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[w1ngzer0]

I am just trying to see what you guys do to get a girl. I see some guys do nothing and some guys go to great lengths. Me im a smartass jerk. Woman see that in me and i am. I don't like being put in my place just becuase she has the title "girlfriend" :rolleyes

well spill the beans boys. Share the stories :pface

[Drift Machine]

I lure them into my love dungeon with the promises of candy.

[w1ngzer0]

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[skydragoness]

I lure them into my love dungeon with the promises of candy.

What's your definition of great lengths?

[Drift Machine]

Offering them my most precious posession, my box of taffy.

[w1ngzer0]

I lure them into my love dungeon with the promises of candy.

this makes you sound like a molester.....

what lengths? any really. I just want to hear stories

[SeVa-S13]

To be honest, the fart can on my beater gets 'em wet everytime.

[Project240]

Be yourself? Be honest? I dunno, as long as you're not a sh!thead those two work fine

[w1ngzer0]

this is what im getting from you guys a cold seat. Come on, no one has any stories?

[SeVa-S13]

Be yourself? Be honest? I dunno, as long as you're not a sh!thead those two work fine

I've never seen this work, personally.

[Drift Machine]

Nope, becuase I don't go at great lengths to get women. I'm the prize, women are a dime a dozen. I'm the one to be won, not them.

[Axel Grungy]

nice guys finish last. im a nice guy. sucks.

[Jesda]

Nice guys end up with nice women.***holes get the sluts, but with minimal effort! Act like you hate them then suddenly she thinks... "OMG... he doesnt want me. I'm flawed! I must have him to redeem what little self-esteem I have!"

Just makes it hard to get rid of if you truly hate her.

[Project240]

^|||BING!

[rousie13]

Nice guys end up with nice women.***holes get the sluts, but with minimal effort! Act like you hate them then suddenly she thinks... "OMG... he doesnt want me. I'm flawed! I must have him to redeem what little self-esteem I have!"

Just makes it hard to get rid of if you truly hate her.

I can verify this one first hand.

[GlacierFreeze]

I don't do anything, therefore I get nada. And if I try it goes nowhere. So yeah.

[skydragoness]

Nice guys end up with nice women.***holes get the sluts, but with minimal effort! Act like you hate them then suddenly she thinks... "OMG... he doesnt want me. I'm flawed! I must have him to redeem what little self-esteem I have!"

Just makes it hard to get rid of if you truly hate her.

we have a winner! Geez, by all the other 'love lost' threads here in General Chat, that describes all of them

[GlacierFreeze]

Nice women? Never heard of one of those. Is that kind of like big foot or aliens? hahaha :P

[w1ngzer0]

Nice women? Never heard of one of those. Is that kind of like big foot or aliens? hahaha :P

lol, yep.

[SeVa-S13]

I've heard of 'em, but they're usually taken or totally hung up on some jackass that treated them like trash and they took it 'cuz they thought they could make him better and he would change and/or "first love" or some equally preposterous notion of attachment.

[180fan]

ever try just talkin to em? Have a hook, like a sense of humor. Talk to her, not her breasts and use the hook and you'll be fine.

[RMiller]

Uh, one time a girl almost hit me while pulling in to a parking space. After I escaped almost certain death (or maybe a small bruise) I smiled at her, she smiled at me. Then I left, came back and wrote a note on her car after she parked saying something like: "You almost killed me, but if you take me out to dinner I'll forget it ever happened" with my phone number written after. She called that night and we got together a day or two later.

Whatever, I'll give you more. Two married women have propositioned me for the nasty. I teach swim lessons and lifeguard at a pool and one mom left a note on my car that said "If you can be discreet, call me...." This mom already hooked up with one of my co-workers, and she's married to a cop (look out). Next mom: I take care of a couple girls I teach swim lessons for and the mom came home drunk, husband out of town, and she asked me to play guitar for her. I was like, "okay if you pay me" and she started singing and rubbing up against me. Then I told her she ought to seek marital counseling, it was hilarious. That's all the moms and I'd probably never go for one, but if that's what toots your whistle, I recommend the swim lesson route.

Hmmm, trying to keep this interesting...I just turned around and smiled at a girl after class and then turned back around. Then she said I'd better not just smile at her and not go talk to her. Let me say, she is very talented.

Here's what you need to do: be confident and mature. Act indifferent, yet polite...act fair. Don't go out of your way (or don't let her know you're going out of your way). Sometimes when I'm at the beach I invite girls to play volleyball; I've had good conclusions there. Just act relaxed and if a girl doesn't take interest, no sweat, you did nothing wrong and there's nothing wrong with you.

[RMiller]

ever try just talkin to em? Have a hook, like a sense of humor. Talk to her, not her breasts and use the hook and you'll be fine.

Great point. Girls ALWAYS know when someone's gawking at (over?) them. Always. Wear sunglasses, or tell her you have 2 lazy eyes.

[jdmfreak]

Be a GREAT friend at first -> Friens w/benifits -> Girlriend

At least thats how it works for me. There's a thread explaining my methods, but I cant find it.

[Jesda]

Nice women exist in small but sufficient enough numbers. The challenge is finding the ones that are nice AND attractive AND intelligent AND confident (as in, likes herself) AND compatible.

Thats five things for one person! I've come only as close as 3/5.

-Jesda

[GlacierFreeze]

I could go for a 0/5 right about now.

LOL hahah

[SeVa-S13]

My current umm..."friend" has 4 of those. It seems 18-22 year old chicks rarely have confidence. If they do, they're often bossy and pretentious and/or a whore.

[Project240]

According to your scale, I think I'm batting .800, when I get to know her better we'll find out if it's 1.000

[Mr1der]

it's all in the size of the club you got;)

[Sircnay]

Hey Jesda, I'm at a 4/5 with the current one. Intelligent, Attractive, Nice and Compatible but she lacks self-confidence. I'm working on that one. When she turns into the 5/5 I'm keeping her.

Here's my story:

My girlfriend at the moment, I've known for 2 years. In those two years I NEVER talked to her. She was smart, pretty, and very talented... and naturally I concluded that she wouldn't give me the time of day. Well we dance at the same dance studio and during my last out of town competition, she was sitting by herself and I figured, "Alright, after this competition, I'll never ever see her ever again, so what's there to lose?"

I walked over and asked if I could sit down next to her. She smiled and said sure. So we sat and talked about the dancers and costumes and makeup and other things. She initially thought I was gay, you know a guy doing jazz and ballet... yeah well so I tell her about my other hobbies like martial arts and cars and stuff. So my friend takes my phone and the both of them start playing with it. When I get it back I find that she left her number. So I call her up and ask her to go hang out. So we go to Jamba Juice and head over to Chipotle for lunch. We talk a lot and have lots of common interests.

We talk... a LOT. I tell her some personal things and she does the same. I find out that I'm the first person she's ever opened up to and we have fun going out and doing just fun things. After some time we start dating and she has since then fallen madly in love with me and now we are planning a looong future together. We're ridiculously compatible.

My trick? I dunno... girls like three things: Power, Novelty, and Indifference. I have that novelty thing going on. I dance, but then I also do TONS of martial arts. I write, draw, paint, etc. They find it charming. Keeping secrets is fun too, girls just HAVE to know. Keep secrets, hell make them up, and they'll fall for it/you.