Thanks Chuck I just went and did those tests
Took a few pics to show what I was doing, tests were with lights in the ON position. I also disconnected both headlight and foglight harnesses and gave them a few good bursts with electrical cleaner.
*click the pic to make it bigger to make out pin #'s if it helps*
I drew a #1 and #2 in the center of each relay to help with orientation as I flipped the camera to take the 2 pics aparently. #1 relay is closest the firewall side of the relay box, and #2 relay was closest to the headlight side.
I found 2 problems with the tests you said to do I believe. I had 12v at both #2 pins which you said should not exist there, and I had the little voltage (.8V) at both number 1 pins, so I figured you maybe confused #1/#2 in a diagram possibly. Also pin7 on relay #2 only had 5.8mv and was holding that number steady. So thats a problem..
Pin 5 on both relays measured half a volt lower than the rest of the measurements if thats of any relevance, they measured 11.7 while the rest of the connection (and the battery) read 12.2 volts.
So since I didnt have 12V @ pin 7 on the one relay I simply ran a jumper wire from my battery positive onto pin 7 and the headlight worked again, but would only turn on for the 4th click on the headlight click wheel. (Iforgot to check highbeam with this jumper wire installed damnit)
The highbeam indicator on the cluster did function in both push and pull positions, so I didnt pull the cluster out to check the bulb yet, figured I might not have to.