ghetto wrote:girl freind dumps meget caught highget caught drunkparents find out i smoke ciagerettes and cigarsgrounded this week for bad grades(including weekend)teachers hate me
Read and understand, take this to heart as it's something I know alot about seeing a number of my friends go this route in life only to a life without a future.
1. Suicide is for quitters, and losers who are too wussy to face life. Is that how you want to be remembered? Get suicide out of your head, and think positively. Think about a goal in your life, it could be as simple as buying a car. It will help you focus.
2. The common element in every one of those items is you. If you weren't drinking, or smoking pot you wouldn't have been caught. If you weren't slacking off all day and paid some attention in school you wouldn't be faced with poor grades. The girlfriend thing, well I wouldn't say just one person is to blame and honestly you will meet someone else.
Man up son. Seriously, what you do from no on is absolutely going to affect your life. If you want to take the initiative and take control of your life, then you will stop smoking dope, stop drinking, and focus on school. A few years down the line you will realize how incredibly important it is for you to remain focused on school.
Your parents only want what is best for you. If you take the initiative and show them some results then they will listen and work with you. At this point it seems like they feel you are out of their control. You need to face them, talk one on one, acknowledge your problem, and provide a solution. Give them something to hold onto and you might not be going to military school.
Teachers do not hate you. They are very similar to parents in that they, for the most part, want to help you along in life. It would be advisable for you to schedule a conference with the teacher to setup some sort of extra credit work to make up for your past grades. It would show alot on your part.
C'mon man you can't be wanting to throw in the towel just yet. How you face adversity is what defines you.
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