I guess our systems are different to those of old, when cutting the power to the stereo meant it was turned off and the speakers were off? I think our speakers are always 'on' - they are used for the nav, and the voice activated controls (which I can't figure out if that is standard on even the base model or if voice activation is an option in one of the packages). Correct me if I'm wrong. This would explain why turning the stereo off makes no difference (if it is indeed something to do with the Bose speakers/wiring/grounding that is making this noise).
The other issue, as I've mentioned before, is that with age, we generally lose ability to hear higher frequencies. Interesting article:
http://saunderslog.com/2006/06...r-it/
Someone would have to do a test somehow to find what frequency the noise is that our cars are making, but there's a good chance it is in the 15+Khz range, which might be inaudible to people in their 40s+.
At the end of that article I linked to, are 4 pure sine wave recordings at 15, 16, 17 & 18Khz. I could hear them all, I'm 28. One of my colleagues in her 40s couldn't hear 16, 17 or 18Khz.
Again, clutching at straws, but this might be why some people can and some can't hear it.