Haha...I'm Ukrainian...it's how it is there too.JDMlove wrote:good luck with the sale man!
Why you dont keep the car and compromise ! cut cost from your wedding/engagement!!
i though only in my Country where the guy have to through all his money for a marriage!!
The only lady i will sell my M for, Naiomi Watts !
IlyaKol wrote:Thanks...not not engaged yet...planning on it so I wanna cut down my costs and such for the next phase of life. The life of a bachelor with a nice Infinity and no other responsibilities is over lol.
or at least get an idea if she is open to the idea of you getting another Infiniti later when expenses aren't tight vs "let's start looking at mini-vans, because they're more practical when you have kids..."myother45isalesbaer wrote:Dude,
Congrats on the marriage. But I have to ask, why dump the Infiniti? Do you need the money? If the little lady doesn't like the car and you are selling it because of her that is not a good omen for the future. Best of luck to you either way. Just remember once you let the bride to be boss you around that is the way it will be forever. KEEP the Infiniti and man up is my OP.
ROFLOL. My wife of 35 years never questioned what I bought or why. She would question the finances. Another friend of mine buys what he wants, when he wants and his wife questions nothing. But, we are old school guys. Born and raised in the early 50's. I hope the poster is going to have a great life, but I have seen a few friends let the little lady run them around and pretty soon its divorce time. Guess I have been lucky, I have bought my share of rides and bikes and all my wife has asked is I am sure I want it and we can afford it. I have seen it flipped the other way and mini-vans are parked in their driveway and the poor guy can't even watch what he wants on TV. Best of luck to guy.pedsemdoc wrote:or at least get an idea if she is open to the idea of you getting another Infiniti later when expenses aren't tight vs "let's start looking at mini-vans, because they're more practical when you have kids..."myother45isalesbaer wrote:Dude,
Congrats on the marriage. But I have to ask, why dump the Infiniti? Do you need the money? If the little lady doesn't like the car and you are selling it because of her that is not a good omen for the future. Best of luck to you either way. Just remember once you let the bride to be boss you around that is the way it will be forever. KEEP the Infiniti and man up is my OP.![]()
my wife has always been against the idea of a mini-van even though we have two boys-awesome!![]()
plus, once she got her hardwood floors-she told me, "you can start looking for YOUR car." she's a keeper.
Nah, nothing to do with her likes or dislikes, etc. She actually loves my car and was surprised I put it up for sale lol. I just have a lot of other expensive hobbies (I'm a computer geek + a photographer and musician) and with the costs of the engagement/wedding + future increase in costs of life (paying for two and not one)...I need to be smart about what I keep and what I get rid of it so I can afford to keep doing 'my' things such as upgrading my PC, camera gear, music gear, etc.myother45isalesbaer wrote:Dude,
Congrats on the marriage. But I have to ask, why dump the Infiniti? Do you need the money? If the little lady doesn't like the car and you are selling it because of her that is not a good omen for the future. Best of luck to you either way. Just remember once you let the bride to be boss you around that is the way it will be forever. KEEP the Infiniti and man up is my OP.
DON'T DO IT!!! NO! STAY AWAY FROM THE LIGHT!!!!! STAY AWAY FROM THE LIGHT CAROL-ANN!!!!IlyaKol wrote:It happens. Hah.
Thanks folks...now find me a buyer. Haha.
axefire wrote:DON'T DO IT!!! NO! STAY AWAY FROM THE LIGHT!!!!! STAY AWAY FROM THE LIGHT CAROL-ANN!!!!IlyaKol wrote:It happens. Hah.
Thanks folks...now find me a buyer. Haha.

Take my wife! No seriously, I take my wife everywhere but she finds her way home! My wife said to me she wanted to go somewhere different for our anniversary...I said.."Try the Kitchen"IlyaKol wrote:lol
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sVabofJee4[/youtube]axefire wrote: Take my wife! No seriously, I take my wife everywhere but she finds her way home! My wife said to me she wanted to go somewhere different for our anniversary...I said.."Try the Kitchen"
Ok I won't quit my day job and I'll stop now...
Maybe for this society and nation. Where I'm from, it's a different ball game. My upbringing is completely different than the one my peers get here, where people go into marriage with the option of later getting a divorce like it's no big deal. I guess that's why the US has a, what, 50% divorce rate now?thomasm35 wrote:Love is blind, but marriage is eye opener!
I think it's worse than 50%, but that's the percentage of marriages that end in divorce, not the percentage of people that end up in divorce (with plenty of people having multiple divorces, the percentage of people is probably significantly better, with some of them even caught in the crossfire because they were silly enough to marry a serial divorcer [or perhaps unfortunate enough to marry a future serial devirocer]). Gotta keep your eyes open when reading stats, the media here wants to sell a story or maybe push an agenda, not educate you.IlyaKol wrote:Maybe for this society and nation. Where I'm from, it's a different ball game. My upbringing is completely different than the one my peers get here, where people go into marriage with the option of later getting a divorce like it's no big deal. I guess that's why the US has a, what, 50% divorce rate now?thomasm35 wrote:Love is blind, but marriage is eye opener!
Anyway...lets keep it on topic folks. If you know someone looking for a well maintained M, send em my way.
I was going to post a long reply but I'm not going to bother.thomasm35 wrote:
Divorce.com has the rate at 49% for the US and 63% for the Ukraine.
When I was in Europe last year, countries such as Germany, Poland and France were complaining about the flood of hookers from the Ukraine that were operating in their countries.
You should be glad you are living in the US - it's time to give up the old world values and become an American.
Geeez, I'm an American Jew. Does this mean you won't marry me?IlyaKol wrote: "...I'm Christian. My upbringing/beliefs are based on THAT more than they are on Ukraine or America..."

IlyaKol wrote:...Moderators, please close or cleanup this thread. It's getting way off track and becoming something totally unrelated to Infiniti or the M.
