Is it weird to have a GIANT crush on a teacher?

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I thought this was a Nala thread at first, lol.

I wouldnt do it if I were you...I'm not saying you're gonna get turned down, but if you do, think of how embarrassing it will be to go back to class every day? eek.


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Pieceofsand wrote:OP I think you're reading too much into little things from a romantic perspective, as if she is directing it all at you. But maybe she is, who am I to judge?

By the way OP, how old are you? I'm curious because I think if you really got game you'd just go up to her and talk to like a man, a man with dropped balls that is, but instead you're posting it on a general chat forum.

With all the respect, good luck to you. I've always had my fair share of crushes on teachers. I wouldn't mind a picture of what she looks like :)

-Sand
You know Im not just saying this but I feel she enjoyed my time and she gave a little eye and a smile, which I melted over.

Well the thread started as a Vday card thread but its turning into a 'should I ask her out' thread

The thing with being straight up with it and saying something has plenty of risks that I am not willing to take, her being my teacher and all. Akwardness is also a factor as discussed.

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teh mellow requires pix of said hot teacher.

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Jay has spoken. Pixorz or BAN!

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sentrastace wrote: I wouldnt do it if I were you...I'm not saying you're gonna get turned down, but if you do, think of how embarrassing it will be to go back to class every day? eek.
This.

It's still early(ish) in the semester and that would mean quite a few really weird classes. Give it some time and make a move toward the end of the semester. That way, if everything goes terribly you can run away with your tail between your legs and never have to see her again.

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it's lust dude. she's a younger teacher with authority and an attitude that says "i'm here to help you if you need it, don't be bashful". she's being personable, and chances are, she isn't giving you "the eye". your mushroom is clouding your senses as to just how interested she is in you. it's like a stripper talking to you. you think she wants you, but all she wants is to take your money in exchange for a lap dance. this teacher just wants you to succeed and not feel uncomfortable asking questions or for help/additional clarification. i may be wrong, but chances are...

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WWSSD?DTO

What Would Stephen Sett Do? Do The Opposite

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sentrastace wrote:I thought this was a Nala thread at first, lol.
Me too. :facepalm:

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At times like these, I'm reminded of the immortal words of Rodney Dangerfield, who said:

"Hey, the great thing about datin' teachers is, if you do somethin' wrong, they make you do it over again."

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I scrolled through two full pages only to find no pictures.

I am disappoint

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I am encouraging this to see how it turns out. It will likely turn out poorly, but that's not really my problem.

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Jesda wrote:I am encouraging this to see how it turns out. It will likely turn out poorly, but that's not really my problem.
Image
Two words: restraining order.

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sentrastace wrote:I thought this was a Nala thread at first, lol.

I wouldnt do it if I were you...I'm not saying you're gonna get turned down, but if you do, think of how embarrassing it will be to go back to class every day? eek.
That's a pivotal dividing line between men and boys. I wouldn't give a dam. Make your move and if she is good to go, great. If not, step back and continue treating her with respect and don't make a big deal about it. People have fragile egos, that's weak.
skydragoness wrote: Image
Two words: restraining order.
Oh bondage, naughty.
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Jesda wrote:I am encouraging this to see how it turns out. It will likely turn out poorly, but that's not really my problem.
No faith? Oh I get it, you want her for yourself so you guys can kiss at the middle of a bacon strip. Well that aint happenin!

haha j/k
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sentrastace wrote: I wouldnt do it if I were you...I'm not saying you're gonna get turned down, but if you do, think of how embarrassing it will be to go back to class every day? eek.
This.

It's still early(ish) in the semester and that would mean quite a few really weird classes. Give it some time and make a move toward the end of the semester. That way, if everything goes terribly you can run away with your tail between your legs and never have to see her again.
exactly

^TMS, I like where that just went :naughty:. Now I really want her to teach me something

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alms24sebring wrote:you want her for yourself so you guys can kiss at the middle of a bacon strip.
This story sounds hot. Go on...

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alms24sebring wrote:[I no I no. I dont hit on her and I havent really even though I really want to, but we had a great conversation after class one day last week for a good 20 mins that made me want to get naked. Shes just really laid back and acts like a person than a teacher. Its hard to describe the personality. But this is another reason why Im scared or shy to show her I like her like that, because of potentially threatening her teaching career and my school career.

This is the kind of feeling that the men will know what Im talking about. Its not just a hot meaningless secksual encounter (although a good portion) with a hot chick. Like if you see a hot chick in the mall and you say to yourself "I would" after checking her out, hit it and quit it type. But actually wow, I really want her for myself. Its a strong feeling of attraction that I think comes around a couple times in a lifetime thats not just secks. Im not saying I want to marry her but I want to have her under my belt (excuse the pun), as a fun life experience.

I know its very unlikely that anything will happen and Im trying to not be a Nala about it. But I cant just turn off the attraction. I would like to say something like "if you were alittle bit younger, I would ask you out in a second" casually. I think anything she would say in response would handle the situation secretly and professionally. But like I said, there might be a chance with this one and I want to take it. She sounds like a freak too. If she says "Look I undertand how you feel but Im here to teach you and thats my job", that is totally exceptable to me and that would be it. I would carry the rest of my time in class like any other and would never push it ever again.

I am 23 and she is 29-32 but she looks 24. If I can find a good pic I will seriously post it, but I am not giving names.
Its absolutely lust, buddy. It's normal and happens to virtually every guy at some point. If it were anything deeper than lust, you would not put her career at risk. I would also not use the "if you were younger" line. The 3,000 lb gorilla in the room is that she's your teacher.

I suspect she's already aware of your interest as you said she caught you staring at her breasts. Perhaps you should fap before attending her class. But more importantly, we need to see pics of her. :dblthumb: just snap a few shots right outside of class.

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numbnuts240 wrote:it's lust dude. she's a younger teacher with authority and an attitude that says "i'm here to help you if you need it, don't be bashful". she's being personable, and chances are, she isn't giving you "the eye". your mushroom is clouding your senses as to just how interested she is in you. it's like a stripper talking to you. you think she wants you, but all she wants is to take your money in exchange for a lap dance. this teacher just wants you to succeed and not feel uncomfortable asking questions or for help/additional clarification. i may be wrong, but chances are...
Doctor Tito is correct.

And it's worth acknowledging that it's highly unlikely that you'd be the first of her students to ask her out. She probably gets it a lot. And if she is indeed still single as you say, that all adds up to her not being interested in dating students.

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ok I get the picture here. She is indeed very single, why I dont know. Ive decided Im not ganna ask her out, not that I was initially going to anyways, but just be really friendly through the semster. Oh well, fap material it is but I still wanna give that hint just to be satisfied with myself to know I did it.

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What kind of tolerance do you have to pepper spray? It might become relevant.

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Does the advent of not asking her out yield to a pic of set subject?

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^this

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Thread reminded me of the first part of this:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ui9C5KOmnAc[/youtube]

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LO FREAKIN L!! thats exactly it.


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