something i've been wondering here recently........Asian women.........

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is it wrong for white guys to date asian women? i've been wondering ever since my friend started dating one. i think that asian women are very mysterious and beautiful. i wonder if i could find what i am looking for in a women with an asian lady? i know there are cultural differences but hell i dont see anything wrong with that. maybe she could teach me a thing or two about life and respect and on and on. im i sounding strange to anyone? i just dont think white women have it anymore.


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Nice way to generalize and totally bash an entire race of women. There's always something to learn from everyone - regardless of race.

Anywho - I usually date white guys.

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vicki wrote:Nice way to generalize and totally bash an entire race of women. There's always something to learn from everyone - regardless of race.

Anywho - I usually date white guys.





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see, i really didnt want to start this but i thought i would get everyones input. just like white women they let themselves go or are so worried about looking good that it becomes obsessive. but it seems like it comes natural for asian women. i am really gonna seek out them as my new interests. probably wont have any luck though

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JayPat83 wrote:is it wrong for white guys to date asian women? i've been wondering ever since my friend started dating one. i think that asian women are very mysterious and beautiful. i wonder if i could find what i am looking for in a women with an asian lady? i know there are cultural differences but hell i dont see anything wrong with that. maybe she could teach me a thing or two about life and respect and on and on. im i sounding strange to anyone? i just dont think white women have it anymore.
Asian women? Are you kidding? THEYRE ALL CRAZY!

Okay, on a serious note, there's no mystery.

I dated a girl for a year was into me because I was asian... SO frustrating. I kept getting upset with her "Do you think all we freaking do is play DDR, watch anime, eat rice, and design electronics!?"

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nvm i guess ill delete this one sorry ppl.

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No harm done!I'm just saying, she's not going to cast spells or teach you how to perform acupuncture. Just approach as you would any other girl, and your expectations should be the same.

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I love the white/asian women.....omg, so beautiful. I like the muts, what can i say.

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LMAO!

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I see many Asian women as elegant. Very respectful, very beautiful, very perfect. My old g/f was of Filipino/chinese ethnicity. Fireball!

Her and I used to joke around about race and issues, like Jesda talked about. She would call me leprechaun(sp?) and I would call her Ninja, and we'd make fun of it in a cool way. I'd karate chop her while she'd be cooking me dinner, then she'd run and drop kick me(5'3" 103lbs built for speed!) and piss me off... then we'd be back to normal.

Her family didn't approve of her or her sisters dating white guys, so all three sisters kept their boyfriends secret from their parents. The sisters, all 3 of them, did not and would not and will not date Asian men. I used to ask why? The only answer I ever got from any of them is "I want a real man, I don't like smaller guys... blah blah.. " seriously, and not to insult Asian men, but those were two common answers.

I kicked her out because she attacked me with a kitchen knife, for real, after we had a fight. I knew kinda then & there that although she was top notch, she was insane and could not control her emotions or her actions.. and decided it was OK to take it to the next level.


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SmithSR wrote:I see many Asian women as elegant. Very respectful, very beautiful, very perfect. My old g/f was of Filipino/chinese ethnicity. Fireball!

Her and I used to joke around about race and issues, like Jesda talked about. She would call me leprechaun(sp?) and I would call her Ninja, and we'd make fun of it in a cool way. I'd karate chop her while she'd be cooking me dinner, then she'd run and drop kick me(5'3" 103lbs built for speed!) and piss me off... then we'd be back to normal.

Her family didn't approve of her or her sisters dating white guys, so all three sisters kept their boyfriends secret from their parents. The sisters, all 3 of them, did not and would not and will not date Asian men. I used to ask why? The only answer I ever got from any of them is "I want a real man, I don't like smaller guys... blah blah.. " seriously, and not to insult Asian men, but those were two common answers.

I kicked her out because she attacked me with a kitchen knife, for real, after we had a fight. I knew kinda then & there that although she was top notch, she was insane and could not control her emotions or her actions.. and decided it was OK to take it to the next level.
Holy shi tte muslim. No offense but your post cracked me up like woah

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She tried to dice ya for her stir fry.

So wrong I know.

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^WOW!

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JayPat..don't worry about it man. You're white, thus the perentage of dating an asian woman is really high. Most go after white guys. hahaha. I assume asian male here in the US are all retarded? It's all good man. Get an asian woman and show her a thing or two about being asian

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well see. maybe they'll fall all over me and my new sleeper

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I wonder if they'll like my sexy, sleek, yet exciting black Toy?? I bet they've never enjoyed a ride like a ride with my Toy.

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they'll love the taco....... but wait! i thought they had the taco?!?!

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Well I got my Toy that will make their taco leak gear fluid. haha

Procrastinating from hw is awesome.

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I think women of all races can me misterious and beautiful...

I'm usually attracted to the (I call it) the "half-lings" <~ no bad connotation there at all so no offense needs to be taken by anyone..

that basically just means that I like women who are kind of mixed race but more like half and half of any race.. I don't discriminate at all!!

It's the person that makes the differance not the race..

Yes, there will be tons of cultural diff. but that' the great thing about dating other races is that you learn so much that it's awesome....

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If your wanting a catalog bride use google. If you want a FOB go learn there language. If you want one raised/born in america most likely they will act like most of the women born here.........Normal

I have never dated any asian woman. But my friend was different from the others i hanged out with. It has nothing to do with culture or race. Its all how the person looks at life and views things.

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maybe i was being to general and shouldn't be categorizing just cause of my bad experience with three women/girls.

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JayPat83 wrote:maybe i was being to general and shouldn't be categorizing just cause of my bad experience with three women/girls.
good call. Everyone is different just remember that.

I was raised in a multi culture background so its not any different hanging out with black to hispanic to asian to whatever. I only find asian&hispanic woman attractive. I don't know im just weird like that

Also respecting culture is kinda a family thing. If the family is heavly hispanic like my moms side you need to act a certain way around grandma and uncles

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I think it's harder to date someone outside your own race straight up. I'm not saying that it will never work, but it's always harder. If i was you jay, I'd go for it. I mean why not? If you are more attracted to an asian girl, then date an asian girl.

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well if they werent so damn beautiful!

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yah. Asian woman are nice, but it would never happen for me. Seems everyone wants them now of days.... I really only see well built guys with most of them too.

I guess its just me becuase im a doofus

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JayPat83 wrote:maybe i was being to general and shouldn't be categorizing just cause of my bad experience with three women/girls.
REAL good call.

Get thee into the double (or triple) digits before you start generalizing.

Also, if it hasn't been said before, ethnicity has ZERO to do with any of the character traits you referenced.

No offense, but here's something that helps me: When i wake up in the morning, I look in the mirror and say, "Don't say anything stupid today." Sometimes I listen to me, sometimes I don't.

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ah good ol Phil and his experiences with bat**** crazy girls...

mutts rock!

seldom does Greg listen to himself though...

Me, I've just quit trying to negotiate with myself.

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I just like women. That's as far as I break it down to.

If I say I like asian girls, the next week I start liking a white girl.If I say I like white girls, the next week I start liking a black girl.If I say I like black girls, the next week I start liking a south american girl.If I say I like south american girls, the next week I start liking a middle eastern girl.If I say I like middle eastern girls, the next week I start liking an asian girls.

So I'll just cut to the chase, I like all girls.

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NO FAT CHICKS!

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why? fat chicks are teh hotness.


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