Key to life is how you take hits and keep going and over come the things that is called life!
no matter how many times life kicks you down, you have to get up and keep going...
ever wanted to give up on life?
You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning in life.- Camus
Just get out and meet people and find new hobbies. There's no reason for you guys to be depressed. Busy work schedule? Make some time - take a weekend off and go hiking or just drive somewhere new or go to an art museum. There's just too many good things in life for you guys to be depressed.
Just get out and meet people and find new hobbies. There's no reason for you guys to be depressed. Busy work schedule? Make some time - take a weekend off and go hiking or just drive somewhere new or go to an art museum. There's just too many good things in life for you guys to be depressed.
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dreamsOfSkylines
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Suicide is the cruelest thing you can do to everyone who cares about you, its just selfish. If your going to watch a movie, watch shawshank redemption. Trust me you ain't got it so bad compared to alot of people in this world. You should also realize that emotions such as happiness or depression are controlled by chemicals released by your brain, if you feel depressed all the time you should talk to a professional. You could have chemical imbalance, or it could be some thing else. Remember that you can do anything with your life if you really set your mind to it and get out of your rut. Take that advice everyone here is offering you. You will be thankfull you did later on in life.
I absolutely hate being single, I wont be single for long either...even if I have to date a fat ugly girl. I dont care, anything but the single!So you're depressed because you're single? Having a gf won't make any difference. One thing you need to learn is self-reliance and being content with yourself and being alone. It's not the end of the world. I've learned the hard way that relying on other to make you happy is great but that happiness is often times ephemeral.
Seriously, find hobbies and new interests because A) It's an opportunity to meet new people and B) You better yourself and finding something new to be passionate about usually makes life more worth living.
Seriously, find hobbies and new interests because A) It's an opportunity to meet new people and B) You better yourself and finding something new to be passionate about usually makes life more worth living.
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JayPat83 wrote:well, i know the consequences and thats why i couldnt do that but it is crazy that the thoughts even cross my mind. and i am 300 miles away from anyone i really know. 2nchic is the only person i know in GA.still havent had much time to get out the past three months cause of my busy work schedule.
Hey Jay man, if you ever find some time outside of your busy work schedule and you ever wanna hang out or something, just give me a call. My cell # is 404-819-5496. Don't ever be afraid to call if you are bored or depressed. I'm always up for doing something.
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JayPat83 wrote:sorta depressed about being single now cause ive always felt alone since i was young cause of **** my parents did to me and how they treated me.
Dude, you don't have to tell me about that. I've been single my entire life. I've dated, but never had any type of serious relationship with anyone. It does suck.
HOWEVER, everytime I think about that, I just tell myself that's ok, because when I do meet someone, it will be even more special.
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I know exactly how you feel.I felt the same way for about a year and a half and did nothing about it, I thought about killing myself all the time and my grades at school went into the toilet. Then i finally met my gf who has made me feel happy again. Although she doesn't know this, she has prolly saved my life. Just when I thought life couldn't get any ****ier, she walked into my life and made everything better. You never know what tomorrow will bring. You just gotta get out of the house and keep on keepin on. I used to sit and my room and do nothing for hours. I would come home from school and go right to my room and just think dark thoughts and how wonderful it would be if I could just end it all, then i started getting out more and doing more things, even though i didn't want to. It really does make you feel better to get out there and do some things. Meet new people and try not to be alone. That seemed to help me a lot. Keep yourself occupied, or get a hobby that takes up your free time. Just know that what you may do to yourself is irreversible.Times will get better although that right now it seems that they won't. In a couple of weeks, or months you will be glad you didn't kill yourself.
vicki wrote:So you're depressed because you're single? Having a gf won't make any difference. One thing you need to learn is self-reliance and being content with yourself and being alone. It's not the end of the world. I've learned the hard way that relying on other to make you happy is great but that happiness is often times ephemeral.
Seriously, find hobbies and new interests because A) It's an opportunity to meet new people and B) You better yourself and finding something new to be passionate about usually makes life more worth living.
Haha, thats what my girlfriend of three years told me when she dumped me 2 months ago: "this'll help you gain self confidance and be ok with being alone" Yeah, well **** that. I'm happier with someone than without, I always have been and always will be. When I'm good and married, I can start figuring out the rest of my life. Ya gotta have priorities, and getting hitched is numero uno for me!
vicki wrote:Psssh... safety, security, and commitment are overrated. :pface
I like being able to date around and have my options open. I'm quite smittened by someone right now though.
Most girls seem to think like you...thats why I'm looking for a semi-needy girl now! Ya'll are just silly, options suck, commitment rocks!
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Life is depressing alot of times, but think of all the people that care for you and all the people that you care for. Why give up on such a great adventure, and if anything, such a great opportunity to live life here in the greatest country on earth. Maybe you should move and get away from anything and everything that is getting you down. Move to a different state with a different car and different house. There is an entire world out there just waiting, dont waste it!
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w1ngzer0 wrote:lol. Its not that im depressed im just weird. I think to myself "why the hell am i alive? im not helping anyone? im not making good money.
I am not even helping myself. The problem is i don't know how. I was never taught how to help myself. I was taught shut up and listen. So, a psychiatrist won't honestly help. I don't need someone to talk to.
But i am fine. I am to ***** to kill myself.
Haha nah man, I was posting for the thread start.
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crzycav86 wrote:I agree. I've been to a counselor before. It didn't help because I didn't have any problems, but my parents wanted some reassurance.
However, I doubt you can afford to go to one unless you get a free one. They charge ridiculous amounts of money. Like $200 an hour or something. I should be one. $_$
There are some based off of income which determines how much you pay. The one I'm seeing I only have to pay $15 hah.
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EZcheese15 wrote:Dude, you don't have to tell me about that. I've been single my entire life. I've dated, but never had any type of serious relationship with anyone. It does suck.
HOWEVER, everytime I think about that, I just tell myself that's ok, because when I do meet someone, it will be even more special.
Damn, that's just like me. Dated some, but nothing serious. You tell yourself it's okay, but I don't hah. It sucks.
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Nathan wrote:Most girls seem to think like you...thats why I'm looking for a semi-needy girl now! Ya'll are just silly, options suck, commitment rocks!
One in a million.
It's easy to date around, but building trust and learning to overcome problems with your partner takes more effort and is worth it in the long run--even if it doesn't work out. Of course you have to be predisposed to be willing to say your'e wrong, because there's some people who insist on being right and won't compromise.
Finding happiness, ending depression, sorting out life... been there, done that, and sometimes go back! Women wont solve your problems. Not friends. Not even your parents. They can help, but consider them all a temporary help that will help keep your head up until you finally, really move on.
A nice car might do the trick. Get one of those. (Or pick any other hobby) Pick one that doesnt require other people -- anything where you dont need someone else to do it. Racquetball!
Any confidence-building pride-infusing time-consuming pastime will at least keep your mind and heart occupied until you move on to other stages of life, assuming you take the initiative and do that.
Work on a vague life plan, gradually get it rolling, and in the meantime keep yourself busy. And I'd stay away from intimate relationships; if you -need- them, theyre bad for you. Very bad. I refuse to need another person.
-Jesda
A nice car might do the trick. Get one of those. (Or pick any other hobby) Pick one that doesnt require other people -- anything where you dont need someone else to do it. Racquetball!
Any confidence-building pride-infusing time-consuming pastime will at least keep your mind and heart occupied until you move on to other stages of life, assuming you take the initiative and do that.
Work on a vague life plan, gradually get it rolling, and in the meantime keep yourself busy. And I'd stay away from intimate relationships; if you -need- them, theyre bad for you. Very bad. I refuse to need another person.
-Jesda
iv been feeling suicidal at well I feel like nobody understands me and somtimes I wonder whats happens after you die I just lost the girl i loved for 3 years and she doesnt know if she wants to get back together and frankly It depresses me to hell. somtimes il be driving the 240 somewhere il see a big pond on the side of the road and wonder what people/friends/her would think if they drove by and saw my car half suberged in the water with me dead. I just wonder what good am I to everybody else when I get treated like **** and am good to everybody else. it makes me feel like im the midget in the stock market center everybody's voice counts except for mine and I get walked over and nobody cares about what I think and I havnt tried a counsler but im thinking about it im sjust not sure anymore i sit in the house someitmes and peopel will call me or talk to me online about her inbetween school and home and sombody will say somthing and Im w orry wort BTW.. and i will start worryign and breathing ahrd and walkign back and forth and grabbign my head and jsut wanting to go to sleep and not wake up. I remember seeing a video on TV once were 2 friends were good friends then he started doing drugs and takign overdoses and then ran his car off a cliff I cant remember the name of the movie I wish i did so i coudl see it as i saw it years ago. im just really sad I ****ing have been playing "everythign will be allright" by Jimmy Eat World. and Suicidal songs by Third Eye blind and I jstu get chills up my spine because I can relate to them and all I can think abotu every 3 seonds is her face in my hands and me beign with her
this is what usually happens when you get **** on. Has happened to me in the past with one girl. Took 3 years to get over her becuase the way she left me. But, drowing is the worst death and the most paintful is being stabed and sufficating isn't to fun eather.
But, as long as you got friends its all good man.
But, as long as you got friends its all good man.