Friend killed himself.

[Otto.]

I'm so sorry.

Suicide is a terrible thing.

What a terrible way to go. Disturbing.

I'm sorry.

[AZhitman]

This sucks.

I, like others, have mixed feelings on these situations... I hurt for you and the friends he left behind, and the senseless waste of a life unlived is SO damn tragic...

I can't help thinking, what could be so horrible? He says, I've been through hell..." Really? Have we all not had tough times in our lives?

He looks like he was a cool guy that would have fit right in with our motley group.

It's irresponsible to take the easy way out. Those of us who care about all of you... we are always here to talk to.

And even in my darkest days, when life was kicking me harder than a person deserves to be kicked, I still looked forward to the sunrise.

I pray his soul has found peace.

[HashiriyaS14]

i hope at least one person takes note from this and realizes life is too precious a gift to waste in such a selfish manner.

^^Yep, this.

I'm very sorry to hear about this.

[93coupe]

I am sorry to hear this Jesda. Hopefully he is in a better place now.

[Kelbizzle]

I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and the family.

But as selfish as we call these people in this situation. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to wake up anymore. People say "what about his family?" and "all the people the people that loved him ". If he was just... done with life or with everything. I don't think there is nothing wrong with that or him. Don't be mad or upset with him because he was so satisfied with life he decided he was finished with his. I'm sure he's happier now. I'm sure he would want you to remember all the good times and not the time he made everyone's life so miserable by leaving.

[f1seb]

I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and the family.

But as selfish as we call these people in this situation. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to wake up anymore. People say "what about his family?" and "all the people the people that loved him ". If he was just... done with life or with everything. I don't think there is nothing wrong with that or him. Don't be mad or upset with him because he was so satisfied with life he decided he was finished with his. I'm sure he's happier now. I'm sure he would want you to remember all the good times and not the time he made everyone's life so miserable by leaving.

Reading what Jesda posted earlier from his texts, "satisfied" is not the word I would use. I myself don't agree with it because there are people who are far worse off who keep on living and making it day by day. I didn't know him personally and what went on his life and what drove him to it, but he definitely looked like a perfect candidate to be saved and talked out of his final choice.

[Kelbizzle]

Oops satisfied was the wrong word. Everyone has their opinion. My point was there is nothing wrong with it. Nor is it selfish. If you want to quit....quit. If I don't like something I'm not going to continue to do it. Only an idiot would.
Modified by Kelbizzle at 6:49 PM 3/13/2010

[asoomal]

Sorry to hear about that man

RIP

[2the40]

I am sorry to hear this Jesda. Hopefully he is in a better place now.

+1

Really sorry Jesda.

[Jesda]

His aunt called me today and told me that he likely did not suffer in the fire because the trauma from the impact would have rendered him unconscious. I'm heading to Chicago for the wake/funeral next week.

[S13_love]

Man, that sucks. Sorry man.

No more people in my face that are not sincere. So smile for me when I'm no longer here.

Reading this kinda sent a chill down my spine...dunno why...

[s14_girl]

I'm so sorry to hear I'll keep you and his other friends and family in my prayers. A few years ago, I lost a friend of mine who was about that same age to suicide. He was always the coolest guy, friendly and funny, but had a really rough time with depression. It's hard to make sense of after the fact of losing a good friend.

[PapaSmurf2k3]

This sucks to hear. How is the Cadillac forum taking it?

I'm heading to Chicago for the wake/funeral next week.

You're a good guy, Jesda.

[240sxdriftSRT-4]

R.I.P.

A buddies dad committed suicide about a week before Christmas last year. Mid October another friends dad died from a heart attack and a few weeks into senior year a classmate died in a car crash, needless to say that was a horrible last 5-6 months of 09'.

[lino]

So sorry for your loss Jesda. It's a terrible thing. What a shame.

[Jesda]

R.I.P.

A buddies dad committed suicide about a week before Christmas last year. Mid October another friends dad died from a heart attack and a few weeks into senior year a classmate died in a car crash, needless to say that was a horrible last 5-6 months of 09'.

Death is a very foreign, movie-and-TV-land thing to me. People in my immediate world typically don't disappear so its hard to interpret. The idea of "gone, forever" is strange.

[Bubba1]

Death is a very foreign, movie-and-TV-land thing to me. People in my immediate world typically don't disappear so its hard to interpret. The idea of "gone, forever" is strange.

It takes a little time to adjust, but it gets easier. Best thing to do is focus your thoughts on the good experiences with him, and dwell less on how his life ended.

[JLAUDIO85]

RIP...these kinds of thread makes me sad...especially today

[fiznowler]

It is always sad to hear this kind of thing... Sorry for your loss Jesda.