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Space Monkey wrote: There is always a hotter female, which means there is always a temptation. Even when you're happy with the love of your life, every guy will see a smoking hot chick and say "I'd hit it!".
Not necessarily.

Believe it or not, and I hope you all get to experience this in your life: There comes a time when you see "smoking hot" and go, "Pfft... Whatever."

You start to see that there's nothing "smoking hot" about dumb. Or annoying. Or materialistic. Or clingy. Or self-absorbed. Or any number of other common "smoking hot chick" traits.
Space Monkey wrote:It's whether or not you're man enough to say NO at the right moments to keep your girl. That's what counts.
And until you get to the point I described above, that's EXACTLY right.


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Space Monkey wrote:^ Will apparently never understand a guys mind.
Don't make all guys look bad just because you have no self control (and no taste).

It takes more than a nice body to get me hot and bothered. Like Greg said, there's nothing hot about dumb, annoying, or materialistic. Or narcissistic. If you're ready to drop your girl at the first sign of someone hotter, you haven't found the love of your life. The unattractiveness of stupid far outweighs the attractiveness of a nice body. Dumb girls are annoying (dumb guys are annoying too, but I'm a dude and not gay, so that's beside the point). If all it takes to trigger your "I'd hit it" alarm is a nice pair of boobs, that's your low standards, not Michelle's lack of understanding of "a guys [sic] mind".

"Smokin' hot" is great to look at. To actually spend my time with? I'll take an average looking, smart-as-hell chick any day. If I see a smokin' hot chick I'll still look. But she won't be a threat to my relationship.

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MinisterofDOOM wrote:"Smokin' hot" is great to look at. To actually spend my time with? I'll take an average looking, smart-as-hell chick any day. If I see a smokin' hot chick I'll still look. But she won't be a threat to my relationship.
i proved this last night at the pool hall. hot chick, i checked her out, then completely dismissed her and continued to text my girl.

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do people actually think like this? pardon me but...

WHAT THE f*** ARE YOU THINKING!? Obviously your current relationship is not working, guess what you do, you break up and move on.

why in gods name would you cheat, induce drama, and make enemies? when all you need to do is be honest and say what you are both thinking. dont be a slime ball, break up with her face to face and move on.

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GOING OUT TO DINNER AND GETTING A DRINK IS NOT CHEATING!!! That's what I don't understand these days, I guess people are so insecure their significant others aren't even allowed to go out and have fun with the opposite sex. I say go out with chick, see what she is about and weigh your options, that isn't cheating that's taking the smart approach.

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introduce the married lady to your gf and try to make an

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I think Koshin's on to something.

For real don't worry bout that lady for now, get you own place to bang chicks guilt free, Bex is so wise, RUN!!!!!!!!Before kid, not after.

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Dire91 wrote:GOING OUT TO DINNER AND GETTING A DRINK IS NOT CHEATING!!! That's what I don't understand these days, I guess people are so insecure their significant others aren't even allowed to go out and have fun with the opposite sex. I say go out with chick, see what she is about and weigh your options, that isn't cheating that's taking the smart approach.
I'd consider my girlfriend going on a date, after being with her for over two years, "cheating."

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Philipio wrote:I'd consider my girlfriend going on a date, after being with her for over two years, "cheating."

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I'd say it depends on the person you are dining with, imo.

If its just some strange, then yes you are cheating.

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to be honest, if youre thinking of cheating on your girl, you shouldnt be with her. Just break it off (inside her) with her and move on. Thats what an adult would do. Now you have to decide if youre going to be an adult or not.

have respect for her and yourself, and just end it.

then f*** every hot thing that walks

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AZhitman wrote:
Not necessarily.

Believe it or not, and I hope you all get to experience this in your life: There comes a time when you see "smoking hot" and go, "Pfft... Whatever."

You start to see that there's nothing "smoking hot" about dumb. Or annoying. Or materialistic. Or clingy. Or self-absorbed. Or any number of other common "smoking hot chick" traits.
AZ, I wish I could agree. I am more of a scientist than a "living in a perfect world" person. We are human. Just an intelligent animal. We all have different attractions as beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You may not find the same women attractive that i do.

Your post above is very stereotypical for "hot" chicks and if that is how you think, you can't tell me that if you met some chick randomly (innocently!) that did not come with those traits and was hotter than ever, that you would not even have a single thought of "wow...she is very attractive." Then move on shopping and go home to Bex and be happy anyways.
MinisterofDOOM wrote:
Don't make all guys look bad just because you have no self control (and no taste).
You need to chill. I was not doing anything like that.
MinisterofDOOM wrote:If I see a smokin' hot chick I'll still look.
Proves my point. When you're looking, you do not have a blank mind.

It is not tasteless to be attracted someone and dream a little bit. It is tasteless when you live the dream and get with all of them while having some in the dark about it.

Stop being naive.

I have not cheated on anyone and will never. I have been on one nighter's to engagement with no issues or mistakes in regards to cheating.

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this thread is retarded.


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theres really no reason for you to cheat... seriously.

if your currently relationship isn't going anywhere... break it off. But don't jump into another relationship right after either... it'll make you look hella bad. Just stay good friends with the new chick and see where it goes from there

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but the new chick is married

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Or wears rings like she is.

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i've met girls who wore rings just to throw guys off because they weren't interested in meeting anyone.

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goose her down and never speak of it again... think about it, you are in a relationship, she is married...that means there is no commitment needed or wanted by either party. if you break up with your g/f and bang the new girl, you are going to get attached to her and your whole little world is going to come crashing down when she tells you that she just wants your nuts and she already has a cozy bed to sleep in right next to a fat wallet at night. bang her brains out, drop her off at home and never call her again. if she mobs a hemi and sports a diamond ring... sounds to me like she wants to pay for dinner and some booze too lol. everyone else is going to tell you family this, family that, but dude just realize you are young and you might not have many more chances to have such a hot fling. so go show her who is boss and do everything to her that you have always dreamed of doing to a woman but felt too reserved to do haha

ps... i was in a relationship and another girl was texting me and i ended up being totally head over heels for her, but my current (ex) gf found out about her and threw a pissy fit. and so anyways to make a long story short, im no longer with the girl that got pissed at me for talking to the other girl and i think the one she scared away could have totally been my soul mate lol. im just saying take a que from Sav-c (nocturnal hustlers), "invest too much in a b**** and get your heart broken, thats why i treat em like dirt and keep my options open..." i already know that comment is going to cause a s*** storm, but whatever. women are treturous, i dont care what anyone says. unless you find a totally naive one from the middle of nowhere in teh heart of america, you are screwed from the start...or atleast where i come from. because in todays day and age of womens rights, the beautiful girl know they have options and they also know what you wont do...someone else will. so screw being in a failing relationship and screw being in one that is doomed from the start. just sit back and watch the world burn dude.
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^^^I like your way of thinking bro.

*slow clap* for you my friend

can you and I be friends?

circle yes or no

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wake up in the morning feeling like p diddy

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Jesda wrote:wake up in the morning feeling like Jesda

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Koshin wrote:^^^I like your way of thinking bro.

*slow clap* for you my friend

can you and I be friends?

circle yes or no
now we are BEST friends hehehehe

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a whole lot of ghey just happened

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if i were u and if it was my gf, also this happend today?i will slam the hell out of her. f*** b****es stay single if ure young....maybe cuz im bitter we broke up but f***...honestly that prolly whats gonna happen tonight anyway lol
big_rig wrote:... "invest too much in a b**** and get your heart broken, thats why i treat em like dirt and keep my options open..." i already know that comment is going to cause a s*** storm, but whatever.
nahhhhh yo this is 100 % correct....... trust me lol ive learn the hardest way. this is my new quote to my life lol for real man

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JLAUDIO85 wrote:if i were u and if it was my gf, also this happend today?i will slam the hell out of her. f*** b****es stay single if ure young....maybe cuz im bitter we broke up but f***...honestly that prolly whats gonna happen tonight anyway lol

nahhhhh yo this is 100 % correct....... trust me lol ive learn the hardest way. this is my new quote to my life lol for real man
i used to hold women in the highest respect, but i learned that is just a mentality that is setting me up for failure. and remember what dr. dre said, "you cant make a hoe a house wife..." so learn to recognize the difference between a lady and the less than ladies asap haha

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my intelligence is suffering with every subsequent post in this thread

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numbnuts240 wrote:my intelligence is suffering with every subsequent post in this thread
lol you dont like my rap quotes? should i pick another genre that better suits your taste? im a quotin' mo'fo

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big_rig wrote:
i used to hold women in the highest respect, but i learned that is just a mentality that is setting me up for failure. and remember what dr. dre said, "you cant make a hoe a house wife..." so learn to recognize the difference between a lady and the less than ladies asap haha
nahh it not even that...my girl was farrr from a hoe n im not just defend her (which i really dont give a crap). it just that i realized i spent more than a year, almost 2 years trying to have something with her cuz i knew she's proper not like other hoes ive seen around. but it turned out she was just using me to get over her personal issues....lemme tell u s*** hit the fan last night.

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i like rap just fine.


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