Well, I finally gave up on the 4-1 idea. With this kit, its just not happening. If I had welding skills and equipment, I'd be interested in doing it all myself, but I simply cannot. So I've decided to build it 4-2-1 (some people think this will be better anyway- I think 4-1 would have suited my goals better, but I feel confident it will be an upgrade no matter what). Any way, some pics:
The exhaust bracket (which I now have an extra on the way, since I couldn't cancel before it left the warehouse):

So now I've got all the hangers for the BRM exhaust, except this is still not used:

So now the entire exhaust hangs on the 3 rear hangers and the one bracket- its unfortunately too much for the rubber on that bracket, and thus I need to support it for now underneath some crap- I'll be taking it to a muffler shop or something to figure out an extra hanger for support.

Also, I'll need to pick up an extra gasket and some flange bolts and nuts. The hardware supplied with the BRM was disappointing- I got only 2 bolts/nuts for the 3 sections (cat, mid, and rear section) and the bolts/nuts needed washers to truly hold. I'll be shooting a quick email to Greg to let him know.
Here's a few attempts to go 4-1:

and this is still the main problem.
So this is where I said F it, and started over

measured all these out to make math easier:
Here is the 1&4 cylinders:
2&3:
All together

At this point, the 1&4, and the 2&3 will be merged, respectively- need to find some appropriate pvc joints. Then another short run between the steering knuckle and transmission case, and merge the secondaries, then run back to the cat. Should be much easier at this point, but I've definitely been delayed. I hope Stainless Mfg will be able to turn around quickly.