I think I have decided to go with the staggered rim set up. I looked up the specs of my tires on tirerack.com and the front will be fine on a 8.5 rim but the back tires (245/45/19) shouldn't be put on anything wider than 9 inches. Like you said, I think I can get away with this for a little while..
Now I have to decide on the offsets. Front I'm pretty set on 20mm, but back I have to choose 25 or 35... This guy has the exact rim and look I want
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Will try to find a tire/wheel calculator to help me out tomorrow if still needed, and than try to figure out how to measure what I need to..