So apparently my girl committed 'social suicide'

[Crunkrich]

Last friday we were hanging out all night and had a pretty good time, nothing out of the ordinary. I got a text in the morning saying 'wow I'm really sorry about last night' and that was the last I heard from her. Some of her friends havent heard from her either.

On sunday she posted 'Social Suicide' on her facebook and thats it.

Urban Dictionary: Social Suicide

commiting an act or acts that alienates one from their social scene or social circle

to kill one's social life

the ability or act of remaking ones self by shunning what they feel they are expected to be through starting over and becoming who they always felt they were.

I get what the definition means, but for real?

[numbnuts240]

melodrama is awesome, isn't it?

[Bubba1]

Last friday we were hanging out all night and had a pretty good time, nothing out of the ordinary. I got a text in the morning saying 'wow I'm really sorry about last night' and that was the last I heard from her. Some of her friends havent heard from her either.

On sunday she posted 'Social Suicide' on her facebook and thats it.

Urban Dictionary: Social Suicide

commiting an act or acts that alienates one from their social scene or social circle

to kill one's social life

the ability or act of remaking ones self by shunning what they feel they are expected to be through starting over and becoming who they always felt they were.

I get what the definition means, but for real?

Well, Sunday was only yesterday and she's the only one who explain what she meant. Why don't you visit her this evening and find out what happened at the party to make her write that?

[numbnuts240]

Well, Sunday was only yesterday

pssst, today is tuesday

[Bmore-coupe]

pssst, today is tuesday

[Otto.]

pssst, today is tuesday

He got roofied.

[Crunkrich]

Well, Sunday was only yesterday and she's the only one who explain what she meant. Why don't you visit her this evening and find out what happened at the party to make her write that?

She won't answer any calls, and to be honest I haven't met her mom yet, where she lives. I've met her dad but she doesn't live there. I'm not trying to creep on her or anything, but I'm thinking about going to her work about the time she gets off. ugh wtf

[numbnuts240]

how long have you been dating?

[Crunkrich]

its only been a month, im not going to explain everything but basically we both agreed, by the discussions and whatnot that we've had it seemed we had been together for a lot longer than that. I dunno how many nights we stayed up til 4 or 5 in the morning just talking.

it was like everything just 'clicked' and we both agreed not to have sex until we were sure of things. she had asked me if I wanted something that could be long-term, which was what she wanted, and I said yeah. we were both tired of the 'dating game' I guess.

I'm guessing that kind of scared her, the fact that emotionally were we pretty far along. I dunno its hard to figure out a relationship when all I have are my thoughts.

then again, its only been a month, so im not like torn over it but it would be nice to know what happened.

[numbnuts240]

interesting. especially since you said everything was cool saturday night. swing by her job and try and catch her to see what's up.

[princess37]

okay i realllllllyyyy dont want to sound like a bad person cause im far from that but do you think she could be saying she committed social suicide maybe because people found out she stayed at your house all night?



but anyway just stop by her job to see what is up

[Crunkrich]

okay i realllllllyyyy dont want to sound like a bad person cause im far from that but do you think she could be saying she committed social suicide maybe because people found out she stayed at your house all night?



but anyway just stop by her job to see what is up

she didn't, she dropped me off at my car then went home cause she had work in the morning. even if she did, that wouldnt have been a big deal.

I guess I'll swing by her work when she gets off around ten, if she's even working today, lol?

[danshaz82]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy06_fixNJM

[krash]

Maybe she thinks she did something wrong/something you didn't like? And shes now really embarrassed about it? Maybe she let one rip on the car ride back? j/k, but yea my best guess is she thinks she did something wrong

[alphapig]

Facebook is me greatest nemesis.

I don't think anyone would commit "social suicide" if the option to post it online, so that every 'friend' can see, wasn't available.

Sounds like asking for an explanation in person is the way to go.

[Bubba1]

He got roofied.

LOL, I wish. Whoops!! Senior moment.... . But despite my losing all track of days, my point is still holds. I'm sure you'll find your answer when you see her in person after work. It's not creepy at all. You two are dating and you are concerned she's ok.

[numbnuts240]

Facebook is me greatest nemesis.

[MellowZ32]

maybe her friends found out that she's dating you!

[PoorManQ45]

its only been a month

That's it! You're a leper!

[Crunkrich]

maybe her friends found out that she's dating you!

lol, all her friends love me, no kidding. apparently she's dated some a$$.

according to her, her dad is a really hard man to impress and he has not liked any of the guys she has dated. when we had dinner at his house, he didnt stop talking to me and we got along real well. her and her stepmom were dumbfounded.

which is why this is really bugging me, friends like me, parents liked me, she liked me, then BOOM cya later alligator.

ill give the update later tonight on how things go

[Crunkrich]

That's it! You're a leper!

damn, i was hoping no one would figure out

[hatedinthemind]

Has she ever shown any sign of depression?

[PyR0NiAk]

lol, all her friends love me, no kidding. apparently she's dated some a$$.

according to her, her dad is a really hard man to impress and he has not liked any of the guys she has dated. when we had dinner at his house, he didnt stop talking to me and we got along real well. her and her stepmom were dumbfounded.

which is why this is really bugging me, friends like me, parents liked me, she liked me, then BOOM cya later alligator.

ill give the update later tonight on how things go

Sounds pretty familiar, to a chic that drove me nuts with confusion until I sat and thought about it like a month after we stopped talking. She sounds like the chic, that in an odd way, likes dating the a$$. She likes the fact that noone likes them. The fact that everyone likes you, is different, and it pushes her away. I'd try to get ahold of her once. After that, if things work out great, AWESOME. If not, then just let it be, and I guarantee she'll call you in less than a month. (I recommend you don't take her back after that, but it's your life.)

[Chaotic_Warlord]

lol, all her friends love me, no kidding. apparently she's dated some a$$.

according to her, her dad is a really hard man to impress and he has not liked any of the guys she has dated. when we had dinner at his house, he didnt stop talking to me and we got along real well. her and her stepmom were dumbfounded.

which is why this is really bugging me, friends like me, parents liked me, she liked me, then BOOM cya later alligator.

ill give the update later tonight on how things go

Maybe the fact that you're liked by everyone has scared her a bit, especially if she is used to getting static from friends and family about her choices in men. She could also be upset that her dad does like you, she may have dated a$$ in the past as a form of rebellion, and here you are getting all this love.

Trust me, it's not worth it to try to figure it out, girls are crazy and nothing pleases them more than to make us men folk crazy. I'd talk to her friends before just bumping into her as she walks out of work, that may freak her out and she might think you are stalking her. Talk to her friends first, it's the lesser of the two evils.

[PyR0NiAk]

^-- HA! I BEAT YOU f***ER!

[Crunkrich]

update:

i just got a text saying that 'i know you deserve an explanation but i just got a really bad vibe that night'

i asked if we could meet in person and havent heard back yet sooo.....

at least she didnt die? lol

[slidestyle69]

first comes first, atleast she didnt die lol

[MellowZ32]

the real question is: what happened that night?!

[Bubba1]

the real question is: what happened that night?!

Perhaps she ran into Nala...

[slidestyle69]

the real question is: what happened that night?!

true true....what did happen that night that made a negative vibe?