http://www.nicoclub.com/FSM/maxima/2000/em.pdf
Page 37
I think you mean to say you have oil on the outside of the spark plug
and not on the electrode of the plug
I think you have a bad seal in your valve cover
This seal separates the oil in the valve cover from the coil pack
If you look toward the top left of the referenced page you
can see an image with two gaskets referenced with x and x
There are 3 doughnut looking holes-these are gaskets
Probably one of them is cracked-they are plastic with a strong wire manufactured in them.
They can be replaced and are not expensive
I just couldnt find a better picture so you might search the floor shop manual