ever wanted to give up on life?

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Whenever you get down just look at andrew w k. That man loves life and you should too. :D I know it seems hard at times, but stick with it and you might just enjoy life again. :D


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Give up means quitting. quitter=losers. Dont ever give up! We gathered here for a reason! Its our passion for cars!!! And use this as a motivator! Think what makes you happy and stay positive, and walk towards that light!!!!

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dont take the cowards way out...a long time ago my best friend did that...he left me at a time in my life where i couldnt have needed him more...i could go as far as saying he ****ed up my life...he was like my big brother, and he left me when i needed his guidance and support more then ever...dont do that to anyone jay, it's not fair. trust me, i know...

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every goddamned day.

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Have I? Yes.

Do I anymore? No.

I think everyone goes through that stage at some point of their life. Its up to them what path they take, hopefully they choose the right one.

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Hes drunk. HAHHAA

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I don't know about you, but I'll be damned if I leave this world a quitter.

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Look for something that will bring you peace. Find something that makes life worth living. If you search hard enough, you will find something.

I have a trump card that I use when I feel like I can't go down any lower. I've only really had to use it a few times in my life, but it brought me back up within a few hours. It brings meaning to my life when it looks as if life is pointless. My trump card is my avatar. It has yet to fail me, so I will continue to use it....

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every other day.

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I used to think about "giving up" but I figured that was stupid. I still live day to day depressed, but I started seeing a psychiatrist. They're not for "crazy people" haha. They are for people who need to talk to someone to help them sort things out. I suggest you try seeing one, and see how it goes.

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lol. Its not that im depressed im just weird. I think to myself "why the hell am i alive? im not helping anyone? im not making good money.

I am not even helping myself. The problem is i don't know how. I was never taught how to help myself. I was taught shut up and listen. So, a psychiatrist won't honestly help. I don't need someone to talk to.

But i am fine. I am to ***** to kill myself.

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lol. Its not that im depressed im just weird. I think to myself "why the hell am i alive? im not helping anyone? im not making good money.

I am not even helping myself. The problem is i don't know how. I was never taught how to help myself. I was taught shut up and listen. So, a psychiatrist won't honestly help. I don't need someone to talk to.

But i am fine. I am to ***** to kill myself.

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man, you don't want to do that.. no matter how you feel

Trust me...

My Wife's cousin who WAS 14 or somethign just killed himself

you have NO idea what it does to others around you.

I don't think he even comprehended the idea of ending his own life.... and I don't think you do either.

ending life just because you have had a rough patch in life is plain and utter stupid.

sorry, but it is the absolute truth.... it takes a bigger man/woman/human being to come out of it victorious... people

personally I t hink the people who take their lives were not strong enough to live in this world... survival of the fittest right?

be a pu$$y and end your life or be a man and keep going even when the whole world is against you... and show the world that you can make something of your life..

If luck doesn't find you... well then... get your arse up and go find it!!!!

if you need to talk... call me up... I have delt with this personally.. I know what people around you go through first hand...

it's not a play thing or a joke..

GO to a counselor!

people think by coming on to a forum and talking like that will make it go away.. this is your cry for help! wake up and admit that and go seek some help... really.. if not profesional help, then like I said, give me a call...

I am always willing to listen and help where ever I can...

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amen homeboy.

Suicide is the easy way out. Nothing good will come easy.

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Jay email me @ [email protected] adn I will give you my number

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lol woah.... its ok man. Honestly its not as bad as you think. It is kind of a norm for me. I think its just my situation right now. Its just talk and nothing more.

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I personally don't think talks of killing your self often is normal

but then again.... that's me

weather you admit it or not, you need to seek some help either profesional help or just talk to your friends..

it doesn't matter.

there are people who cry wolf all the time yes, but that doesn't mean that they don't need help!

doesn't mean that their problems won't get bigger than they already do, and if they do, what will you do then?

how do you cope with your problems right now? how will you then?

talking about taking your own life is not a subject that you joke about nor a normal thing...

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I used to be suicidal as hell from 7th-1st year of college. I'm all good now. If the depression gets really bad, seek some prof. help.

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talking to someone about your problems will help but when it comes down to it you're gonna be your biggest help.

I'm gonna find some pics of puppies and kittens playing now...

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Mr1der wrote:talking to someone about your problems will help but when it comes down to it you're gonna be your biggest help.

I'm gonna find some pics of puppies and kittens playing now...
wtf....... all the puppies and kittens am i suppose to awwww or be discusted :confused:

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Anand wrote:how do you cope with your problems right now? how will you then?

talking about taking your own life is not a subject that you joke about nor a normal thing...


I dunno. I kind of just go on with my day. I sleep a lot though and that helps. I sleep 10-15 hrs sometimes. I know taking your life isn't a joke. But, i was just sharing what i think every other day. I don't think im crying for wolf becuase i don't like to share it much becuase it turns into a big thing and its a big hassle.

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I know... it's a good thing that you haven't acted upon your thoughts BUT, I would suggest talking to your friends...

really I do... or seek some counseling... it will help tremendously.. really.

going to a counseling is not just for crazy peoples... sane people go to them too.. it's a healthy thing

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you my friend suffer from depression. you just dont comprehend the meaning of it...i as well have the issue...losing your life-long best friend does that to you...i wanted to kill myself, but i knew i couldnt do it because i could never hurt my family and friends like that. No matter what happens, it should never be an option...

trust me though, i suffer from some fairly bad depression and a good dose of anxiety as well...(imagine sitting at breakfast, unable to eat because you feel nauseated...the reason? because you swear to god the first bite you take is gonna break a molar out and choke you"...no joke, that's what happened the alst time i ran out of medication...didnt eat for 3 meals straight...

anyways, go to a doctor, get some happy pills...be on with life...trust me it ameks a world of difference...for the first few months i couldnt believe the difference

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well, i know the consequences and thats why i couldnt do that but it is crazy that the thoughts even cross my mind. and i am 300 miles away from anyone i really know. 2nchic is the only person i know in GA.still havent had much time to get out the past three months cause of my busy work schedule.

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oh yeah and now i have no more 240! parting the whole damn thing out or they are coming to get it.

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Anand wrote:I know... it's a good thing that you haven't acted upon your thoughts BUT, I would suggest talking to your friends...

really I do... or seek some counseling... it will help tremendously.. really.

going to a counseling is not just for crazy peoples... sane people go to them too.. it's a healthy thing


I agree. I've been to a counselor before. It didn't help because I didn't have any problems, but my parents wanted some reassurance.

However, I doubt you can afford to go to one unless you get a free one. They charge ridiculous amounts of money. Like $200 an hour or something. I should be one. $_$

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I'll charge him $20 an hr... that is a hellava deal!

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lol. While no one is posting on NICO general. I am postwhoring away >:[|]

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I think everyone who's really depressed or suicidal just needs to hit rock ****in bottom. I'm shooting for it now, I figure once I hit rock bottom, things can only improve from there! I've figured out the key to happiness and its simply to experience complete misery.


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