Guys Suck!!!

[MinisterofDOOM]

Er....look homicidal tendencies are ok...(I've got my share)...but don't hurt the girl. Anyhow...I'm getting tired of girl-hating posts.

[[Zero-S]]

Oh no, I'd never hurt my gf, in any way. Its her ex that I want deleted from existence.

[skydragoness]

I love men. My only complaint is that they are oblivious to what's in front of them. But can't expect anyone to be perfect. For every 2 douchebags, there's at least 5 dumb biatches.

EDIT: I just read your entire post. First of all, you should never let a guy dictate what you can or cannot do. Secondly, seems like you're allowing yourself to be taken for granted. Perhaps it's time to lay some ground down in your relationship. I don;t really know you so I can't pass judgement but good luck with that.

I agree wholeheartedly with the for every two pricks there are 5 dumb-*** girls. I know quite a handful of polite guys, with their hearts in the right places, they'll do anything to lend a hand in exhange for some pizza or beer or for nothing at all. My bf is pretty good about acknowledging anything that i go out of my way to do for him. And i make sure i do the same when he goes out of his way to do something for me. You won't get a 'thank you' from someone if you don't thank them for something they did for you. It's really really easy to take things for granted. Simple as that.

Anyhow, if my bf were to tell me where to go and what not to do, there would be a definite problem and his *** would be kicked to the curb.

[Chingon]

sky, check your tie rod thread (found some)

[Hijacker]

what i don't get are why decent guys like myself can't land a chick for anything, but all the a$$holes get the chicks. It makes me sick

I have always gone out of my way to thank the girl that I am dating and make her feel appreciated and wanted. I try to make sure that things like cleaning get distributed evenly between the two of us. What I don't understand is why I always ended up getting dumped.

[gabossie]

Because that's not what alot of women want. They want an ******* that they can feel victimized by and then complain about and get pitty love.

[hudy]

what i don't get are why decent guys like myself can't land a chick for anything, but all the a$$holes get the chicks. It makes me sick

I have always gone out of my way to thank the girl that I am dating and make her feel appreciated and wanted. I try to make sure that things like cleaning get distributed evenly between the two of us. What I don't understand is why I always ended up getting dumped.

I'm with tenkawa.

[vicki]

I have always gone out of my way to thank the girl that I am dating and make her feel appreciated and wanted. What I don't understand is why I always ended up getting dumped.

You just answered your own question.

[[Zero-S]]

Same.

Its a common s13 owner problem it seems.

[Hijacker]

You just answered your own question.

i guessi should just start being an ******* then. it's such a fvcking desirable trait i guess

[vicki]

i guessi should just start being an ******* then. it's such a fvcking desirable trait i guess

What ever happened to moderation? You don't have to be an *******, just don't be so nice and go out of your way to do crap. Make the girl work for it and learn to take care of herself.

[Nathan]

The girl shouldn't have to work for anything, my job is doing things to make her life easier. Of course, this just gets me dumped. You stupid women, why cant you even keep a guy around to use him? I'm completely ok with being used as long as I'm getting some kind of compensation (namely, spend time with me...listen to me ***** about things, pretend to care).

[Hijacker]

i never said i gave her everything. i said i made her feel appreciated for what she does do. I'm an equalist.

[240Kuminachu]

This place is gettin sappy, something up beat, fun, like an orgy......

S13 chick, your beautiful, come to the great state of Idaho, we'll have a hellluva time. (I'll let you drive my SR....... ohhh...)

[vicki]

The girl shouldn't have to work for anything, my job is doing things to make her life easier. Of course, this just gets me dumped. You stupid women, why cant you even keep a guy around to use him? I'm completely ok with being used as long as I'm getting some kind of compensation (namely, spend time with me...listen to me ***** about things, pretend to care).

That's where we differ. I never want to be dependent or rely on anyone, ever - be it male or female. I can do things for myself. I have a good friendship/relationship thing going with this guy. He never asks me to do anything for him and I never ask anything of him. We talk to each other in the end of the day and share our stories and thoughts. That's my ideal relationship. I'm not down with the joint at the hips type relationships where everything is we/us. I'm all about independence.

[jdmfreak]

Well Brit. All I can say is...

1) Do you like black guys?2) Mind movin to NY?3) Ill make sure to treat ya right

[The Mic]

I'm completely ok with being used as long as I'm getting some kind of compensation (namely, spend time with me...listen to me ***** about things, pretend to care).

hmmmm, you can have that ideal relationship with any hot therapist of your choice.

[w1ngzer0]

What ever happened to moderation? You don't have to be an *******, just don't be so nice and go out of your way to do crap. Make the girl work for it and learn to take care of herself.

learn to take care of herself? lol i thought thats what fathers are for

[The Mic]

lol but some fathers stop giving affection to daughters after she begins to sprout, and thus the daughter feels abandoned. Makes you wonder what they'll do in life to fill that void.

[Nathan]

whats the point of having a relationship if it isn't a "we/us" kind of thing? I just dont see the point, seems like a waste of time to me. Your stronger together than apart...thats my attitude.

[Badfish]

S13guy,Thats when they pursure men that have the same characteristics as their fathers. ******* father = many years of choosing the wrong guys to date. Meanwhile, compatable mates get frustrated and move on to other worthwile prospects. Seen it a million times

[skydragoness]

S13guy,Thats when they pursure men that have the same characteristics as their fathers. ******* father = many years of choosing the wrong guys to date. Meanwhile, compatable mates get frustrated and move on to other worthwile prospects. Seen it a million times

Very true, i almost became trapped in a relationship with someone who had *all* the bad traits of my father (parents are divorced). It took me almost 5 months to realize what i was getting myself into, i saw a 'parallel' with my mom and the problems she had with my father before they got divorced. And i promptly got the hell out of that situation. It was very unhealthy for me. Now i have someone who is the opposite of those traits and things are working quite well. I think i found the 'one' as corny as it sounds.

And i have to agree with Nathan on his point, although at the same time too much of that can get stuffy for some people. There has to be a balance.

[Badfish]

skydragoness5,At least you noticed what was happening and didn't let it continue. I hate seeing girls making horrible decisions on who they chose to be with.

Congrats on your current relationship. Hope everything goes well for you.

[skydragoness]

skydragoness5,At least you noticed what was happening and didn't let it continue. I hate seeing girls making horrible decisions on who they chose to be with.

Congrats on your current relationship. Hope everything goes well for you.

Thanks!

It was really hard, being that the ex that i was with before was also a friend i have known for 2 yrs almost. He played the 'betrayal of friendship' card quite a lot, and he had quite a way with words, but i managed to see through all that he said.

[Jesda]

People suffer from neurosis. You can never just be nice to a girl and expect her to stick around. Well, unless she's normal (HAH! Good luck finding THAT!)Gotta have some spice with the sugar. Besides, its more fun that way.

Eventually, folks grow up and get into normal, stable relationships.

[ceniack]

S13Chic - come about 3 hours north to okc, you can do my laundry and stuff (although i do a good job about keeping my bathroom clean on my own)

on a more serious note. i think the reason why girls tend to date the "jerks" is because they present a challenge, they are mysterious to the woman.

kind of like why the girl that you absolutly do not want to date, and have hinted at it and ignore her and stuff all the time wants you bad. because you are being a challenge.

the hard part is finding a balance. you have to be a challenge without being a jerk which means.

1) don't constantly call her every day (or contact her) at least in the early stages of a relationship (pre-six month mark i have decided)

2) everytime she says jump, don't say "how high" granted, you should do stuff for her, and she should do stuff for you in return, but if you have other plans, do those, and decline curteously.

3) keep your friends around, both your guy friends and your female friends. just because she is your girlfriend doesn't mean you have to give up all contact with the other females friends you have

4) refer to the first 3 rules. continue to be a challenge, don't be an *** kisser, and stay mysterious.

[JESTER]

Okay people. I am gonna add my $0.02 on these bashing threads.

So that boyfriend doesnt respect you?? Doesn't show you that he cares?? Is just a total piece of crap to you?? Then stop gripping and dump his stupid butt. There are plenty of guys out there. And there are even some good ones that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. You have no ideal how many good guys there are out there just wishing for a good girl like you. Just wishing for someone to cherish (sp), and love. Trust me on this one.

And you guys, that are upset over your lady leaving you, you are better off. unless you were a POS like the guys mentioned in my previous paragraph. And we know your not like them, because of how upset you are. You can not force someone to love you. If they dont love you, it is for the best that they move on, so you can get on with your life, instead of falling futher in love with them.

I am telling you guys, and girls, there is that special person out there for you. You have to go through some trial and error and do some hunting before you find them, but that is part of life. And a very good part of life. It teaches you about yourself, and about human nature. A learning experience that is worth a mountain of gold.

Dont give up on finding the right person for you, they are out there.

[w1ngzer0]

whats the point of having a relationship if it isn't a "we/us" kind of thing? I just dont see the point, seems like a waste of time to me. Your stronger together than apart...thats my attitude.

yar.

[[Zero-S]]

whats the point of having a relationship if it isn't a "we/us" kind of thing? I just dont see the point, seems like a waste of time to me. Your stronger together than apart...thats my attitude.

Agreed.

[The Mic]

shes pro-choice!....ahhhhhhhhhhhh