DTASFAB wrote:Sorry this happened. Aren't you glad you weren't driving the Hyundai?! The other driver may very well be a total b****, and I'm not defending her actions, but she probably knew not to apologize, because doing so could be an indication that she's accepting fault. From a legal standpoint, the most important thing is to not admit fault, even if you know you're 100% responsible for the accident. It's just like driving through a DWI checkpoint. Simply say nothing. Exercise your right to remain silent, even if you have nothing to hide.
i agree with you 100%, but there are sincere ways to try and convey your apology to someone without saying sorry. she didnt even as us if we are injured. she didnt even ask if there was anything she could do to make it better. totally the type to believe "its never my fault, the world owes me everything". she argued with the cop, and the cop goes = its 100% your fault, there is no arguing about it. its your fault- and if the roles were reversed you'd be singing a different song right now. suck it up, or argue in court if you wasnt, but you'll lose."
Definitely talk to a lawyer. Get a copy of the police report ASAP and consult with a lawyer as soon as you have that. Depending on state law, you might be entitled to recover your deductible from the other driver's insurance. I believe NJ is a no-fault state, correct?
yea i contacted my attorney already. i hope i can collect my deductible, because $500 can buy a ton of cool ish, than just a stupid deductible lol
Get an MD to refer you to a good chiropractor (easier said than done, considering how they hate the "quacks") and get yourself and Ms. Stricken taken care of by someone who uses a gentle approach to spinal adjustments. Network Spinal Analysis is a great technique as well that can have long-term benefits that go way beyond ordinary chiropractic, but it requires on-going treatment for several months or years. Try to stay in-network with your insurance if you can, but most likely you can't. The best chiro docs typically don't take any insurance, but their prices tend to be reasonable. Keep receipts and you'll have proof of medical expenses when fighting the insurance for a bigger settlement.
awesome advice. thanks a bunch.
Post on fatwallet.com/forums/finance for free armchair legal advice if you like. There's a long thread there discussing how to maximize your compensation for diminished value of the vehicle, since it won't be worth as much even after it's properly repaired. Nobody wants to pay full price for a used car with a serious accident on its record, so you can recover that amount as well. Good luck.
BINGO! diminished value was the first thing on my mind. thanks a bunch again!
