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Tue Oct 29, 2002 11:18 am
AZ---very well put...It's true, so many damn people, so accepting and embracing of everything. I think we need to get back to a early 1960's mentality. Now while I can't by any means vouch for the good aspects or negative aspects of this decade, it just seems to me, through my listening to adults who grew up/graduated highschool around then, the "baby boomer" generation, (my parents among them,) if you will, it seemed like such a pleasant time to live in--much more so than this crappy liberal age. Just look at a public highschool year book from 1969/70. The people all look well dressed, respectable, presentable people, and look not only older, but more mature, and more responsible people, and in fact they were. Much more was expected of them back then--chores were a necessary part of family life. Early on, the kids learned to first work hard if they wished to have fun outside of home, and learned that studying came before success. The dad worked, the mom usually stayed home and raised the kids, cleaned the house, cooked the meals. The kids went to school to learn, not to slack off and be ***holes. The kids were generally well behaved, they didn't talk back or argue with their parents, otherwise, they'd get a swift slap upside the head. While hitting your children wasn't encouraged, it certainly did, in my opinion, do a great deal to the kids growing up. The kids growing up in the 50's/60's wouldn't dare doing half the things that the kids do today--talking back, not listening to their parents, being disrespectful, etc. The girls weren't a bunch of slutty whores in the highschool who bragged about how many times they had sex the night before, (I hear this on a regular basis during daily conversation) they were decent girls, with high morals. Girls dated, not "hooked up" with people, and only when they truly loved the person did they lose their virginity. (Again, I'm generalizing pretty liberally here...)people went to church every sunday, and to their grandparents house for sunday dinner. Each person was a distinct individual. Bobby fisher down the street was the best catcher on the baseball team, Joany Sue was the best writer of the class--none of this bull**** patronizing of people saying that everyone is good at everything, people understood the large difference between and unique characteristics between themselves, and these decisive characteristics gave them a personality of substance. The kids didn't have to be ***holes to have a good time. The kids new what was expected of them, and more or less, did what the had to do. Now I am by no means labeling this early 60's decade as a Utopia, but I can definitely say I'd MUCH rather live in that era than now. No internet, no cell phones controlling and corrupting the youth. They used their imagination and wits for fun. They played outside, they made treeforts, they tinkered with go-kart engines. They didn't sit inside, watch tv and make the tv give them imaginative ideas; they could entertain themselves, and for hours. I'm glad myself that growing up (still in the process of, I'm only 16), that I was never bought video games, and never really watched a great deal of TV--I played outside in the yard, had neighborhood friends, made treeforts, etc. I'm glad the technology of the age didn't corrupt me at such a young age, as it is doing now. There were no crazy morons back then, in fact, if you wanted to bring your shotgun to school because you were leaving early to go hunting, you could--you just left it in the principal's office. Today, no one would DARE of doing that at any type of academic institution, because kids are untrustworthy and irrational these days. I blame it on the degradation of the family life. Parents getting divorced left and right, never staying faithful to their partners, being in the MAJORITY when they are divorced, not being looked down on when they break the sacred vow, things like this in the present age ruin society. If these people were brought up understanding what love is and knowing how to associate with people without falling back on common-place psychiatrists, then perhaps the numerous divorces wouldn't transpire. In the woman's quest for equality, the children today find themselves being increasingly left at home, with no real discipline tactics or any type of earnest time to teach the kids what's right and wrong, and about moral and ethical responsibilities. When kids screwed up back in the day, they were heavily chastized and learned their lesson. Today, kids are taught and encouraged to blame their shortcomings not on they folly, lack of ambition or motivation, but on made up diseases and whatever scape goat pleases their situation. Take for example ADD and ADHD. Did the disease exist in 1966? Hell NO! But, the disease exists now a day, and every other kid and his brother has ADD, relying on drugs to succeed in life, learning to always be a dependent and never an independent that takes responsibility for his or her own action. Parents love to use these made-up diseases to label their kids with, to cover up their own horribe flaws in parenting--Oh, my kid does bad in school not because I never taught him how important school was or punished him severely for doing bad, but because he has Attention Deficit Disorder. Now I supply him with a bottomless stock of pills and drugs to control his behavior, and now I teach him that he is not responsible for his behavior, something else is! Damn these people! These kids don't have ADD--all kids are hyper! They are kids, afterall. But, any person can consciously control whether or not they decide to pay attention, put some effort into work, etc. Kid's don't need Ritalin and other drugs, they need a good smack up the head and a verbal berating for their failing ways! I long to live in an era where good grades were commendable, not "geeky," church was expected, family life was more intimate and satisfying, and people were genuinely more honest, trustworthy, and hardworking.I could go on for hours about this, but I've already thoroughly hijacked the thread.On the note of the other part of the thread hijacking, guns, I agree. The government is slowly taking away guns, so when the time does come that we need a serious government revolution, they GOVERNMENT will have our only means of defending ourselves! I myself only have a Marlin .22 with a 4x32 Scope (first gun, my grandpa was a police man and an expert marksmen; it was expected that I'd get a gun at the age of 15). Well, to go off on an even bigger tangent, two of my cats have disappeared in the last month, even though my parents have owned outdoor cats for the last 20 years, with none of their previous cats ever disappearing. Well, its obvious that people didn't adopt them, but rather wild animals eating them. The thing is, both of our cats disappeared in broad daylight, so that sort of ruled out coyotes, unless rabid coyotes. Well I got out of the shower the other morning to see a huge 25lb fisher walking in broad daylight in our backyard. If no one knows, fishers are considered to be very vicious and carnivorous animals, easily eating 6 pound house-cats. So I got the .22, and dropped him with a shot to the neck as he was walking away. End of story, one down to prevent some danger from my last cat from being devoured. The reason all these animals are so close? Some moron a neighborhood away completely leveled a big part of the forest, pushing all the natural inhabitants out to find new sources of food. A pack of deer were in my back yard in regular daylight yesterday. Bastards and their ruining of forests for their own personal gain. It's some 75 year old broad doing the destruction, and she'll be dead in 5 years, but the ruined forest will last a life time. Shame on her!Sorry for the horrible, horrible rambling. Just needed to get that stuff off my chest!