OK, everyone, I'm here for the afternoon Q and A. To give my on previous posts....
cellardoorv wrote:Because we can play the game better. We remember way more s***. I, for one, am not diabolical. Generally. But I possess the ability to be. We recognize this, and we know how to control it, and thus, use it to our advantage. That's why we're evil.
I personally hate playing games. BE HONEST. If you want to just hook-up every now and then, it is OK to say so. Don't spew a bunch of romantical nonsense to get me spooled up to tell me in a week that you just want to have sex. Say what you meen and meen what you say. EVERYONE possesses the ability to be diabolical. The smart people are just better at it because they can keep up with more stuff in their head. It's not gender-specific. I personally think the word "advantage" does not belong in a relationship. The upper-hand should not apply unless you are playing games! Most women you consider to be evil have just been burned and (unfairly) take it out on all future men in their lives. I'm not like that so i can't explain the reasoning but I know a LOT of women who do it. They boggle my mind.
Zyphar wrote:The way I see it, most girls are passionate and passion can go both ways
This.
themadscientist wrote:Figure out who you are.Figure out what you want.Plan on being alone and prepare yourself.
It's true that there is someone for everyone.
When you are needy, you don't make good decisions and you negotiate from a position of weakness.
learn your lady and meet her halfway.
Ladies. You need to not analyze so much
All of this. There are worse things in this world than being on your own.
Jesda: I know longer wonder why you are single. Nothing but love brother, but DAYUM....
PoorManQ45 wrote:I just have one question.
Why don't women just say exactly what they want?
If I knew this, I would be a millionaire. It comes down to the whole cat-and-mouse game that most people seem to love to play....as long as they are winning.
numbnuts240 wrote:some people are a lot more easy going than others. you have those that feel lost without daily structure, and those who are perfectly fine with doing things on a whim. your ideology that all women behave in the exact same manner makes me concerned for your penor. it sounds to me that your understandings of the inner workings of the opposite sex derive from stereotypes doled out by pop culture.
This. Guys like girls who can go with the flow. Take, for example, women here on NICO. Why are some of us accepted and others not? Michelle and I can both take a joke, give as good as we get, and laugh about it all at the end of the day. We don't rehearse what we are going to say and we don't have a filter either. Our responses may shock you, but they are real. Some women just don't have that ability and I know guys are attracted to those that do.
marlin29311 wrote:You want directness? Give it back.
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Dittoz7 wrote:My Question: How Do You Tell a Girl "No, I Don't Want To Be Your Significant Other", Without Them Hating You Forever...
Be honest. I really can't stress this enough guys. And if she can't handle that amount of honesty, she has others issues besides her relationship with you. However, be prepared for her to ask this..."Why not?" You have to be honest here too. I would much rather have a guy tell me that I'm not sexy naked than to catch him having sex with me while his eyes are squeezed shut.
PoorManQ45 wrote:remember, most of us arn't as old as you geezers... So we run in to maturity issues...
You don't have to be as old as us....just as smart as us(you have lots of catching up to do )
RobPaulson wrote:why do girls become totally attracted and interested when you start making fun of them? i never understood this, and its like a damn switch almost any confident guy can flip.
meet a girl, ignore her, and make fun of her when you do pay attention to her. bam she instantly jumps on ur s***. seriously? i just dont get it, kinda drives me nuts
These are the ones with the insecurity issues....loosely translated, the crazy b****es. Stay away!!!!!