come on guys theirs a ****load of information already on this forum.
Look at my write up I did a yr ago.
Even though its for a CA and FORD EDIS it still should explain EVERYTHING for you.
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Heres a wiring diagram I made for my harness as you can see the color changes
So pretty much remove the ecu and the plug that goes with it. Leave the lower harness and transmission as that controls your speedo, reverse lights, alternator, starter etc etc. All that will connect to the main body harness.
As for the RELAY board, thats really only meant for older cars that arent as advanced as ours. The 240sx has its own relays so you tap into them which in reality is only 2 wires 1 for the fuel pump relay and 1 for the Ignition switch.
98240KAT I could probably help you in the future as I live in South Florida as well. Pembrooke Pines is like 30mins south of me.