[Zero-S] wrote:5 years!?! I couldn't go five months...
well its not as bad as you think lmao. Its kind of refreshing.
No balls at alls
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masticatingcow wrote:
I doubt anyone would get into a theological debate over your religious practices, krazy skwerel, though I am forced to wonder about this "crinking at work..." by "crinking" do you mean "drinking?" And by "at work" do you mean "at a place where I hold some amount of responsibility and am accountable for the interests of others?" If that's the case, I think THAT needs addressing. I don't think that vice activities are at all correlated to your spirituality, though I can't believe you are doing anyone any favors by getting drunk on the job. If you loathe your job to that degree, you have the power to change that. You can either get a different job or isolate and resolve whatever about your current job you can't stand. Whether it be your workload, your boss, or your coworkers, you should approach it differently than hitting the bottle. If you draw strength from God then use that to conquer this.
In many respects, I'm sure you share much with xxtrizz... dissatisfaction with your situation and a sense of powerlessness. But as we learned with xxtrizz, you ARE empowered and can change where you are, socially or otherwise.
Maybe I'm no philosopher, but the way I see it, life is about chances... taking them and turning them into oppurtunities. Maybe it's about reproducing, and maybe its about living to prove your worth for the afterlife. But regardless of what you believe, tomorrow you will wake up and face a new day... and there's no reason for it to be harder than the one before. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's no way to spend this life, regardless of it's purpose.
Yeah Iknow Drinking at work is dumb. I don't normally do it, and boydid i regret it after the puking and what not. I work security and it is just so damn boring.I don't even dorounds just sit on my butt doingnothing. It's all good. I am lookingfor a new job. It is a slow process. After thinking about it for a while i realised that if I get fird for Drinking on the Job. Then I am screwed when people call for recomendations.
So I rarely do it and may give up drinking again. Who knows. I just hope i find a new job that i enjoy. 
Wow I think alot of the fellas on here are very intellegent in what they are trying to convey seems to me alot of us have actually sat down and contemplated our lives deeply. However there are moments of weakness I dont normally breakdown and type this up but I figured it woul help me to let my fears out and help others by conveying theirs without actually having them type it out.
Alot of stuff stuck out in my mind with what you guys said but a good lesson for alot of ellas looking for girls that triggerd my mind was the
Quote »So instead of looking at talking to girls or asking them out as a challenge it can be looked as an opportunity.[/quote]
Honestly I bet all of us have thought of them as an oppurtunity but when the time comes we see them as a challenge or something to overcome and then we get scared or otherwise.
But all in all its easy to empower yourself and over come these things. I do work on my car for girls not because its cool but because of the self satisfaction that they know who the boss is. That I am a man and I can handle this and that and Im not to be triffled with if something they say irks me the wrong way. I want to take the appearance of a very smart and strong individual with alot of goals. OTherwise I assume the girls would not come aroudn at all.
But in the end its all for self gratification unless you have some sort of hang up with women. I was talkin to a friend of mine today and he just loves to spoil girls he knows im a crazy *** cheapskate if it comes down to starving or feeding myself I wont spend any money from my bank account for fear of a negative sign on my statement haha but he jsut loves to waste his money he gets very good paychecks like 11 bucks and hour and he always is broke with no money. I asked him why he liked to spend money on girls and he figured it was because he jsut thinks they are like daughters to him and that he wants poontang. Now daughters in a "literal" term doesnt do this specific description any jsutice but rather indicates how a father would give up money to make his daughter happy.
But honestly I think women have taken things for granted for a long time. I was talking with a couple of my friends that are girls and they told me I would never get a girl because I dont spend money, I am very literal, I am to logical, and I like to talk and converse with them about things that they find uninteresting.
However if that is the response you receive I do believe they are at a loss for exploring the world around them. Honestly if that is what would steer women away then they would be ultimately superficial or otherwise. My logic stems from my bad luck with women I analyz them and the situation what they say and return with a statement they may not liek cause honestly im fed up with bs games they play. I wont let them in an inch wise cause im not busy into messing around inside heads its not my thing. I dont spend money because I would rather use it for something planned out rather than something that is spur of the moment I can do 5 billino spur of the moment purchases but I can only do 1 at a time planned purchases which helps me confidently and calmly account for all my money and expenses. Rather than jsut spending like a wild man.
I dont think they understand how much time and inginuity is invested into my way of thinking. But I think that my logic is the real turn off I wont do things unless planned and I wont spend money on the spur of the moment. "I want this" wont get you it through me if you want it as bad as I did my engine or my car youll save up for it and stop looking at me like a bank account.
And that gentlemen is why I dont have a girlfriend im rude and stubborn to them. But honestly its time for us to stand up somethings that we would rather not do. Otherwise we would be under the wing of the female counterpart forever.I get lonely with out them but its hard for me to make compromises in regards to apealing to them if it upsets me really bad.
Alot of stuff stuck out in my mind with what you guys said but a good lesson for alot of ellas looking for girls that triggerd my mind was the
Quote »So instead of looking at talking to girls or asking them out as a challenge it can be looked as an opportunity.[/quote]
Honestly I bet all of us have thought of them as an oppurtunity but when the time comes we see them as a challenge or something to overcome and then we get scared or otherwise.
But all in all its easy to empower yourself and over come these things. I do work on my car for girls not because its cool but because of the self satisfaction that they know who the boss is. That I am a man and I can handle this and that and Im not to be triffled with if something they say irks me the wrong way. I want to take the appearance of a very smart and strong individual with alot of goals. OTherwise I assume the girls would not come aroudn at all.
But in the end its all for self gratification unless you have some sort of hang up with women. I was talkin to a friend of mine today and he just loves to spoil girls he knows im a crazy *** cheapskate if it comes down to starving or feeding myself I wont spend any money from my bank account for fear of a negative sign on my statement haha but he jsut loves to waste his money he gets very good paychecks like 11 bucks and hour and he always is broke with no money. I asked him why he liked to spend money on girls and he figured it was because he jsut thinks they are like daughters to him and that he wants poontang. Now daughters in a "literal" term doesnt do this specific description any jsutice but rather indicates how a father would give up money to make his daughter happy.
But honestly I think women have taken things for granted for a long time. I was talking with a couple of my friends that are girls and they told me I would never get a girl because I dont spend money, I am very literal, I am to logical, and I like to talk and converse with them about things that they find uninteresting.
However if that is the response you receive I do believe they are at a loss for exploring the world around them. Honestly if that is what would steer women away then they would be ultimately superficial or otherwise. My logic stems from my bad luck with women I analyz them and the situation what they say and return with a statement they may not liek cause honestly im fed up with bs games they play. I wont let them in an inch wise cause im not busy into messing around inside heads its not my thing. I dont spend money because I would rather use it for something planned out rather than something that is spur of the moment I can do 5 billino spur of the moment purchases but I can only do 1 at a time planned purchases which helps me confidently and calmly account for all my money and expenses. Rather than jsut spending like a wild man.
I dont think they understand how much time and inginuity is invested into my way of thinking. But I think that my logic is the real turn off I wont do things unless planned and I wont spend money on the spur of the moment. "I want this" wont get you it through me if you want it as bad as I did my engine or my car youll save up for it and stop looking at me like a bank account.
And that gentlemen is why I dont have a girlfriend im rude and stubborn to them. But honestly its time for us to stand up somethings that we would rather not do. Otherwise we would be under the wing of the female counterpart forever.I get lonely with out them but its hard for me to make compromises in regards to apealing to them if it upsets me really bad.
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I was talking to this girl at an insurance comapnytoday and I usually get mistaken for an older gentlemen like 25 ish however the funny thing is the lady doesnt even know me but im talking to her and shes tleling me that she cant believe im 19 haha she was like "you ask all the correct questions at the right times and you are so thorough .. at that time I was like how old are you?? HAHHA was hilarious she was like 27 but damn woulda been a match made in heaven haha just kiddin guys
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I wouldnt have told her i was 19 if i was you...
it woulda worked out if you white lied a little and avoided the conversation of age. You'd be suprised the older chicks you can score with that way! Also eliminate words like "score" and "chick" from your vocabulary...
If you need any real ideas not just rantings from people, you should read the book The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It has some great stuff.
it woulda worked out if you white lied a little and avoided the conversation of age. You'd be suprised the older chicks you can score with that way! Also eliminate words like "score" and "chick" from your vocabulary...
If you need any real ideas not just rantings from people, you should read the book The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It has some great stuff.
Yeah i dont normally say lick chick or score unless im like conversing with a chick about other chicks so ill be like "That chick is crazy" but only when I know the female im conversing with as well.
But hopefully ill be able to hit up some girls for going out I hit one chick up but didnt get to go see her I hope shes not mad lol well see.
But hopefully ill be able to hit up some girls for going out I hit one chick up but didnt get to go see her I hope shes not mad lol well see.