For the love of everything holy please do not ever use BMI as an indicator of health. It is such a pointless and inaccurate measurement...PoorManQ45 wrote:Doctors have resorted to using averages. Well, your BMI is on the upper end of average, but it's still in the average range. Well, the problem is that the average has been increasing over the years! Yeah, you're a man with a BMI of 25!!! Yeah, that's in the "average", but it's still overweight!
With younger people, I tend to agree. Over 30, the body naturally slows down and people get caught up with families, careers, etc. Its no longer as indicative of mental/emotional health or other issues.PoorManQ45 wrote: Weight and physical appearance is typically an indicator of how you feel about yourself.
No argument that as humans, we are all judgemental. And there is nothing wrong with that. But what one does with that information, like sharing it on a national forum, can be hurtful. It did not appear the women in the tiny pics PMQ posted became mobidly obese, just bigger than they were younger. How and why they got that way we can only speculate at best. A couple of them might have been pregnant or had some sort of physical ailment that PMQ brushes off as "excuses")AppleBonker wrote:Joel, aren't we all judgmental though? I know I certainly judge and stereotype everyone I see. I'm pretty sure it's impossible not to. However, I strive to not let that affect how I treat them or interact with them. To be honest, I have no idea what anyone has gone through in their life, so I don't know that I would be any different from them if facing the challenges they have dealt with. All I know and understand is my own very specific set of experiences, so what molds anyone else is completely foreign to me (which is why I treat everyone the same, regardless of my initial judgments/stereotypes).
And, I will certainly agree that there is a lot more to being healthy than just maintaining body weight. However, with the wealth of obesity-related health issues facing this nation, you have to admit that it is a legitimate concern. I may be a huge a** (and I'll readily admit it), but I don't like seeing anyone die or suffer. If the nation could deal with the obesity problem, I think we'd all be happier. Not to mention a lot of good people would live longer lives which is honestly my only interest.
Click on the pic to zoom in and look again.Bubba1 wrote:It did not appear the women in the tiny pics PMQ posted became mobidly obese, just bigger than they were younger.
But you have to admit that for the most part (at least in the US) the obesity/overweight epidemic is due to over-indulgence. While I cannot argue that some people have legitimate health issues that really devastate their ability to remain thin, this is definitely not the norm.Bubba1 wrote:A couple of them might have been pregnant or had some sort of physical ailment that PMQ brushes off as "excuses"
Given the source, I should've expected this. But it blind-sided me and I ended up laughing. Hard.Bubba1 wrote:reading Nala advice threads
Agreed, I don't eat more because i'm depressed or angry. When me and my wife got married I weighed 209lbs, now 3 1/2 yrs later I weigh 275lbs. Getting married, having kids, working, and life in general add a whole new list of priorities as you get older. I used to mountain bike, swim, work out and now i'm lucky if we can walk a mile a week with the baby in the stroller. Now the funny thing is, I actually intake the same and sometimes less amount of food that I did before I was married. Yes I could probably squeeze in some more time to maybe go to the gym, or get up and go for a jog in the morning but when you have a full schedule as it is, it's very easy to just put it off.Jesda wrote: With younger people, I tend to agree. Over 30, the body naturally slows down and people get caught up with families, careers, etc. Its no longer as indicative of mental/emotional health or other issues.
BZZZZT. Says who? You speak only for yourself.PoorManQ45 wrote:[
Weight and physical appearance is typically an indicator of how you feel about yourself.
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Right. a full schedule is a common cause. But to PMQ, who has not experienced many of these things (marriage+ kids+ work+home ownership), he considers them "excuses". That's wrong.A33 wrote:Agreed, I don't eat more because i'm depressed or angry. When me and my wife got married I weighed 209lbs, now 3 1/2 yrs later I weigh 275lbs. Getting married, having kids, working, and life in general add a whole new list of priorities as you get older. I used to mountain bike, swim, work out and now i'm lucky if we can walk a mile a week with the baby in the stroller. Now the funny thing is, I actually intake the same and sometimes less amount of food that I did before I was married. Yes I could probably squeeze in some more time to maybe go to the gym, or get up and go for a jog in the morning but when you have a full schedule as it is, it's very easy to just put it off.Jesda wrote: With younger people, I tend to agree. Over 30, the body naturally slows down and people get caught up with families, careers, etc. Its no longer as indicative of mental/emotional health or other issues.
Dattebayo wrote:I'm sure his parents make plenty of excuses to explain him away, too.
Yes and no. While I agree many are over indulgent when it comes to eating (I'm not exception when it comes to Pat's Steaks....burp), I think the term "over-indulgence" is too general. There are countless reasons behind why someone is self indulgent, many of which are beyond simple will power, like genetic predisposition or environment.AppleBonker wrote:[But you have to admit that for the most part (at least in the US) the obesity/overweight epidemic is due to over-indulgence. While I cannot argue that some people have legitimate health issues that really devastate their ability to remain thin, this is definitely not the norm.
Exactly, don't try to assume that everyone that is fat is just a lazy a** and doesn't do anything but eat. I get a lot of exercise every single day just with work, maintaining a home, and keeping up with my child but it's not enough to drop a considerable amount of weight. You can stand around and point fingers and make observations all you'd like, but you still don't know the true reason why most of those people are that way.Bubba1 wrote: Right. a full schedule is a common cause. But to PMQ, who has not experienced many of these things (marriage+ kids+ work+home ownership), he considers them "excuses". That's wrong.
I don't know that it comes down to being lazy, but it is still a choice. Follow me for a second. You could easily choose to abandon your family and get into better shape. It is a choice that can be made. Granted, most of us would think of you as a terrible person for making that decision, but it is possible. While the label of "excuse" is probably inaccurate, the word choice probably fits. I feel you have your priorities in line (family/work should probably come first). As I said in a previous post, I don't have the wife/kids deal, so I have NO idea how my life may change in the future or how difficult it may become to remain "in shape".A33 wrote:Exactly, don't try to assume that everyone that is fat is just a lazy a** and doesn't do anything but eat. I get a lot of exercise every single day just with work, maintaining a home, and keeping up with my child but it's not enough to drop a considerable amount of weight. You can stand around and point fingers and make observations all you'd like, but you still don't know the true reason why most of those people are that way.Bubba1 wrote:Right. a full schedule is a common cause. But to PMQ, who has not experienced many of these things (marriage+ kids+ work+home ownership), he considers them "excuses". That's wrong.
epic post my friendthemadscientist wrote:People get fat, so what? People in Somalia would call that success.
Well put, I don't disagree with you one bit there. I could also just as easily spend less time with my family in order to create time for me to workout and exercise, as you said it is a choice that can be made. I just choose to spend my time as I do because I love my family and I love what I do for a living. Everyones priorities are different, whether you're married and have children or not so I don't blame a totally different person in the same situation for working out everyday and being in shape.AppleBonker wrote: I don't know that it comes down to being lazy, but it is still a choice. Follow me for a second. You could easily choose to abandon your family and get into better shape. It is a choice that can be made. Granted, most of us would think of you as a terrible person for making that decision, but it is possible. While the label of "excuse" is probably inaccurate, the word choice probably fits. I feel you have your priorities in line (family/work should probably come first). As I said in a previous post, I don't have the wife/kids deal, so I have NO idea how my life may change in the future or how difficult it may become to remain "in shape".

see, there's nothing wrong with that at all. it's all about what you do afterwards.Captain Slow wrote:I'm eating McDonald's right now.
I usually poop afterwards.PoorManQ45 wrote:see, there's nothing wrong with that at all. it's all about what you do afterwards.Captain Slow wrote:I'm eating McDonald's right now.
thisJesda wrote:
I usually poop afterwards.
We can't all follow your example of losing weight by furious masturbatlon.PoorManQ45 wrote:see, there's nothing wrong with that at all. it's all about what you do afterwards.
I don't eat fast food often. But when I do, this ^ is the result. I poo. Furiously.Jesda wrote:I usually poop afterwards.