A baseball player is a bad example, but I get where you're going.Eikon wrote:
Perhaps you misread my usage of the term "able". Sure, it is physically possible for anyone to lose weight and get healthy, and it is physically possible for anyone addicted to cigarettes or booze to break the addiction. It's also physically possible for a major league baseball player to bat 400 or hit 100 home runs.
My usage of the term "able" is in reference to the fact that many people are not successful in accomplishing that goal. They just aren't able to do it. In the same way, many smokers or drinkers are not able to kick the addiction.. Not because it's not physically possible, but because they haven't been able to muster the will power to accomplish the goal.
You said it yourself though, it's a matter of willpower. That lack of commitment is a weakness in all people who have an addiction. That does not mean they are unable to quit smoking or drinking or eating though. It merely means that they don't have the self-control or commitment to quit their addiction.
I completely agree that being fat isn't any worse than being a smoker or an alcoholic. I feel it's necessary to not pamper these people into thinking that it's ok to be fat, or a smoker, or an alcoholic. While it is your choice do make your own decisions, that doesn't mean it's right.Eikon wrote: I agree that every person faces adversity. Some people are predisposed to being overweight, some to addictions like smoking, p0rn, drugs, alcoholism, etc.. What I don't agree with is the fact that being overweight is worthy of ridicule more than being a smoker is worthy of ridicule. Sure, it is the most visible of these adversities... But I don't feel it's any worse than the others.
Again, my point in entering this conversation is simply to state that people shouldn't be so judgmental of others. It's wrong to assume that fat people are just like you and that the only reason they are fat is because they chose to be that way. It's wrong to devalue and degrade another person based on their appearance or their habits.
I can choose to start doing meth today. It's my body, what do you care? But that does not make it right and we try and divert people from meth with scary billboards and commercials. I think it's necessary to do the same for fat people, and everyone else too. Scare them away from it. When that doesn't work, make it known that the path they have chosen is bad, instead of pampering them. I HATE it when people tell others it's okay to be obese. WRONG. It is not okay. We need to help them to make a change in their life.


