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SWIFT_DRIFT wrote:FACT: Tino has contributed absolutely nothing to this forum.

will he ever? unlikely. his posts are meaningless, wasteful jumbled words that take up bandwidth. his arguments are unorganized and pointless. like jesse said in the "nail in the coffin thread" (which of course is closed), just ignore the guy and let him be. we are making a bigger deal out of tino and will he ever make sense? NO! ignore him, putting him in the spotlight is only going to make him worse.


So why are you posting about Tino again? He has the privilege to post just as you do. I agree, his posts are usually pointless and I have good-naturedly blasted him about it. However he has not hurt anyone nor has he ever called them a "****ing loser" or some other 9th grade term.

Tino, this community is what you make it. Stop treating it as a joke, grow up and as I've said before, post something useful. You were on the right track with your thread about your car and what you were going to do with it. If you took it seriously you would be amazed at the support you would get. Go back and read your thread again.

Redrocket, email me and we'll discuss it.


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I must say I never took this site as a joke and my meaning in my last post is something to ponder but not meant in any disrespect to fred.

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repo man wrote:Tino, this community is what you make it. Stop treating it as a joke, grow up and as I've said before, post something useful. You were on the right track with your thread about your car and what you were going to do with it. If you took it seriously you would be amazed at the support you would get. Go back and read your thread again.


I agree, that's generial how forums survive is by the maturity of their member base and the content of the site (usually helps). Alas, like all on-line communites you get some bad apples and some very strange one (me). Interestingly though, I have seen bad apples go good and visa versa. I have also seen forums crumble by bad Moderators/Admins (also Visa Versa), but this is all getting off the point. I just wanna get my freaking car back to cool status instead of having every wire possible hanging loose. I wanna fix my car so I came back (Refering to the 240sx.org days)

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red240ne wrote:We all know you're crying inside though K


Since he's gone, I'll say.......No he's not.

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Repo did you get my email I have not heard a response hit me up at [email protected]

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I have no clue what this is about, why is this here. I would never be so personal on a message board. Perhapse the chat section of this board should be temporarily closed and the other sections monitored. One should be willing to deal with personal issues personally.

I am a new guy, K has helped me out a lot. It sucks to see this petty crap happen. I don't even know who Tino is, seen him, don't know him. Whatever.

This should not be out there as an example to newcomers. I have enjoyed this board and the helpfull people on it. Just leave it at that.

Sorry for bumping this junk.

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redrocket wrote:Repo did you get my email I have not heard a response hit me up at [email protected]


Red, I did and wrote a big response but it got kicked back to me. I'll try again.

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Lost_To_A_K-Car wrote:Quoth palmer..."]It was me wo initiated on the moderator board a thread about kcar losing his mod status.'And we got alot of agreement.

1)From whom? Neither of the two mods who responded to the thread spoke of prior knowledge, and Daunttless was not consulted.

2)Stop pretending that you run this board by consensus, Fred. You and I (and most everyone else) know that it isn't true.

made smart-*** remarks when other mods tried to do their job,

3)Still bitter about my disagreement on the technical forums "rules", I see.

used totally inappropiate language for a moderator,

Once.

Many of you that are bitterly complaining on this thread, have been on the board for a while and are unaffected in many ways by what he does.

4)Again, you seem to be the only one that feels my contributions have been, in sum, negative.

Besides, your point is provably false. I have gotten into knock down, drag out flamefests with at least three or four of the people who supported me in that thread. Everyone else seems to understand that it's all in fun, why do you have such a hard time wrapping your head around this? [bbut how many times did we see newbies join, only to be attacked by him ad never come back??

5)Exactly twice, and "attack" isn't really an appropriate definition of my responses in those cases. I was also not alone in either of those situations.

Others have complained about him before, his very appoint ment as a mod was not w/o controversy

The "controversy" was that you didn't want me to be a mod. As usual, you're projecting your own opinion onto others in an effort to give the impression of consensus where there was none.

6)and one of the conditions was he would change, not only did he not change but actually got worse in many ways.

7)Once again, there's your opinion, expressed as objective fact.

If you had simply demoted me, I wouldn't have gone to the (considerable) trouble of deleting my posts. No, you instead chose to demote me unilaterally, without discussion, and without giving me the opportunity to defend myself. Further, until your last post in the 'k-car?' thread, you never even deigned to offer any commentary on the subject, let alone a personal explanation to me.

8)And that is why I deleted my posts.

And finally, yes, it wasnt suppsoed to go down as quick as this, Daunt was supposed to have been consulted, but a lot of other Mods and Admins,( some of whom had emailed with him about before, ) were clearly out of patience.

9)So, you've had a deluge of complaints regarding me over the past month or so, but you never once took a moment to mention them to me? Never a single "hey, don't do that", despite what you claim was vehement and recurring objection to my behavio for letting me go.


I had a very long day at work and this is a pretty sad thread to come home to...But I guess I will ahve to answer, hopefully this will be the last time.

A lot of you chose chose to make posts w/o knowing more, so here is a little background , plz be sure to read whcih numbers I am answering to at the time:

1) Daunt knew of the ,momentum aginst you and there was a thread about u on the mod forum.I was hoping he would see that thread, but it was really too late in many ways.

2) Dont exploit the members ignorance of our process for your childish revenge posts here.There is never something done w/o some kind of consensus, not that it really matters, but the removal of your privileges was done by another Admin, but I dont owe you an explanation on who all agreed with your losing mod settings..

3) I am not bitter , just disturbed by your lack of judgment.

4) Because a lot of PPL dont.This is NOT a place for peopel to aggrandize themselves based on being moderator, something you seem to enjoy doing.Which is probably the reason why you suspect the same of me because you can't imagine PPL functioning in any other way.

5) "Not being alone", is not an excuse, a moderator has to <moderate > those kind of things and not become someone who energizes them.

6) It is a fact there were some very specific conditions spelled out and I KNOW ,you got briefed on them by Daunt.Again, why do you feel the need to lie, to the membership who doesnt know any better?

7)You <know> you were not "demoted " unilaterally.Kinda impossible when someone otehr than me does that don't you think?

Again why the lie? Do you take everything so personal ,that you are willing to lie, to make your revenge posts more effective??:rolleyes:

8) that is why? at the time u deleted your posts you KNEW it wasn't unilateral, bacuse you must have spoken to Daunt by then.Again you are actually lying:eek: .for what?Revenge? if so, you have more serious problems than I thought.

9) I dint bother emailing u for 2 reasons a) you dont exactly have a history of being reasonable, even when appoached in a friendly fashion by another Moderatorb) you simply have had too many chances, but you just didnt feel like doing the right thing.

It would have been a lot easier for all concerned ,if you had just been more reasonable.

But <no> you you insisted on doing what u felt like, and now you dont want to accept the consequences, which you <must> have known would come.

Even worse, now you are engaging in a childish revenge gig, against our little club...

Some of us care about this place you know?

And you are proving with these useless and devisive threads that you dont and never did.

Fred....:rolleyes:

PS: Anotehr thing Calling NICO and enterprise and alluding to the ad on tops.when you MUST know from daunt that we dont make a penny nevr have never will. This site costs SO MUCH more money to run, than it takes in from our humble banners.The site runs cuz a couple of admins pay fir it our of their own pocket!. kcar MUST know this. cuz daunt does and they talk plenty, why kacr tries to paint us as money grubbers is up to you to decide.

For a while I almost felt bad for the way thingts went down... not anymore.

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palmerwmd wrote:2) Dont exploit the members ignorance


Good idea.

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Learn to quote, Fred.

Originally posted by palmerwmd "]I was hoping [Dauntt] would see that thread, but it was really too late in many ways.

Well, "hoping" is good enough, I guess.

Come on, Fred. There was no time pressure on this action. Regardless of my posting style, my treatment of Tino, or any other aspect of my behavior, there was absolutely no imminent danger in my continuing my duties as a mod that would warrant such swift and unannounced action.

You deliberately initiated a discussion of this matter in a section of the board that you knew I didn't frequent - I'm not even sure if I had access to the moderator discussion section. You deliberately did it without consulting Daunttless because you knew he would tell me. There is no other explanation for your actions

Dont exploit the members ignorance of our process for your childish revenge posts here.

People read, Fred. They all know you're high in the food chain.

There is never something done w/o some kind of consensus, not that it really matters, but the removal of your privileges was done by another Admin, but I dont owe you an explanation on who all agreed with your losing mod settings.

I've never asked for a head count, and I have an explanation. What I never received from you (or any other mod) was a message that said so much as "hey tool, you're demoted.".

Rude.

3) I am not bitter , just disturbed by your lack of judgment.

*snort*

My post in that thread listed three rules:

1. questions must be in german2. replies must be in haiku3. number three is deprecated

Lighten up, Fred

4) Because a lot of PPL dont.

Don't what? Don't find my contributions negative?

This is NOT a place for peopel to aggrandize themselves based on being moderator, something you seem to enjoy doing.

I have never aggrandized myself because of my status as a moderator. Perhaps that word doesn't mean what you think it means.

Which is probably the reason why you suspect the same of me because you can't imagine PPL functioning in any other way.

You're projecting again, Fred.

7)You <know> you were not "demoted " unilaterally.Kinda impossible when someone otehr than me does that don't you think?

If those two people are on the same side of an argument, it's unilateral. You deliberately excluded those who might disagree with you from the discussion.

8) that is why? at the time u deleted your posts you KNEW it wasn't unilateral bacuse you must have spoken to Daunt by then.Again you are actually lying for what?

Again, you really should buy a dictionary. "Unilateral" doesn't mean "one person". It means "one side". You initiated the thread discussing my demotion. You deliberately excluded those who might disagree with you from that discussion.

It's easy to form consensus when you only consult those who share your views.

9) I dint bother emailing u for 2 reasons a) you dont exactly have a history of being reasonable, even when appoached in a friendly fashion by another Moderator

Come on, Fred. Even you can't believe that.

First, I've never spoken offlist with another moderator or admin, besides you and Daunttless. The assertion that I'm unreasonable when approached by other mods is unprovable, because such approaches have never occurred.

Second, my one off list conversation with you amounted to this:-----------------------------------------------------------------------------At 05:10 PM 11/14/02, Fred wrote:>I have reset your status to Member.

um, ok.

>I dont know which of teh other Admins set your status>to Moderator, but I believe this needs to be a subject>of discussion among all of us Moderators and Admins,>like it has been with all additional moderators>before.

That would be Dauntt, I was under the impression that he had discussed it with the rest of you.

>If this discussion comes out that you will keep>moderator status, then I will delete the thread that>discusses you, before you regain access to the>moderator board.

>That way hard feelings are minimized.

Heh. It's no big deal one way or the other.

>Expect an email from us in the next few days, when at>least the majority of us had a chance to chime in, on>whether we will add you or not.

okee.

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I don't see "unreasonable" in there. Perhaps you can point it out for the rest of the class.

b) you simply have had too many chances, but you just didnt feel like doing the right thing.

"Chance" defined as "when Fred makes a note on his scorecard, but doesn't mention anything to the person he's making the note about."

Your asserted motivations don't match the actions you took to deal with the situation. If you didn't like the way I handled something, you could have made an effort to communicate your disapproval. Instead, you chose to remain silent, allowing minor transgressions to accumulate until you could remove me.

It would have been a lot easier for all concerned ,if you had just been more reasonable.

Reasonable in response to what? I'm not a mind reader, Fred. If you have a problem with me, you can't just think about it really hard and hope that I'll get the idea.

Some of us care about this place you know?And you are proving with these useless and devisive threads that you dont and never did.

I didn't start the other thread, and I would not have. Someone asked what happened, and I replied. Why are you so reluctant to allow you members to know what's going on?

I would not have started this thread if you had not closed the other one without giving me the opportunity to reply.

The third thread on this subject was started by Tino. Funny, I don't see you scolding him for it.

Typical.

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I was also toying with deleeting teh post I did when I was very accusatory to you, it was written in anger as I was starting to take things personal which one never should.

Fred...:(


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