Dano wrote:There's a couple of us that know how you feel more than others. Though I don't approve of your cheating on your ex, I know how bad it feels to be cheated on, especially for a length of time, so I do know where your coming from and know how hard it is to get through it. I think cheating is the lowest of the low, low, low. I'm sorry it happened to you, whether you walked into it or not. Omaha will be a good way to release some anxiety and anger. I didn't have much availiable to help get my mind off things right after it happened when it was most critical, so you've got one big thing going for you already. Things I can confirm 100% are... don't have any contact with him unless he has something of yours of significant material value. Even then, make sure it's worth the risk of more emotions interacting with them again. They won't change, once a cheat, always a cheat... <--boy that one was a hard one to learn, I was really pigheaded into thinking that people can change for the better. I have so far been proven wrong every time. Get rid of pics, emails, notes, all that crap. They aren't even worth the memories of your heart. f*** em, write em off, move on to better things. If they ever did change for the better (doubtful) and realized what they let go, they'll go to the ends of the earth to prove it, so don't wait around for that s*** either.
Could be worse stacey.I've got a good story which is sad from the girls point of view but awesome as a bystander.
I was a buddy's(no longer a friend) house one night while having some drinks he and another girl went upstairs(he has a girlfriend) and they got it on.His girlfriend was out of town because her mom passed away,and it was the night of their 5 year anniversary(the exact night).She came back and took him back,scumbag had been cheating on her almost every night when he got off work(he worked at a bar) with some drunk f*** skank,he tried to lie his way out and got caught.She took him back again and the last time it happened she finally dumped him.
So take this as a lesson,cheaters don't change(even though they say they will,they never will).Being cheated on hurts so much,My thinking is like this."If you don't wanna be with me,just tell me, because cheating hurts so much worse and just goes to show what a giant coward you are since you can't break up with me to my face" So good riddance and let the d-nozzle go off and do his thing.Just don't ever ever take him back,no matter how much he begs.By taking him back all you're doing is showing him he can get away with pretty much everything and still get you back.
text me sometime...ill PM you my #.
