Nissan2367 wrote:Haha well your girlfriend should be set when building hers then! Just let me know!
well technically not my girlfriend lol long story but ill try to explain to see what u guys think.
well she dated this guy brandon for 3 years. the first year he was here in wisconsin and then he went into the marines and moved to cali on base. So they dated for 2 years while he lived there. she would fly out there like ever 2 months to see him and he would come back here for christmas. Well 2 christmas' ago he cheated on her with one of her friends and broke up with her for that girl. When he realized he made a mistake he started apologizing for over a year to her. NOw here comes my part. I met her on Thanksgiving. at the time i met her she was pretty much dead set on goin back to him. But once she met me we kinda hit it off and really started liking eachother ALOT. He is a complete *******. Treated her liek **** and still does. Doesnt treat her like she sould be treated and still takes advantage of him. But after all the time we spent together she paid for him to come back from cali to WI to see his family and her before he left for Iraq. When he was here he asked her out again and she said yes... But the whole time he was here they fought and he ditched her for his friends and stuff. Every time he ditched her she would hang with me. well he went back to cali on Dec 31st. Wehen he left me and her kinda went back to just bein friends cuz i understood she cant cheat on him. Well like 2 weeks later we got into a car accident together where my GLI got totalled and i held her as she cried all night. from then on we have pretty much been together. Like we spend as much time together as possible. i drive down to Whitewater to see her during week and she pretty much stays at my house thursday night thru monday morning. We do everything that a couple would do.. Go out to dinner, movies, she stays at my place, and intimacy. She tells me she likes me sooooo much. She is THE COOLEST GIRL I HAVE EVER MET! no lie bout that. i like her ALOT and she knows that. But she is still with her BF who is now in Iraq..
so pretty much i think im stuck right now. I dont want to pressure her to break up with him cuz i want her to make that choice on her own otherwise she might regret it. she tells me im the nicest guy shes ever met. We have plans for valentines day together and vacations for this spring and summer so idk wht to think of that. Like is she thinkin bout being with me exclusively? or is she stil gunna hold onto her BF and me at same time? Im afraid if i start talkin to her bout breakin up with him she will say we need to go back to just bein friends and i dont want that
like seriously she is the coolest girl ive ever met. If we do come out thursday you guys will see that. Her idea of a great time would be drinkin a 30 pack while doin a engine swap. and after that playin some video games or headin off to a party. She isnt like every other girl and HATES drama. Shes EXTREMELY nice to. Prolly the nicest girl ive ever met.
imput guys? i REALLLLLY like her and want to be with her cuz i know we would be great together. she even agrees