IBCoupe wrote:WD, you found my rage button. I've told Greg about this on past threads - arguing from a position that assumes I'm ignorant or arguing that something about me makes me incapable of understanding a thing pisses me off to no end. I put care into crafting arguments and I put a lot of thought into analyzing the arguments that people make against me. When people become dismissive because of a person's background or experience (or lack thereof), rather than on the basis of the merits of their arguments, it seems so dishonest to me as to end the rational discussion and debate.
In other words: in my view, when you reply to an argument with anything other than a response to the actual arguments made, the debate is over.
That probably sounded good coming out on to the keyboard, but it's still a tiny bit arrogant and flawed.
Certain things MUST be experienced to be understood, and that's why you'll see ME get hot under the collar when people spew nonsense about something they've not had experience with. It's kinda like childbirth - You've never been there, so you don't profess to know the first thing about it. You'd have a damn hard time convincing me that you're an authority on marriage or child-rearing. If you've never lived in a border state, you can't speak to the experiences of those who have. If you've never attended grade school in the early 70's in the Deep South, you can't comprehend the differences. If you've never lost a spouse to cancer, you can't really comment on the realities of what it's like. If you've never taken stock of your life on the eve of your 40th birthday, you can only guess what it'll be like.
So, while your blustery fit on what annoys you is duly noted, you're gonna have to learn to deal with it, because that's a YOU problem, not a ME problem. As a future attorney, you'd best get that lesson down before you take even ONE MORE class.
Just a little tip from a semi-old guy.
