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Why do some girls feel the need to go after there friends bf's?

Is it because they are jealous ? Or is because they feel the need to be center of attention ? Ive noticed if a guy is indeed taken they see it as a challenge, A challenge to see if they can get the guy to cheat on his wife or gf.


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OK, everyone, I'm here for the afternoon Q and A. To give my on previous posts....
cellardoorv wrote:Because we can play the game better. We remember way more s***. I, for one, am not diabolical. Generally. But I possess the ability to be. We recognize this, and we know how to control it, and thus, use it to our advantage. That's why we're evil.
I personally hate playing games. BE HONEST. If you want to just hook-up every now and then, it is OK to say so. Don't spew a bunch of romantical nonsense to get me spooled up to tell me in a week that you just want to have sex. Say what you meen and meen what you say. EVERYONE possesses the ability to be diabolical. The smart people are just better at it because they can keep up with more stuff in their head. It's not gender-specific. I personally think the word "advantage" does not belong in a relationship. The upper-hand should not apply unless you are playing games! Most women you consider to be evil have just been burned and (unfairly) take it out on all future men in their lives. I'm not like that so i can't explain the reasoning but I know a LOT of women who do it. They boggle my mind.
Zyphar wrote:The way I see it, most girls are passionate and passion can go both ways
This.
themadscientist wrote:Figure out who you are.Figure out what you want.Plan on being alone and prepare yourself.

It's true that there is someone for everyone.

When you are needy, you don't make good decisions and you negotiate from a position of weakness.

learn your lady and meet her halfway.

Ladies. You need to not analyze so much
All of this. There are worse things in this world than being on your own.

Jesda: I know longer wonder why you are single. Nothing but love brother, but DAYUM....
PoorManQ45 wrote:I just have one question.

Why don't women just say exactly what they want?
If I knew this, I would be a millionaire. It comes down to the whole cat-and-mouse game that most people seem to love to play....as long as they are winning.
numbnuts240 wrote:some people are a lot more easy going than others. you have those that feel lost without daily structure, and those who are perfectly fine with doing things on a whim. your ideology that all women behave in the exact same manner makes me concerned for your penor. it sounds to me that your understandings of the inner workings of the opposite sex derive from stereotypes doled out by pop culture.
This. Guys like girls who can go with the flow. Take, for example, women here on NICO. Why are some of us accepted and others not? Michelle and I can both take a joke, give as good as we get, and laugh about it all at the end of the day. We don't rehearse what we are going to say and we don't have a filter either. Our responses may shock you, but they are real. Some women just don't have that ability and I know guys are attracted to those that do.
marlin29311 wrote:You want directness? Give it back.
+111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111
Dittoz7 wrote:My Question: How Do You Tell a Girl "No, I Don't Want To Be Your Significant Other", Without Them Hating You Forever...
Be honest. I really can't stress this enough guys. And if she can't handle that amount of honesty, she has others issues besides her relationship with you. However, be prepared for her to ask this..."Why not?" You have to be honest here too. I would much rather have a guy tell me that I'm not sexy naked than to catch him having sex with me while his eyes are squeezed shut.
PoorManQ45 wrote:remember, most of us arn't as old as you geezers... So we run in to maturity issues...
You don't have to be as old as us....just as smart as us(you have lots of catching up to do )
RobPaulson wrote:why do girls become totally attracted and interested when you start making fun of them? i never understood this, and its like a damn switch almost any confident guy can flip.

meet a girl, ignore her, and make fun of her when you do pay attention to her. bam she instantly jumps on ur s***. seriously? i just dont get it, kinda drives me nuts
These are the ones with the insecurity issues....loosely translated, the crazy b****es. Stay away!!!!!

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nissangirl74 wrote:OK, everyone, I'm here for the afternoon Q and A. To give my on previous posts....

I personally hate playing games. BE HONEST. If you want to just hook-up every now and then, it is OK to say so. Don't spew a bunch of romantical nonsense to get me spooled up to tell me in a week that you just want to have sex. Say what you meen and meen what you say. EVERYONE possesses the ability to be diabolical. The smart people are just better at it because they can keep up with more stuff in their head. It's not gender-specific. I personally think the word "advantage" does not belong in a relationship. The upper-hand should not apply unless you are playing games! Most women you consider to be evil have just been burned and (unfairly) take it out on all future men in their lives. I'm not like that so i can't explain the reasoning but I know a LOT of women who do it. They boggle my mind.
I forgot to mention that my response to the evil thing was a bit tongue-in-cheek. Games = fail. I'm with you Bex, and Lou. Direct is so much easier. No body wastes their time.

Majority of us are not out to "get" the other. Except maybe MOD...

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nissangirl74 wrote:I would much rather have a guy tell me that I'm not sexy naked than to catch him having sex with me while his eyes are squeezed shut.
for the record, i've only squeezed my eyes shut in an attempt to visualize something that will delay the inevitable end.

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numbnuts240 wrote:
for the record, i've only squeezed my eyes shut in an attempt to visualize something that will delay the inevitable end.
... does that really work?

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grandma in her panties?

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ROFL
nissangirl74 wrote:grandma in her panties?

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cellardoorv wrote:... does that really work?
sometimes.
nissangirl74 wrote:grandma in her panties?
i still want to finish, not have my penor retreat into my pelvis...

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numbnuts240 wrote:i still want to finish, not have my penor retreat into my pelvis...
sorry dude, i couldn't resist

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So is this ^ what you picture instead of grandma? Just asking...

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This thread has win!

Too bad the women posting in here are rarities in real life...

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Space Monkey wrote:This thread has win!

Too bad the women posting in here are rarities in real life...
Aww shucks. We are pretty awesome.


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Space Monkey wrote:This thread has win!

Too bad the women posting in here are rarities in real life...
They're not that rare, you just have to look in the right places...

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marlin29311 wrote:
They're not that rare, you just have to look in the right places...
^This

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marlin29311 wrote:
They're not that rare, you just have to look in the right places...
... and not settle for someone who doesn't make you completely happy.

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-never settle-never think that he/she is as good as it's ever gonna get. that's not fair to the other person

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I love you, John
nissangirl74 wrote:-never settle
That is what I've had to tell quite a few people.

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93coupe wrote: I love you, John




Dont get any ideas, you know that nose ring could make people wonder some things Like the 2 guys at the bar last night gazing into each other's eyes

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nissangirl74 wrote:-never think that he/she is as good as it's ever gonna get. that's not fair to the other person
this one is interesting.

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You said you liked it.

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I know

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I can haz middle spot in bed?

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cellardoorv wrote:I can haz middle spot in bed?
I feel that would end up looking something like the guy on the right




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LOL at Bandit.

Honesty is the best bet over telling a girl you wanna bang but don't wanna be exclusive.

<----does it before penetration.

4 out 5, they'll dig that and just secretly keep their fingers crossed you'll change your mind. Or honestly just wanted the same.

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I swear Jesda, if it weren't for that having to like d!ck part...

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Hmmm..on rs25.com there's a dating forum. Perhaps NICO should make one? That way all can chime in. Something tells me it's going to have to be heavily moderated...

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Dattebayo wrote:I like hick chicks.

Most can help you change a clutch or do your brakes.
I dont trust my best friends to wrench on my car, so chances of me letting a chick near my vehicles with a socket set while singing "whose bed have your boots been under" is about nil. Especially if it's the key element in me stopping my car... I dont want to wind up in the hospital because "oops ya'll, I dun messed them brakes up".

The sex has little to do with it though, more so the choice in music. How can I knowingly let someone work on my cars that listens to George Straight on purpose...

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flohtingPoint wrote:How can I knowingly let someone work on my cars that listens to George Straight on purpose...
Hey now, hick doesn't mean they like country...


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