Good luck with the AVIC-F. I hate mine.
The speed sensor is behind the cluster. Do a search here and you will find pics. I also ran my mic under the speed cluster, and it works well there.
However, you don't even need to bother with the parking brake if you do the hardware mod. The reverse wire you will need if you have a camera and its a PAIN to find.
Check out
http://www.avic411.com
Also, you will find a host of others who are NOT happy with the F. I don't know if I would do it again even at 500 bucks.