you keep.

Thanks bro!

I agree with all of this, I mean someone can't truly cheat on someone they love. If they love them then they will respect their feelings no matter what. They will not hurt the one they love, no matter what's going on in the relationship. They just won't.

[tg]

I agree with all of this, I mean someone can't truly cheat on someone they love. If they love them then they will respect their feelings no matter what. They will not hurt the one they love, no matter what's going on in the relationship. They just won't.

That's like saying nobody hurts anyone they love, which is OBVIOUSLY not the case in any relationship, ever. Nobody is perfect, this s*** happens, sometimes you make dumb mistakes, you learn from them. If you can learn to ride a bike without ever falling down even once, then you're a better cyclist or perhaps a less extreme one than me.

Some people also do it for the thrill, but that's mostly older women in slave marriages and tiger woods.

so I agree with tati and with the first part of ghut's statement lol.

[LIBRILZ]

I understand and repspect that people make mistakes, but I'm more specifically talking about the people that continually cheat. At that rate you don't give a rat's about your partner. Don't you agree?

[tg]

I understand and repspect that people make mistakes, but I'm more specifically talking about the people that continually cheat. At that rate you don't give a rat's about your partner. Don't you agree?

Perhaps when it happened you thought the relationship was going to end. Maybe you had been in a relationship since you were 15 and you thought you were wasting your good years and you would always have a lingering regret later on in life -- who knows. There are too many variables to say its black and white and right and wrong. The fact is it happens, and its not always because you don't love the other person. I know guys that have cheated (and girls) during relationships and have gone on to marry their cheated-on spouse. It takes a stronger relationship to stay together after something as serious as cheating, and its something that you come out of with new understanding.

[Vanessalalinda]

you're bound to hurt each other cuz let's face it, love hurts. I think the point being made is that you can't reallylove that person when you make the concious decision to hurt them and hurt them again and then one more time and then what the hell one more time!

[itZjoker]

It takes a stronger relationship to stay together after something as serious as cheating

I kinda understand what you're saying here, but can't you say that it also takes a stronger relationship to not cheat? Kind've confusing if you think about it both ways lol.

[tg]

moral of the story, not all men cheat as some apparently already have the greatest sex ever to have been experienced as frequently as they please without any strings attached.

[Initial_Z]

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[Z32TT]

you live in Newark nough said lol cant tell you how many people i know their that have gotten around( even while dating)

[Vanessalalinda]

loolol that's a really stupid statement. doesnt matter where you live and it doesnt change the chances of anyone getting cheated on.

[lionheart1028]

most jersey girls are dirty lol xpect vanessa or my family

[Vanessalalinda]

hahhaahhaha jackasss

[lionheart1028]

haha you know its true.we know what we see on the streets

[Icon27]

I'll chip in my 2 cents, I'm 32 and fit, been with the same woman 14 years married 11 this year.( she’s had 2 kids and has not tried to keep in shape ) I feel insulted because I work at it everyday for her and she does not. Shes a house wife and I make 130,000 a year.would I cheat? depends on if its opportunity or planned?I would never cheat with someone in my town( to small ) on a trip? maybe.its lust for me I am comfortable and enjoy my marriage but shes set in her ways and well boring( you only live once why should I miss out cause shes not willing? )I have been working hard at this marriage and up to date I haven't cheated, thought about it lots but in the end I haven't.I can absolutely separate sex and love where she thinks its always love and there are places and ways for this ( I just wanna get down and dirty )Meh no solid answer but another opinion from maybe a older person with a long relationship.. Would I maybe have I? Not yet.. I only agree with one thing its not the other persons fault if there not married it’s the married persons responsibility to say no. However sexless marriages, which are more and more common, are more at fault these days then they use to be.

[Vanessalalinda]

Thanks for your honest answer. I can definitely understand what you mean and i'm a strong believer of never letting oneself go. I get off in knowing my bf is attracted to me and let's be honest- when it comes to sex and desire, guys don't say "wow that is one hot piece of personality"

if the person that you're with is specifically asking for something from you (better appearance, more sex and spontaneity) and we refuse- then what can we expect?

[ztommyx]

cheated on the girlfriend, yes.cheated on a wife, no.

but both men and women are capable of cheating. i'd say more or less women cheat as much as men, maybe more.

vanessa, why don't you test to see if your man cheat?ask a pretty (prettier than you of course ) woman and have her hit on your bf and come back and tell us

[Vanessalalinda]

Tommy you're married?!?!??!

LOL you know i've had people suggest that but i don't think thats' fair. its entrapment. plus he may be receptive to flirt which in my book is normal and even healthy but at the same time i dont wanna see it and i'd just end up torturing myself.

[ztommyx]

^^ so you're assuming your bf would cheat...

there's your answer

[Vanessalalinda]

no i'm not, how can i exercise trust by tricking him?

and as i mentioned before, this isnt about him cuz he hasn't done anything to make me think he would. it's about what i keep seeing in other cases as well as what my stupid friend told me

[Icon27]

not really fair cause I flirt with everyone, I look for reaction and am not shy its fun for me, I do it to my mother in law the worst but she is a sexy b****. ( always said thats why I married my wife cause I knew what she would look like when she’s older.

and don't get me wrong I am attracted to my wife but shes boring and I thought with time she would change( I have a high sex drive and hers is very low and low self image to boot. ) If I didn’t love her I would have left her.

but sex is sex and that’s what gets us into trouble.even thought of going to a professional, its not personal for both parties.

to many things to watch out for these days. good topic really surprised at some guys reactions towards this.is a rub and tug cheating? how about a strip joint? no then how about a privet dance at a strip joint? Now ask your self if were trapped by marriage, what other animal mates for life and if they do what is there life span. is this really natural for the better meant of the species, we naturaly seek out better mates for better offspring to garentee they will be stronger faster better looking and so on.

meh or its all BS.

[Vanessalalinda]

a lot of men like to use the caveman theory of men having different mates but for some reason conveniently ignore the fact that we've evolved and the things that were important back then (like procreating cuz lets rememeber that was the purpose of more than one mate) are not important now and our emotions have evolve to the point that we're not cavement anymore.

and if you wanna to go by lifespans- men who are and stay married are expected to live longer than men who don't. many studies have been done on the subject.

if you have reasons to say that you feel trap there are options and you know there are. there's absolutely no need to be in a relationship where you are not sexually satisfied. i'm more concerned though with the men who do have attractive, smart, fun and sexual partners and STILL cheat. whats up with that???

i would hate to find out my b'f will cheat just for sex even though i have never, not once turned him down for sex even if i dont feel like it.

[es.biggs]

In my opinion, we are not built like animals, and sex to us is nothing like what it is to animals. We make it a hell of a lot more complicated

I have never cheated on my girlfriend. we have been together for almost 2 years, and I know that's not very long, but yeah lol. Sure, there's temptations all over the place, and I think it would be a lot of fun to "test the waters" a little more, but I know that I love this girl, and I woul never want to hurt her, or lose her.

I think one of the keys is to make sex a special, enjoyable thing for both parties, but never let it become the primary reason the relationship exists. Relationships are about so much more.

As far as cheating goes, different people call different stuff cheating. You have to learn how you're partner feels, and you HAVE to respect those feelings.

I didn't want to touch this thread...but I read it and it made me pretty interested lol

[Vanessalalinda]

LOL i gotta say i'm surprised at all the responses...you boys are more than just cars.

[es.biggs]

Haha this information is to never leave this thread ok?

Good