HELP ME!!

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

ok now that i caught your attention, i would like to say, I would never intentionally hurt a 240 (sorry lil red) anyways i need some advice. I was playing pool the other nite with a few buddies of mine at some pool hall, and we noticed these 3 super hot chicks on the other side of the room, Terry (yes terry i wreaked into) said "hey jeff, i bet you $20 you cant get the girl in the blue shirts number" (now this chick is like SUPER hot, way outta my reach) so i told terry, no bet cuz i know i most likly can't. he said, "fine, if you get the number i will give you $10 and there is no profit for me if you dont" i was like, i guess i could try. so i go over to them, (and to note, i know i am not the best lookin guy, thats why i was challenged) and i asked them if they would like to join us in a few games, the hot chick was like, "sure, bring them over" so i intruduced myself and found that her name is Stephany. I also found out she is new in town, so most likly she is single. (i didnt ask if she was though) We started talking for a bit, then we all went out to eat together. By the end of the nite i was 2am an we all decited to split. right before she got in her car i walked up to her and was like "would you mind if i asked for your number and hang out some time soon" she was like "sure jeff, my cell is ....) as she left I walked up to Terry and told him to keep the money, i really dig this chick. Now i am stuck. I called her but found she was busy lookin for a job so I left her on her way. guys HELP!!! I am not good at talking to girls at all, and the better they look, it makes it that much harder for me. I am alwaysing wondering what they are thinking about me. This girl is to damn hot. I really dont wanna f*** up. What are some good phone conversation starters to make her talk alot? i hate talking to girls, the more she talks the better for me. and what about if we decide to go out somewhere? what should I say to get her talking or interested?? oh by the way, she is very flurty when we were jokin last nite she was doing that touch my arm thing. like when she was saying something or i was saying something funny, she gently grabed my arm or back.. HELP ME GUYS!!!! :help :help :help

[Kaioshin1982]

umm... lol.... been there done that....

but um if you really like her and she likes u, u shouldnt have any problem going out together cuz it will just all work out somehow..

i'm known to be talking to a girl for like hours about nothing but somehow we both have fun lol... so cant really help u there

if you really like her u should really try ur best to get close to her, if shes new in town, take her around the town and show her around and see what happenes from there

hope this help... most likely not tho lol

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

nah dude, i like the town idea, but there is nothing to do here, she been here for 3weeks, and her cell phone rings like crazy, she use to party alot where she is from, nothing to do here, so i might turn out boring

[240_Keyy]

sounds to me like she is interested in you. All I can say that if you act the same way you did when you were out with her the other night, things should be cake! You did good for doin what you did, that took some balls, your friend is a puss and because of that he probably has a hard time getting any.

Take her out to dinner somplace nice and then just do whatever comes up. Hell, go play putt-putt, it is always good for a laugh

[Structure240sx]

jsut ask her about herself most girls love to talk about themselves. just try not to think about what she thinks of u too much. jsut be outgoin and confident like shes nothin special. remember shes jsut a girl.

biggest thing tho when u's are on the phone talking and it seems the conversation is starting to die just say u got to go instead of tryin to beat it out of her. u dont want her thinkin its boring to be on the phone with

just dont think about it too much. i know exactly what ur talkin about i think everyone has been in ur shoes good luck man

[Structure240sx]

yea like keyy said go do some stupid lil kid things they are alwasy a good time and a good way to get more comfortable with the person

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

thanx for the advice guys, please keep em commin. I donno if she is interested, or just really flurty. damn dude, she is way too hot, it scares me to talk to her, im scared ****less of rejection and i know im not a great lookin guy, i know im not terrible but, argh!

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

imma get ready for work in a min, damn mods, didnt have to change the subject it was funny

[Meantime]

Just be yourself...same way you were the first night. If she liked that and gave you her number, then obviously you did something right.

If you're not comfortable talking over the phone, then ask to meet her somewhere. For coffee or whatever.

Don't get into thinking "I'm not good enough" because that's irrelevant in any case and will only hurt you in the long run.

[240_Keyy]

yes do exactly what structure and meantime said. Don't think about how you may or may not be good enough for her and just be glad that you are getting to hang out. And like structure said, go do little kids stuff, putt-putt, bowling, laser tag, playing doctor...(errr, maybe not yet on the doctor one ) But it should all be good. I had a similar problem when I first met my wife, she was hot and I was fat and slobby but I treated her like a queen and always put her first and now we have been married for almost two years (next monday is our anniversary) and she bought me an SR and wants me to do an SR swap into her 240. Good things come to those who are nice and treat girls with respect .

[kansas240]

"all you have to do, is ask them questions, and listen to what they have to say and sh**. " a) van wilder b)stifler c)neither

[240_Keyy]

d) I like cookies, can you get me a jar of mayo with cherries in it please?

[89240sx]

just be yourself =)

[InstantRice]

and by be yourself he means pretend to be someone more intersting.

[drifter sx]

look man, im no ladies man, but i do know how to talk to them. first thing, RELAX. they are NOT gonna bite you ou humiliate you in anyway unless you ask for it. 2nd, girls always like compliments. shes gonna be just as nervous about what you think of her as you think she will of you. so make her feel comfortable. 3: let her know that you WANT to be around her. even if its just as friends for now. shes new there so she needs people to talk to. so if theres ever a time that she needs to talk or a shoulder to cry one, she'll come to you. 4, theres a milliopn ways to have fun. im sure yod do things shes never done before and vice versa, so the dates will be plentiful. for starters, offer to take her to popular place for a bit to get to know the place, then take her off to a quiet restaraunt to get to know each other better. at the end of it, ALWAYS tell her you had fun spending time with her and you look forward to doing it again, but dont ASK her for it. just act like you know it will happen later. thats a start for you. lemme know how it goes good luck with her.

[drifter sx]

P.S. who says you cant be with her cuz shes hot?? maybe its just your turn to get the good one. so enjoy it, even if its just this once

[AZhitman]

All good advice - NICO guys must get mad play!

Anyway, asking questions is a good call - Ask her what she thinks of ......... whatever subject. Make sure it's something relevant, current, and interesting - like on the news. Make sure YOU know something about it, so if she asks you what you think (after her, of course), you don't s*** your pants. Skip the celebrity gossip, politics, religion, and other stuff that can turn into a disagreement.

I do a lot of training, so "icebreakers" are always good to start other people talking. DO a search, get some ideas. Make sure your confidence is UP because chicks DIG confident guys. I'm an ugly mofo, but I ALWAYS did WAY better than my good-looking friends, because I would pick the hottest chick in the room and start chatting them up... Small compliments (not overdone), curious questions (sincere), smile and PAY ATTENTION to whatever she says.

You'll do fine - She's just a chick, and remember: No matter how hot she is, there's somebody, somewhere, who's sick of her s***.

[89240sx]

and by be yourself he means pretend to be someone more intersting.

This is not always true because once you get to know her better and lets say you want to stay with her ..

you have to keep up this image and you will not feel right about it

like i said be yourself and dont talk about cars or anything she may not be interested... let her talk and feel her out as to what she is interested in then feed off of that.

peace

MCJ

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

WOW i worked for 6hours and got great responces. I agree with hitman, 240 owners=ballers/players/just pimp sh1tz guys, thank you all very much for the responces, im only 17 and this is the time of my life where **** is confusing, and you guys are helpin me alot. I justed called her and she was about to shower,( i could hear the water running) so she asked me if i could join her (i wish) i ment she asked if i could call her back in one hour. she is expecting some of her girly friends to be visiting her, but she asked if imma goto the pool hall tonite, i told her my friend mike is there, and i donno if imma go, but if she does i will. she told me, to just call her, and if she is up for it, we will meet up there. w00t w00t baller!!! lolol i like your advice hitman, thank you, good ideas from all of you. im not too knowlegable in anything, except computers, and im working on the car area but still in the bottom level. anyways.. i will keep you updated on how it all goes, i think this could work. she sems very easy going and not stuck up... thanks again family

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

All good advice - NICO guys must get mad play!

You'll do fine - She's just a chick, and remember: No matter how hot she is, there's somebody, somewhere, who's sick of her s***.

:pface :pface

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

anyways. I called her, and she is gunna stay in for the nite, BUT she told me to call her as soon as i wake up tomarrow, i proceeded to ask what would be too earily cuz i dont wanna wake her up, and she responded with "please anytime would be great, even if its too early, i dont mind gettin a earily start" dude! i dono this chick and i am totaly diggin her, i hope she likes me, this could be a good thing

[Structure240sx]

i just turned 18 like i said before i know exactly what ur goin through. chicks can screw with our heads with out even tryin

[offtheline]

congrats on landing a hot lady. I would say that most attractive girls go for confident guys. That is the reason why some guys cant date hot girls. They blame it on their looks but thats not it. Its that they feel underneath a girl and the girl can sense they have no confidence. So just be confident in yourself and the things you say, and it should work out.

[Structure240sx]

yea dont be like "umm excuse me ummm u think u would ever ya know maybe want to try to possible go out sometime if ur not busy u know like ur if ur really bored maybe talk to me one day"

be like "u come here now" not really but u get the point

[SCOOTER240]

just remember that most guys are like you-afraid to hit on a hot chick-so these chicks aren't used to being hit on and feel flattered when a goy has the round and hairies to make the move to talk to her-so just be your self and make it as much fun for both as you can-

bribery can't hurt either!!!!:ylsuper

[ShadowKnight006]

I'm gonna jump on the confidence band wagon here dude, trust be as has been said earlier "been there, done that". It really doesn't matter what you look like, its how sure and confident you seem. Its kindda like what they called "residual self-image" in The Matrix, ok so maybe that doesn't make sense to many ppl but you get the idea. As for calling her in the morning, don't call too early but not too late either(i'd say 8 or 9) and of she say's anything about needing beauty sleep tell her she doesn't need anymore in your opinion or somethin like that, girls love getting compliments(but dont go overboard and seem fake).

[spoolinbabe240sx]

Hey whats up?!?! I totally understand your problem and if you want to chat about this you should im me either on Genxgirl05 or brdrbabe654 ~ i think i could help you out with this one :-*:icesangel

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

yaay finally a chick to help! wo0t

[NIGHTfall_240sx]

dude, im more relaxed with talking to her now, i took most all your advice given to me and its working i think. At least im not freaked out as much. its still hard, but hell, it seems to be helping. werd to NICO :-D

[89240sx]

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