I need some solid opinions. Boyfriend issue.

[Dittoz7]

I Like Where This Is Going...

[Beancooker]

If you're asking all of us on the car forum, you already know what the answer is.

Pack your stuff, then and

You don't need a guy who is cheating. You're hot and have many opportunities ahead of you.

[seang]

I'd love to get a RWD toy car and have another as a daily, but that is cost prohibitive at this point in my life. Give me 5-10 years and that may be a different story.

Stay Hungry

I somehow prefer RWD in the snow.

4wd > Rwd [IMG][/IMG]

Stacy, good intentions are not enough. He either loves you or he don't. I expect you to want to share your feelings more than you want people to fix your problem, so if you don't take the advice, no hard feelings. No rubbing your face in it saying "I told you so". You can accomplish that by yourself when the times is right.
Modified by seang at 8:39 PM 2/25/2010

[r34 gtr]

Why you comin' home, fiive in the morning. something's goin on, can I smell yo d***??

Don't play me like a fool, cuz that ain't cool, so what you need to is let me smell yo...

Sorry, I had to.

I can offer you no advice, because honestly, its up to you. I historically have not been inclined to take s*** from broads who treat me in that fashion (no, not referring to the above song) but then again, I am currently the epitome of bachelorhood.

Here's something for you to think about: its just terrible etiquette to be textin' and talking to other ladies (ladies, this goes for you too) when you are on vacation with someone. I don't care if you are just my friend, when I go on vacation with you you had better not be glued to the damn phone. If they are that oblivious to personal etiquette and proper manners/behavior, do you really want to be with them anyway? Now that I have pointed this out it is just going to drive you insane, so you might want to do something about it.

[f1seb]

thanks everyone for your insights/opinions whether they were positive or negative, also thanks for the kind words as well as the criticism, I take it all with a grain of salt. I think everything will be ok.

Sounds like you've made your choice to stick with him. It is your decision and ultimately nobody has any say in it except you. You are correct in saying that "everything will be ok".........yes it will for the time being. Both of you guys will be on your best behavior especially him knowing that he crossed a line that made you "grown horns and a tail"

Eventually enough time will pass and who knows what can happen in the long run. You are also correct that people can change, and they can, just as people can win the lottery. But the problem here is that the odds are heavily stacked against you. Most psychology majors (if there are any here) will tell you that most of the persona is developed between the ages of 18-21.

Compulsive liars, men that never leave home, men who look for a woman like mommy dearest, people with potty mouths, women who are forever a princess and need to be worshiped, they slot in their ways basically in that time frame of their age. Not sure what age group you and your guy fall into but keep in mind the more you move away from that group the harder is to change a persons ways. Hence we get there stereotypes of once a cheater always a cheater, once a wife beater always a wife beater you can insert your favorite in there.

Most of the women who have already posted in here pretty much echo of what I described in this post, the choice is yours, those are your years of your life.

cmon really??? Neon?!!!!!what the....? Cmon now man, get that big modeling contract and get yourself the M6 you always wanted.

[skydragoness]

Your relationship was bound to not last from the start. Did you honestly think you could completely trust each other the whole time, seeing as your foundation was a complete violation of trust to your significant others? Interesting.

QFT. (I actually said something quite similar to my ex when I found out he was fooling around behind my back). Deception begets deception.

Being alone is a time for personal growth, most people can't handle it all.

[Jesda]

QFT. (I actually said something quite similar to my ex when I found out he was fooling around behind my back). Deception begets deception.

Being alone is a time for personal growth, most people can't handle it all.

The worst is the kind of person who goes from relationship to relationship, learning nothing from past failures, dragging their luggage around town like a couch surfer.

[MinisterofDOOM]

Being alone is a time for personal growth, most people can't handle it all.

Man, I'm so backward. I find solitude preferable for exactly the reasons you and Jesda mention. I don't need other peoples' problems. I've got my s*** sorted out and am content to enjoy myself.

[Bmore-coupe]

Man, I'm so backward. I find solitude preferable for exactly the reasons you and Jesda mention. I don't need other peoples' problems. I've got my s*** sorted out and am content to enjoy myself.

See, I agree with you, but I have been single now for almost 6 months (the longest time in at least 12 years). And as much as I love the fact that I am content with myself and I have my s*** together, one major thing is missing from my situation...

Steady Vagina

Random encounters are always fun, but I prefer a sure thing waiting at home.

[numbnuts240]

Steady Vagina

i like steady vagina.

[Bmore-coupe]

i like steady vagina.

Ive had it my entire adult life. Now I feel like an animal that has been kept in captivity its whole life and has no survival skills anymore.

Im doing ok, but keep running into that damn baggage.

[AppleBonker]

but keep running into that damn baggage.

That's just a sign that it's time to move to a new source.

Random encounters are always fun, but I prefer a sure thing waiting at home.

But you don't have to worry about the random encounters. That's the best part. You can experiment and do whatever comes to mind without having to worry about the ramifications of a pissed off chick. Those two options are a toss-up in my book.

[Bmore-coupe]

But you don't have to worry about the random encounters. That's the best part. You can experiment and do whatever comes to mind without having to worry about the ramifications of a pissed off chick. Those two options are a toss-up in my book.

Ive never dated a girl where what I did had any ramifications. As long as I'm not cheating, I expect to be able to do whatever I want even in a relationship, and I will give her the same freedom.

Trust is a huge part of any relationship. If you can't trust the person that you are with, why even waste your time.

On a side note, this may also be why I just got screwed over by my ex-fiance of 7+ years. So maybe my theorys are tainted and wrong

[AppleBonker]

Sorry, didn't explain well. I was referring to experimenting in the bedroom with things your female friend might not particularly enjoy (IE being more aggressive/violent - and no, not actually beating her). I didn't mean experiment outside of the relationship. English > me...

[Bubba1]

But you don't have to worry about the random encounters. That's the best part. You can experiment and do whatever comes to mind without having to worry about the ramifications of a pissed off chick. Those two options are a toss-up in my book.

There are still risks asociated with random encounters. Psycho exes, STD's, unwanted pregnancies, stalkers, etc.

Trust is a huge part of any relationship. If you can't trust the person that you are with, why even waste your time.

On a side note, this may also be why I just got screwed over by my ex-fiance of 7+ years. So maybe my theorys are tainted and wrong

I think your theories are fine, the key is both parties have to embrace that trust and follow thru with it.

[Bmore-coupe]

Sorry, didn't explain well. I was referring to experimenting in the bedroom with things your female friend might not particularly enjoy (IE being more aggressive/violent - and no, not actually beating her). I didn't mean experiment outside of the relationship. English > me...

Why date a girl if she won't do all of that stuff anyway?

[AppleBonker]

Why date a girl if she won't do all of that stuff anyway?

Ha, I don't know if a chick who will let me skeet in her eye is all there enough to be considered relationship material. Have some self-respect girl...

[numbnuts240]

you want to skeet in a girl's eye? right on brotha

[krash]

Ha, I don't know if a chick who will let me skeet in her eye is all there enough to be considered relationship material. Have some self-respect girl...

Well you're just a contradiction factory aren't ya

[themadscientist]

Ha, I don't know if a chick who will let me skeet in her eye is all there enough to be considered relationship material. Have some self-respect girl...

It's not mutually exclusive. Freaky doesn't equal low self esteem. If she asks for you and three of your friends to do it, you might have a warning sign.

[cellardoorv]

Ha, I don't know if a chick who will let me skeet in her eye is all there enough to be considered relationship material. Have some self-respect girl...

[Mr1der]

<---aims for the nose.

[krash]

what the perfect eyebrows is going on here o_O

[Mr1der]

Ryan has pretty eyes.

[Bmore-coupe]

Ryan has pretty eyes.

[krash]

and perfectly symmetrical eyebrows? O_o

[cellardoorv]

Haha. They're my eyebrows. Waxing FTW?

Contrary to popular belief, it doesn't sting. And it was by accident... so Ryan said.

[Mr1der]

lol....

it's your fault for opening your eyes.

a proper job will cover the entire face and get a guy slapped cuz it "made my hair all icky! I gotta wash it now you d!ck!"

[cellardoorv]

Can't really tell, but the reason why my eyebrows are so slick-looking is because I had just gotten out of the shower...

[skydragoness]

Man, I'm so backward. I find solitude preferable for exactly the reasons you and Jesda mention. I don't need other peoples' problems. I've got my s*** sorted out and am content to enjoy myself.

I do enjoy "me" time a lot.

Although good friends are needed (as much as I claim to be a loner.. I enjoy my friend's company).

My previous relationships were for many years, I also went a couple of years of being alone in between the two of them. Rebound relationships suck.