Well well well, heres the latest.
Crank pulley off, got an impact 27m socket and a 2 foot breaker bar. gf got in and put the car in 5th and held the brake. GET THIS, one hand, one arm, i got it off. I got over to the passenger side of the car and pulled. pulley then came off no sweat, without the pulley puller tool being used at all. i just i'll be taking it back
i now have everything on, new chain, lower sprocket, guides, and the tensioner in place and set to tension. i didn't change the upper sprocket because it is in great shape, no different than my new one. ( i know some will say change it anyways...)
it really looks like this cover was off before, because there doesnt seem to be a front part to the oil pan gasket, but sealant is there instead. i have plenty of blue rtv sealant to put her back together.
this feels like such an accomplishment so far. i have to pick up my new waterpump tomorrow, and my new belts. (also some new coolant and more oil)
i'll be needing help once i get to the critical lining up stage. right now my keyways are poitning straight up, my light colored chain links are on the amting marks. its all good to go.