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BB Turbo
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(Didnt read after the first few posts...)

Same here, If I was the dad I'd be pissed as well.

Lucky for me, I'm seeing this one girl now (11 months younger) and her parents are divorced, Her mom gets in a 7pm everyday and stays in the living area for around an hour or so (dinner and such) Then she goes to her room to talk to her bf. She knows I'm going out with her, and she lets me spend a night whenever I want. So far this summer I've spent a night at her house around 6 times:D. Its weird being able to do that being I'm 16 and yes, have raging hormones. Yes, I like sex (first time 1 year and a half ago, multiple times since) and I'm pretty close to doing this girl (waiting for some alone time). /brag

In your situation: (don't write a letter, be a man and talk to him face to face) Go to her house when he's there and of course ask to speak to him alone and what not.Mention that you were irrespnsible to touch her like that (when her parents are there;))You were inconsiderate of her well being and things got out of hand.Your sorry he had to walk in on something like that.Ask for forgiveness in the end. The whole time look at him straight in the eye. Dont fold arms/shake leg/ or anything else that shows nervousness. Try to make the apology speech short and concise. Shake his hand....

then get down on your knees and kiss his shoes.Bow and see yourself out the door (whilst making the pssst-pssssssh noise) b/c you know you fvcked up the speech somehow;)


Sircnay
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I am sooooo FOOKED! Agh. Yeah I'm going to go tomorrow. We'll see what happens tomorrow on, "Days of our lives."

BB Turbo
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You'll be glad when its over though, even if you dont walk out happy (at least you got a cool car)

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Mr1der
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it's growing up. Her Dad did the same stuff before I'm sure. He just doesn't wanna face his little girl soon becoming a woman.

My advice, don't whine or get overly defensive, and CERTAINLY don't hum Girl, You'll Be a Woman Soon by Neil Diamond.

Sircnay
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I would trade everything that I have right now to make everything right. I want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. She is more than my equal. You know that little moment of time right after dusk and right before dawn, where light and dark are balanced in the sky? Where dusk and dawn come together to play jazz? She is that to me. She is wine served to me by the brides of glory. I will give anything to have this all mended. /sappy rant

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Mr1der
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right a song about it:D

be cool man, things work out. Be it good or bad, it all works out in the end.

I'm not an optomist or anything, honest.

Just relax, tell her father you're greedy and an over achiever to touch the greatest thing in the universe, but only make it even more cheesy...even if it is the truth.

Just show respect.

PhaneSoul
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Sircnay wrote:I would trade everything that I have right now to make everything right. I want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. She is more than my equal. You know that little moment of time right after dusk and right before dawn, where light and dark are balanced in the sky? Where dusk and dawn come together to play jazz? She is that to me. She is wine served to me by the brides of glory. I will give anything to have this all mended. /sappy rant


ill talk to him for your car... ill make it all right.... hehe, u said ud give everything.... im only asking for your car!

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Bubba1
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I don't think it's going to be that bad facing her dad. At worst you might leave with a limp (j/k). If you're just a couple years older than her, I would think dad should be more okay with her going out with a nice guy that he knows very well than with a cheezy guy wearing a Free mustache ride t-shirt. You might want to leave the marriage plans out of the discussion. Talking to a dad about marrying his minor child probably won't go over well. Good luck, bro.

And I'm impressed no one asked if she had a hot sister....yet

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Mr1der
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Damn, I dropped the ball on that one....

Oddly, enough, I'm listening to Neil Diamond, and wanting to buy this.



So.....she got a hot sister?

cosmo
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Hey at least you didn't have your mom walk in when you have no pants on and your girls shirt is off too. (Happened to me last nite)

The only thing I could think of to say was "What?! It's hot in here!"

nametakennow
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You have to take a minute and think if he's a talktoable (tis a word now biatch!) person. Some people will just disagree with you and try to explain how you're wrong and a God-awful person and everyone who is not married should just look at each other and talk once a week and that will somehow lead to healthy, happy, young-age-relationships and later a totally awesome marriage since you'll be so comfortable with the person and know them so incredibly well. WEEE! Run on sentence rant! WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! [/rant]

Damn, I have issues.


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