would you cheat???

[Koshin]

now we are BEST friends hehehehe

I haz new BFF!!!

a whole lot of ghey just happened

On the real, if youre with the right women, all these things that are being said will be thrown out the window. I would be the first guy to say all the things that are being said. I have met three women in my life that have been worth a damn. One was my best friend, one I dated for three years and then broke up with becasue it just wasnt right and I dont like to waste time with people. Then I was single for 2 years, had mad b****es (no of which were good for anything other than the production of man chowder). Now Im with the girl of my dreams and shes everything Ive ever wanted in a b****. You will meet the right girl, believe me. But until then, f*** every hot thing that you can until you find the right one.

This is just advise, do what you want fellas.

[Koshin]

nahh it not even that...my girl was farrr from a hoe n im not just defend her (which i really dont give a crap). it just that i realized i spent more than a year, almost 2 years trying to have something with her cuz i knew she's proper not like other hoes ive seen around. but it turned out she was just using me to get over her personal issues....lemme tell u s*** hit the fan last night.

I thought we diecided you werent gonna tell everyone our business? keep my name out cha mouf

[adrianfromthecastle]

but the new chick is married

PWNT

[krimsonviper]

GOING OUT TO DINNER AND GETTING A DRINK IS NOT CHEATING!!! That's what I don't understand these days, I guess people are so insecure their significant others aren't even allowed to go out and have fun with the opposite sex. I say go out with chick, see what she is about and weigh your options, that isn't cheating that's taking the smart approach.

Yes it is. Cheating is doing something with someone, other than with your significant other, and doesn't know about it and wouldn't approve.

[adrianfromthecastle]

Yes it is. Cheating is doing something with someone, other than with your significant other, and doesn't know about it and wouldn't approve.

especially if your significant other has no idea of whats happening

[MinisterofDOOM]

Proves my point. When you're looking, you do not have a blank mind.

There's a big difference between "should I cheat" and "She's hot." Appreciated hotness is one thing. Wanting to drop whatever you're doing to bang every girl you see is an entirely different thing. It actually is ENTIRELY possible to appreciate a good looking girl without wanting to bang her.

[TurboSauce]

wake up in the morning feeling like p diddy

Put my glasses on, i'm out the doorI'm gonna hit this city

[arabdrifter]

Yay, girl's prospective time!

I've been cheated on. A lot. Not a good feeling. Just sayin'. Anyway.

To be completely honest, without even considering the possibility of ACTUALLY cheating on your girlfriend with this new girl, I think the fact that you're even DEBATING it is reason enough to break up with your current girlfriend. Subconsciously or not, you are not into this relationship anymore, and it is blatantly obvious by your wandering eye. Granted, even though you haven't done anything, I think the fact you are even ENTERTAINING the thought of this new girl is your answer. If you were truly happy in your relationship, it wouldn't matter who came into your gas station/threw themselves at you etc, blah blah blah.

You know what you should do. You are just too lazy/comfortable/settled in your current situation to make some waves. Do yourself the favor, and save your current girlfriend some heartache and end it amicably as possible, or as painlessly as possible. You, sir, have been gone from this relationship for a while. Stop fooling yourself and man up.

**update***- its officially over! decided that just not worth hurting each other. we both decided to be friends. it was upsetting but we did it the right way and i indeed man'ed up! ^ wat u said was 100% correct..the fact that it would come up as a thought is wrong..but i would never cheat in a million yrs!

Yes it is. Cheating is doing something with someone, other than with your significant other, and doesn't know about it and wouldn't approve.

very true..if i saw my gf with another dude just dining..that sh*t would be over in a sec!!

theres really no reason for you to cheat... seriously.

if your currently relationship isn't going anywhere... break it off. But don't jump into another relationship right after either... it'll make you look hella bad. Just stay good friends with the new chick and see where it goes from there

agreed..would never cheat cuz ive been cheated on in the past....

[arabdrifter]

Not necessarily.

Believe it or not, and I hope you all get to experience this in your life: There comes a time when you see "smoking hot" and go, "Pfft... Whatever."

You start to see that there's nothing "smoking hot" about dumb. Or annoying. Or materialistic. Or clingy. Or self-absorbed. Or any number of other common "smoking hot chick" traits.

And until you get to the point I described above, that's EXACTLY right.

Az....ur advice is priceless and i appreciate your help bud! along with everyone's advice, this is again why i joined these forms. i needed help and u guys were there to help. AZ, we pretty much chatted for awhile and she understood, wasnt easy for both of us but we got through it. she treated me very well and i figured i would go out like a gentleman and do the same. we decided to be friends now and i still talk/chill/hangout with her, because Jennifer is somebody i still care for.

[Chiquitita]

Yay, girl's prospective time!

I've been cheated on. A lot. Not a good feeling. Just sayin'. Anyway.

To be completely honest, without even considering the possibility of ACTUALLY cheating on your girlfriend with this new girl, I think the fact that you're even DEBATING it is reason enough to break up with your current girlfriend. Subconsciously or not, you are not into this relationship anymore, and it is blatantly obvious by your wandering eye. Granted, even though you haven't done anything, I think the fact you are even ENTERTAINING the thought of this new girl is your answer. If you were truly happy in your relationship, it wouldn't matter who came into your gas station/threw themselves at you etc, blah blah blah.

You know what you should do. You are just too lazy/comfortable/settled in your current situation to make some waves. Do yourself the favor, and save your current girlfriend some heartache and end it amicably as possible, or as painlessly as possible. You, sir, have been gone from this relationship for a while. Stop fooling yourself and man up.

You said it girl! Totally agree with you.

[Mr1der]

i've met girls who wore rings just to throw guys off because they weren't interested in meeting anyone.

us guys have been known to do the opposite because dumb women love forbidden fruit.

[Dano]

Don't make all guys look bad just because you have no self control (and no taste).

It takes more than a nice body to get me hot and bothered. Like Greg said, there's nothing hot about dumb, annoying, or materialistic. Or narcissistic. If you're ready to drop your girl at the first sign of someone hotter, you haven't found the love of your life. The unattractiveness of stupid far outweighs the attractiveness of a nice body. Dumb girls are annoying (dumb guys are annoying too, but I'm a dude and not gay, so that's beside the point). If all it takes to trigger your "I'd hit it" alarm is a nice pair of boobs, that's your low standards, not Michelle's lack of understanding of "a guys [sic] mind".

"Smokin' hot" is great to look at. To actually spend my time with? I'll take an average looking, smart-as-hell chick any day. If I see a smokin' hot chick I'll still look. But she won't be a threat to my relationship.

So, so true. And as being someone on the other end of the spectrum and got cheated on, it's the worst feeling in the world, especially when things were peachy for the most part before then.

[krash]

There's a big difference between "should I cheat" and "She's hot." Appreciated hotness is one thing. Wanting to drop whatever you're doing to bang every girl you see is an entirely different thing. It actually is ENTIRELY possible to appreciate a good looking girl without wanting to bang her.

EXACTLY. I can actually talk to my girlfriend about how another girl looks, and there are no problems. She knows I'm not going to cheat, and I know I'm not going to cheat. You just need to mature up to the point where you know that, A) You're not the hottest person in the world, and B) You're not going to date the hottest person in the world. Then you need to find someone that has matured to this level as well. And it doesn't even really matter all that much because looks or being "hot" is only ONE detail about a human being. There are so many other things that make up a person, when you find out that being "hot" isn't really all that big of a deal, stress is relieved in relationships.

[sentrastace]

Yay, girl's prospective time!

I've been cheated on. A lot. Not a good feeling. Just sayin'. Anyway.

To be completely honest, without even considering the possibility of ACTUALLY cheating on your girlfriend with this new girl, I think the fact that you're even DEBATING it is reason enough to break up with your current girlfriend. Subconsciously or not, you are not into this relationship anymore, and it is blatantly obvious by your wandering eye. Granted, even though you haven't done anything, I think the fact you are even ENTERTAINING the thought of this new girl is your answer. If you were truly happy in your relationship, it wouldn't matter who came into your gas station/threw themselves at you etc, blah blah blah.

You know what you should do. You are just too lazy/comfortable/settled in your current situation to make some waves. Do yourself the favor, and save your current girlfriend some heartache and end it amicably as possible, or as painlessly as possible. You, sir, have been gone from this relationship for a while. Stop fooling yourself and man up.

you hit the nail on the head with that one. i completely agree!

[dusred]

wake up in the morning feeling like p diddy

How ironic. I'm jammin to Tik Tok right now.

How did you know?

[JustinStrife]

This forum is so unlike the one I spend all my time on now.

Pics of new ex? Pics of married woman? Gotta see what I'm dealing with before making a decision. Just find a girlfriend that doesn't mind bringing other girls into the picture. win/win

[krimsonviper]

This forum is so unlike the one I spend all my time on now.

[JustinStrife]

I think it's an age thing. The jokes are a bit less juvenile in the other forum and there's more talk about teets and azz.

Oh yeah and lots of gun threads. I love those.

Still waiting on pics from the OP.

[nissangirl74]

The jokes are a bit less juvenile in the other forum and there's more talk about teets and azz.

Isn't that a contradiction in term?

[PEZi]

Yes it is. Cheating is doing something with someone, other than with your significant other, and doesn't know about it and wouldn't approve.

i agree.... but add you this...

if its just dinner and a drink..... why would your girl disapprove unless there are other issues anyway? they should be ok with it or they aren't worth being with

[krimsonviper]

if its just dinner and a drink..... why would your girl disapprove unless there are other issues anyway? they should be ok with it or they aren't worth being with

You should still ask. Yeah, if it's a good, strong, with no loyalty issues, than there shouldn't be any problems, but don't create waves where there doesn't need to be.

[PEZi]

yeah you should tell them before hand.... unless its a spur of the moment thing.... in which case if you tell them after they should still be good with it

[nissangirl74]

i agree.... but add you this...

if its just dinner and a drink..... why would your girl disapprove

If she can't trust the other woman to not pull something stupid. It's one thing to trust your significant other. How do you trust a complete stranger?

[krimsonviper]

If she can't trust the other woman to not pull something stupid. It's one thing to trust your significant other. How do you trust a complete stranger?

I feel like that's not trusting your significant other, too. My perspective is don't you trust him enough to make sure she doesn't get him in a position to take advantage? I wouldn't mind a lady's view.

[AZhitman]

This forum is so unlike the one I spend all my time on now.

Pics of new ex? Pics of married woman? Gotta see what I'm dealing with before making a decision. Just find a girlfriend that doesn't mind bringing other girls into the picture. win/win

Big surprise there.

Hottest threads on that forum:

"PETITION: Bring back the T-tops""How many shirt buttons should I leave unbuttoned?""Getting sweat stains out of a polyester shirt""What do I say when someone claims my Corvette was built by Chevrolet?""Gold chains - How many do YOU wear?""Post pictures of your wife's boobs. And your address.""My daughter's friends are hot - pics from the sleepover.""For sale: Brown toupee, gently used. No trades.""Teets and azz... Did I mention I drive a Corvette?""Modifying your C4 cupholder to fit Viagra bottle - no tools required."

[PEZi]

"My daughter's friends are hot - pics from the sleepover."

[nissangirl74]

I feel like that's not trusting your significant other, too. My perspective is don't you trust him enough to make sure she doesn't get him in a position to take advantage? I wouldn't mind a lady's view.

Some people are jealous, some people aren't. I'm not. Trust is black and white. You either have it or you don't. There is no in-between.

Question for you. What is the main goal of ANY man who takes a woman out to dinner?

[PEZi]

Question for you. What is the main goal of ANY man who takes a woman out to dinner?

there's no black and white for this.... depends on girl... history together.... etc.

[krimsonviper]

Some people are jealous, some people aren't. I'm not. Trust is black and white. You either have it or you don't. There is no in-between.

Question for you. What is the main goal of ANY man who takes a woman out to dinner?

You can't stereo type us guys like that. Granted, 90% are there for poon, but there's a selected few who's there to either catch up, or kill time because they're not interested in the lady at hand.

[nissangirl74]

there's no black and white for this.... depends on girl... history together.... etc.

You can't stereo type us guys like that. Granted, 90% are there for poon, but there's a selected few who's there to either catch up, or kill time because they're not interested in the lady at hand.

I'm not saying you guys are wrong or that you are like all other guys. I don't have a personal issue with it because I trust my husband completely. No ifs ands or buts about it. Some women just don't trust at all, under any circumstances. Some guys are the same way.