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numbnuts240 wrote:i've never cheated. came close, but never cheated. i was cheated on though. stupid ****..
That might change after he meets Nala....

Not all men cheat, but all normal men have frequent sexual thoughts involving people other than their significant others. We're all hard-wired that way. The key is whether we decide to act on those impulses. But there are so many other factors that influence that decision that there is no one explanation for why men do or don't cheat.


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numbnuts240 wrote:is that how we're known? as a bunch of raging f***? niccccceeeee.


oh and on the thread... i voted no, but tbh, if I was in a short relationship, or one I was not really feeling, I would probably cheat on the spot, and very soon there after break up with the girl I was with.

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Bubba1 wrote:there is no one explanation for why men do or don't cheat.
sure there is, they call it "sex addiction"

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dont cheat, just invite a 3rd party...


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Its called self-esteem. Men or women, seeking validation, will cheat.

Its why girls diddled by their creepy uncles turn into strippers.

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I think men cheat when their needs aren't being met and i'd say 99.9% percent of those needs are sexual...keep a guy happy in bed and he'll be loyal to you.

Now women on the other i think cheat because their emotional needs aren't being met...anyhow, that's my take on it.

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numbnuts240 wrote:
sure there is, they call it "sex addiction"
Actually the proper term now is "Tiger Woods Syndrome."

And no, not all men/women cheat. People cheat when they:

a) don't communicate properlyb) don't care about the other person's well being

Cheating is a two way street. Both people are to blame in a situation where cheating is invloved, not just the person that cheated.

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Also, more men were abused as kids than we probably think. Throw in a fatherless situation and BAM! Instant cheater.

People are jackasses.

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Jesda wrote:People are jackasses.

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I dunno how to vote. I have cheated before, but never will again. I felt pretty crappy about it. Now I realize that if I'm that tempted to cheat, my current situation clearly isn't working. So I'll cut her lose and move on.

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i'll show you a jackasses(ss) is that singular or plural?

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DrifterXRPS13 wrote:i'll show you a jackasses(ss) is that singular or plural?
singular - jackassplural - jackasses

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gooses or geese?

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Bubba1 wrote:Not all men cheat, but all normal men have frequent sexual thoughts involving people other than their significant others. We're all hard-wired that way. The key is whether we decide to act on those impulses. But there are so many other factors that influence that decision that there is no one explanation for why men do or don't cheat.
^-- What he said...

Men and women are clearly different animals. I've always repeated a very wise phrase I've heard..

Men give love to get sex. Women give sex to get love.

In other words, men are hard-wired to procreate. They have a physical innate need to have sex. To get that sex, they usually have to make sacrifices to get it. Not to sound crass, but that sacrifice is the work it takes to love their spouse. They buy flowers, go on dates, help clean the house, etc... The reason men frequently cheat is because those "other" women provide a shortcut to getting that sex.

Another reason is that the male species is hard-wired to spread their seed.. Human males are different in many ways, but those natural guidelines are still present. No matter how happy a man is with their spouse, they still have a desire to "share" with other females. Why do you think men always scope out other women in public places... searching for prospective mates... again, it's hardwired.

However, I'd like to think most men will chose to elevate other values above that carnal instinct. A real man will not cheat! They made a promise not to cheat when getting married (or to a lessor extent to be bf/gf) and keeping that promise is very important. They also will chose to honor the woman that loves them back by remaining true to them. A real man can control themselves and their desires. Immature, worthless, weak men give in to cheating.


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geeses.

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ive gotten cheated on basically...this bish dumped me saying im a slut when i didnt do s***...then i found out she on next dude d*ck after 2 wks i found out from my buddy... Do all men cheat? No..thats not true at all but we are capable of cheating.r women any better? hell nah... girls who claims to be they arent sluts, GTFO theyre all same just like guys.

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Open and honest relationships FTW!!

Seriously I have been with my girl for over 8 years and why? Cuz we bang who ever we want. I don't want to talk to and hang out with the people I want to have sex with in most cases, I have a woman that I do want to live and hang out with everyday and I do that.

People who limit themselves are dumb. "I only drive Trucks" or "I only want you" or "I only what the F ever insert here".

I am open to everything, therefore I have a plethora of options but choose not to take almost all of them, but I'm not limited in my choosing.

UNCE UNCE UNCE UNCE

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amen

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breadbox wrote:Open and honest relationships FTW!!

Seriously I have been with my girl for over 8 years and why? Cuz we bang who ever we want. I don't want to talk to and hang out with the people I want to have sex with in most cases, I have a woman that I do want to live and hang out with everyday and I do that.

People who limit themselves are dumb. "I only drive Trucks" or "I only want you" or "I only what the F ever insert here".

I am open to everything, therefore I have a plethora of options but choose not to take almost all of them, but I'm not limited in my choosing.

UNCE UNCE UNCE UNCE
Unrelated.

The issue is about people who enter relationships with the agreement of fidelity, not open relationships.

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Okay nevermind, enjoy being tied down er'body.

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breadbox wrote:Okay nevermind, enjoy being tied down er'body.
Cool story bro.

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breadbox wrote:Open and honest relationships FTW!!

I am open to everything, therefore I have a plethora of options but choose not to take almost all of them, but I'm not limited in my choosing.

UNCE UNCE UNCE UNCE
So...what are you doing this weekend?

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DrifterXRPS13 wrote:
So...what are you doing this weekend?
Me.

And vice versa.

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make sure you bring flowers


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breadbox wrote:Okay nevermind, enjoy being tied down er'body.
Thanks. Some of us are happy being monogamous with our spouses.

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Eikon wrote:
^-- What he said...

Men and women are clearly different animals. I've always repeated a very wise phrase I've heard..

Men give love to get sex. Women give sex to get love.

In other words, men are hard-wired to procreate. They have a physical innate need to have sex. To get that sex, they usually have to make sacrifices to get it. Not to sound crass, but that sacrifice is the work it takes to love their spouse. They buy flowers, go on dates, help clean the house, etc... The reason men frequently cheat is because those "other" women provide a shortcut to getting that sex.

Another reason is that the male species is hard-wired to spread their seed.. Human males are different in many ways, but those natural guidelines are still present. No matter how happy a man is with their spouse, they still have a desire to "share" with other females. Why do you think men always scope out other women in public places... searching for prospective mates... again, it's hardwired.

However, I'd like to think most men will chose to elevate other values above that carnal instinct. A real man will not cheat! They made a promise not to cheat when getting married (or to a lessor extent to be bf/gf) and keeping that promise is very important. They also will chose to honor the woman that loves them back by remaining true to them. A real man can control themselves and their desires. Immature, worthless, weak men give in to cheating.
I mostly agree with this guy. Real men won't cheat. I wouldn't give in to promiscuous woman even after being offered the shortcut because it's such a turn off. My main concern is money and not women so I guess that helps.

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Kelbizzle wrote:
I mostly agree with this guy. Real men won't cheat. I wouldn't give in to promiscuous woman even after being offered the shortcut because it's such a turn off. My main concern is money and not women so I guess that helps.
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Yea get the money, power, and then p****!

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DrifterXRPS13 wrote:I think men cheat when their needs aren't being met and i'd say 99.9% percent of those needs are sexual...keep a guy happy in bed and he'll be loyal to you.
I dunno, man... It's not as clear cut as that. Depends on the guy's maturity level and a host of other factors as well.

I cheated on my last live-in girlfriend ALOT. She was a tiger in the sack. But there were two areas of our relationship that I wasn't happy about, so I wandered.

It's all good though. Even though we broke up, she still comes by regularly to get knocked off. Probably because she doesn't know that I was cheating...


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