Well I call them "warped" anyways. Maybe because of lack of a better word, but the metal just no longer is flat, braking feels violent. What causes that ontop of excessive heat I dont know Im not an expert just have first hand experience with multiple brake jobs in multiple cars, and I think I "warp" my rotors alot faster that they are supposed to on average, but thats just because of my s*** driving habbits (that are alot of fun

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We can call them bent, screwed, wobbely, out of shape or whatever, but warped just seems to be the common term
And by putting them on my manual lathe at work and taking .002" passes you can see that the surfaces of the rotors just are in a wave motion. I never resurface my own rotors though, they are cheap enough that buying new everytime and DIY the job is worth it to me.
To the original lady who posted this thread, I believe the price the mechanic is FAIR, hes probably not trying to make more money off of you than he would the next person, but hes definetely making money. You could save yourself the most money, but still have the work done by someone else, by purchasing the rotors and pads at your local auto store and hiring a side machanic off Craigslist with good reputation and knowledge of your vehicle for fairly cheap
The first time I tried my fronts I couldnt figure out how to get the rotor off and I brought it to a local who charged $60 to do all my front brakes, and taught me (as I watched) along the way.