numbnuts240 wrote:or they're junkies/alcoholics. i was asked for money to buy food. i refused to give the dude money, but instead bought him a cheeseburger and fries from mcdonalds. i came out and offered it to him and the f*** turned it down with a disgusted face. i dumped the fries for the birds, unwrapped the burger, spit in it, wrapped it back up and tossed it at him. f*** ***hole.
Yeah. Sadly, the area around where I work has really done a great job of killing my pity for the "homeless." Don't get me wrong, I still feel horrible for the legitimately homeless. But most of the panhandlers here are fakes. They've gotten very careless in their greed, too. I've been approached by some of them multiple times in the same night with different excuses. I've been approached by some night after night with the same "I just need a couple bucks for bus fair to get home." But the final straw was when they started camping drive through menus. I can't order my food without being harangued? At that point, I don't even care if they ARE legitimately down on their luck. Generally, when one is seeking favors, one shows respect. None of these beggars, legit or otherwise, do that. They look pitiful, sure. But there's no respect, no gratitude. It's EXPECTED that I'll give them some money. They only ask out of formality. It's not really a question, it's "I need money, give me some." No. I need money, too, dammit. Get lost.