So apparently my girl committed 'social suicide'

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Wouldn't you just go away? I guess the facebook update was a social suicide note, then, right?

Now, I'm pretty socially inept... would that qualify as a social miscarriage?


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IBCoupe wrote:Now, I'm pretty socially inept... would that qualify as a social miscarriage?
socially inept = nala. sorry pal

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Ok I'm done with it...

I never got any other response from her except the one text that said

'hey i know you deserve an explantion but i dont have one, i just got a bad vibe that night and it scared me'

I responded asking her to meet me in person, no response, a couple more texts from me basically repeating the question, no answer.

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I have two ideas.... one, her high state of mind made something crazy up about me and it made her scared.

or two, while I was asleep her and another guy had a moment and got jiggy while I was asleep.

If it was idea two, she really is a b**** for not just straight telling me the truth, and making my head spin as to what possibly could have given her a 'bad vibe'

but I dunno, and really don't care anymore, im glad it happened now instead of down the road

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Most of all, thanks for letting me vent and explain on here if I didn't get my thoughts outside of my head it might have exploded lol. BOOM!

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she may be developmentally delayed y0...


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You know what really grinds my gears...

Chicks are always like "there are no good men left out there" then they go and pass up the good dudes who will do anything and everything for them just to be with some a$$ who would rather cheat and beat on her instead.

The problem isn't that there are no good dudes out there, there are plenty, the real problem is that there are no good girls outs there.

Oh and if you and your friends idea of a good time requires drugs and massive amounts of alcohol you have issues. A couple drinks is one thing, but to need to get drunk to have a good time is just stupid.

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Chaotic_Warlord wrote:The problem isn't that there are no good dudes out there, there are plenty, the real problem is that there are no good girls outs there.

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Chaotic_Warlord wrote:The problem isn't that there are no good dudes out there, there are plenty, the real problem is that there are no good girls outs there.
THIS

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Crunkrich wrote:Obut I dunno, and really don't care anymore, im glad it happened now instead of down the road
Good, this is how you need to think.


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Chaotic_Warlord wrote:Oh and if you and your friends idea of a good time requires drugs and massive amounts of alcohol you have issues. A couple drinks is one thing, but to need to get drunk to have a good time is just stupid.
Not at all, I drink maybe once a week. We're always doing something or just hanging out at someone's house. This all just happened on a night where we decided to sit out back and drink around the fire.

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numbnuts240 wrote:
Chaotic_Warlord wrote:The problem isn't that there are no good dudes out there, there are plenty, the real problem is that there are no good girls outs there.
x2

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Chaotic_Warlord wrote:You know what really grinds my gears...

Chicks are always like "there are no good men left out there" then they go and pass up the good dudes who will do anything and everything for them just to be with some a$$ who would rather cheat and beat on her instead.

The problem isn't that there are no good dudes out there, there are plenty, the real problem is that there are no good girls outs there.

Oh and if you and your friends idea of a good time requires drugs and massive amounts of alcohol you have issues. A couple drinks is one thing, but to need to get drunk to have a good time is just stupid.
I agree. I do like to drink, it's what I am good at so that's what I do. I don't get hammered a** very often. There is a good chance I am going to be knocking out some beers on any given weekend especially during summer.

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so women are full of potentiometers?

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krash wrote:so women are full of potentiometers?
When not given a manual things can be difficult...

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krash wrote:
krash wrote:
Whore...

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PoorManQ45 wrote:
not enough buttons

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this thread turned super gay at an alarming rate. There are good chicks out there, I will agree that most are skeezers. I like my girl, and even she is a tramp.

f*** it, you guys are right.

Girls are whores, thats why man created automobiles....think about it

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IMO... Just walk away while you still can your still young and you can do better. If she really wants you then she will come to you. Just put your foot down and don't become the chaser let her call you or come to your house.


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Dude, I got the cold shoulder once after a drinking 6 or 8 beers and had been dating this girl about 2 months. The most I had drank before that maybe 2 beers. Come to find out her Dad was a serious alcoholic and it freaked her out.

Fast forward 21 years and we are stilltogether. Might be more going on than you are aware of. Social suicide comment is pretty lame unless the big bang theory is true.

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I would prefer to commit suicide by myself, not in public.

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Haha, so I finally figured out what happened here.

I was passing her work on my way to a friends about a week ago right when they were getting off, so I pulled in to ask her in person wtf happened. Well she wasn't there, but her (hot) friend was and I asked her. She said the 'bad vibe' was from MY friends.

Mind you, she showed up when we were already kinda drunk, and playing the game a**hole. The whole point of the game is to be an A**HOLE!!!!! And we've known each other for a long time, so we know how to push each other's buttons lol. So I guess her being around these people for only the second time, and being really high, she assumed that "my friends didn't like me" as her friend put it. :rotfl

What pisses me off is she knew I thought it was something else, and I felt like crap about it, she couldn't just simply tell me what happened. b*itch.

It's OK though, I got her friend's number and we've been hanging out :dblthumb:

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The point of the game "***hole" is not to be an ***hole, it's to play cards with at least 2 other people. The rules for that game are tough, but you added the being an ***hole part in, creating the whole problem. Nice job.

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ohhhhh so that's what happened. so you're saying you had your eyes on the friend when you were talking to her?

it seems sorta wrong that you thought you were wronged by someone who was high. As kat williams says, when people get high they become "smart". don't laugh at my kat williams reference. So what happened in your situation is that the "acquired knowledge" (clearly an assumption) remained even after her highness wore off. So what you should have done was take your own advice and go see her earlier to ask if it was about the vibe given off at the get together. could've cleared stuff up and maybe you could be dating her, instead of hoping on the friend now. but i guess it doesn't bother you, because you were the "victim".

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Crunkrich wrote:It's OK though, I got her friend's number and we've been hanging out :dblthumb:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxXYF3WTwTs

Hey, hey, mama, what's the matter here (X2)
You didn't have to tell me that you love me so
You didn't have to love me, mama, let me go
Hey, hey, mama, what's the matter here
You didn't have to make me a total disgrace
You didn't have to leave me with that beer in my face
Hey, hey, mama, what's the matter here
That's alright, it's awful dog-gone clear.

Hey, hey, baby, why you treat me mean (X2)
You didn't have to crucify me like you did
You didn't have to tell me I was just your kid
Hey, hey, mama, why'd you treat me mean
You didn't have say you'd always be by my side
Y' didn't have to tell me you'd be my blushin' bride
Hey, hey, mama, why you treat me mean
But that's alright, I know your sister, too

You didn't have to tell me that you love me so
You didn't have to leave me, mama, let me go
Hey, hey, mama, what is wrong with you
You didn't have to leave me like a total disgrace
You didn't have to leave me with that beer on my face
Hey, hey, mama, what is wrong with you
But that's alright, I'd be the same way, too

You didn't have to crucify me like you did
You didn't have to tell me I was just your kid
Hey, hey, mama, what's the matter here
You didn't have to tell me you would be my own
You didn't have to tell me, baby, let me go
Hey, hey, mama, what is wrong with you
That's alright, I know your sister, too.
What's the matter with you, mama

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haha.

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:rotfl

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Thank God I'm single. =)

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Here's some advice. Only 2% of the girl population is worth giving chase. Let her and her issues go, you'll feel better later on. I have one rule that I live by when it comes to women, I don't go for any BS. If BS rears its ugly head I have no hard feelings about leaving her flat. What your ex-girl is doing is creating BS because she hates herself.


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