I'll take a shot at your questions
math wrote:1. Regarding technical side, rubber plug ... it is OK. I agree it is not big deal. But...
Since it is a small dollar fix, you should keep that in perspective given the time/effort you spend fighting it. At some point very quickly, the fight will cost more than the repair. Ask yourself if spending that much money/effort is worth proving you were right. Or should you perhaps call it lesson learned, buy a rubber grommet, stick it in the hole, and enjoy the car. That's your call as it's your time/money.
math wrote:2. It's my brand new car. Good looking, quiet, comfortable, fuel efficient. Would you accept somebody making a hole in your new car, without telling you ?.
Personally? probably not. But to be blunt, that's what pre delivery inspections are for. I do recognize that one would not expect to see something like that in a new car pre-delivery inspection, but that's why it's part of the sales process. You just got stung. You have to accept at least a small part of the blame for not inspecting the car enough before taking it off the lot. I know that really sucks but it's true. One thing you must consider is that the dealer may not have had any idea either. That dent-pull hole could have just as easily been done before the dealer even took delivery. It could have been repaired at anytime from the plant to the delivery at the dealer. If that's the case, then it sounds like the dealer also did a poor job of an inbound inspection and/or pre-customer delivery inspection.
math wrote:3. Out of question to go back to that dealer. Most probably they had a reason, "fix a dent", but this is not the point. Why not telling us about ? Why did they think about 10 days ? Why not proposing a solution ? Why not a written statement about the issue ?.
They are covered by regulations and the contract you signed. I believe the regulation is notification only if it represents 6% of the value of the car or if it's a structural repair. Appears it was neither in your case. so there was no legal reason for them to divulge anything to you. Ethically, if they knew about it, yes, perhaps they
could have mentioned it. But ethics are not part of the contract. Sorry. Also, you've concluded the dealer did it. Might have happened earlier. Yes, if I were the dealer, I'd buy a $3 rubber grommet and pop it in. I imagine in your case they simply took a hard defensive posture as most dealers do. I've had warranty issues with several new cars I've purchased, it's very common and not exclusive to Nissan. And I've had some disputes that went the regional reps for resolution. Fortunately, I've never lost a claim, though my claims involved more significant repairs than this case.
math wrote:4. It is the first car experience in North America. Some Texan friends told me all dealerships are more or less the same. Is this true ? Are these guys just a standard dealer/attitude ? Please remember the first post. No email whatsoever during buying and hole process, just talking, talking, talking... BTW they never called us back. We had to call and insist. For me it's still a SF story.
Your Texan friends are incorrect. Not all dealers are bad. Though it is common for many dealers to become defensive about spending anything extra, as they are focused on profit. A good dealer will try to do what's necessary to give you a good experience to entice you to be a returning customer, but not all dealers share that view. It's not a requirement. Clearly, there are both good and bad dealers, including Nissan ones. The expression is called "caveat emptor" (latin for "buyer beware"). That means you must do research before choosing a new car dealer to help avoid dealing with a bad one. If you did not research, then you rolled the dice, and it appears it burned you. And in anticipation of "that's the only Nissan dealer around", I answer that once you decide on what you want for a new car, you can easily travel. For example, I have a friend who travelled by plane to pick up his new corvette. Drama free experience, and he got a great deal. He also had fun driving it home. There is also no requirement that you must have your car serviced at the dealer from whom you purchased.
So to answer your thread title questions, the answer is no to both. Neither of you are strange. I sympathize with your situation, but at the end of the day, it's pretty minor, and will not impact the usage or value of your car. Enjoy your new Nissan and I hope that offers some perspective.
And welcome.