Birth control

[colies97~240sx]

Actually it takes about 3 months for the pill to become completely effective. Since she was suppose to start on Sunday and you guys did it on Sunday the chances of her being pregnant are slim, it’s possible but slim. (I could go into detail as to why but I won’t, too much typing) With this being her first month on the pill it’s not surprising that she hasn’t started yet. Her hormones and cycle are probably way out of wack right now and will start to normal out after the initial 3 month time period. Don’t stress too much about it and use condoms in the future. And depending on what you read and who you talk to pills/patch/shot and all of the hormonal birth control methods listed above do some crazy things to a woman’s body. It’s a wonderful thing but at the same time it’s kinda scary to read about the side effects and what it does to you down the road after repeated years of use. I have my biological perspective of health and wellness instructor to thank for that info. kinda makes you think twice before going on any type of hormonal birth control.

[Ace 2.0]

im so happy i cant wait to be a dad!!!!!!

[krazy skwerel]

If you have that trunk full of beer still then I suggest you drink it. Drink responcibly though

[Altiman94]

I had a scare once with an ex about 2 years ago. Wow was I ever on edge. Sorry to hear this man I know its a troublesome time. Just pray.

[skydragoness]

Actually it takes about 3 months for the pill to become completely effective. Since she was suppose to start on Sunday and you guys did it on Sunday the chances of her being pregnant are slim, it’s possible but slim. (I could go into detail as to why but I won’t, too much typing) With this being her first month on the pill it’s not surprising that she hasn’t started yet. Her hormones and cycle are probably way out of wack right now and will start to normal out after the initial 3 month time period. Don’t stress too much about it and use condoms in the future. And depending on what you read and who you talk to pills/patch/shot and all of the hormonal birth control methods listed above do some crazy things to a woman’s body. It’s a wonderful thing but at the same time it’s kinda scary to read about the side effects and what it does to you down the road after repeated years of use. I have my biological perspective of health and wellness instructor to thank for that info. kinda makes you think twice before going on any type of hormonal birth control.

That's true, there are side-effects to any drug/hormonal therapy but it varies in severity. If you smoke, your risk for adverse side effects are two-fold vs someone who does not and even more so for high hormone content like the patch. Also, people who have family history of blood clots,heart attacks and high blood pressure should not go on hormonal therapy such as b/c.

A lot of people are afraid of the side effects, i was actually told by my planned parenthood gyno that there will be some mild nausea/fatigue in my first month of starting the pill for the first time. She was right, but it was very manageable. My mom tried to freak me about by telling me when she was on the pill (during the 70's when it was new, and in high hormone doses) she lost a lot of hair and was fatigued a lot. That was then, nowadays all gyno's start you off on Ortho Tricyclin Low-dose, and hair loss is rare ( i didn't lose any).

Besides the side effects though, there are benefits too, b/c reduces your risk for ovarian cancer, improves the skin (because acne can be hormone-induced), and is good for people with amenia. I can attest to that, as i was slightly anemic before the pill.

[Nathan]

I wish they'd come up with a pill for guys...even if had reasonably rough side effects, I bet its nothing I couldn't drink away!

[gabossie]

ANYTHING BUT ABSTINANCE... I don't think I could handle that.

[SeVa-S13]

They're in the FDA approval stages right now with such a miracle pill. I t was already proven extremely effective so now they're making sure it doesn't give you peen cancer or some such non sense. But who knows how long it'll be before it's released...(I've been following this for quite a while as I really don't want kids, especially at 20. )

[ilovedrifting]

If you have that trunk full of beer still then I suggest you drink it. Drink responcibly though

Yup still got it, but ima save it for the weekend, i got some plans with some people

[Mr1der]

remember proper firearm safety...watch where you point it...when it fires, it could very well end a life. Probably yours.

[nametakennow]

Yaknow what I just realized... it's quite possible you capitalized on PMS, you bastard.

Did Mikey slap you today? If not, slap him for not doing it for me.

I'm not gonna go off on the tangent that I want to right now... be glad.

[[Zero-S]]

And I would be the first in line for that pill.

[ilovedrifting]

IM SAFE!!!!!!!!!!!She started her period tonight FREE FREE YESSSS!!!!!! w00t w00t



I've never been so happy/relieved in my life

thanks everyone for their help especially NSR240sxe

[SeVa-S13]

Congrats, I know the feeling.

[AZhitman]

Use a condom. Let BC be the backup if it breaks or something like that without you knowing (I'm speaking from experience). Especially for you playa playaz out there ...too much funga munga going around to be a playa these days anyway.

SMart man.

[nismofly]

remember proper firearm safety...watch where you point it...when it fires, it could very well end a life. Probably yours.

abortion?

[Mr1der]

whorticulture can be like horticulture with all that stuff going around.

somebody needs to make mouth condoms or something too...

I don't think "hey baby, think this CPR mask is sexy?" would work...

[[Zero-S]]

Hope she isn't just spotting.

Don't wanna scare you or anything.

[s13EastTN]

Now you have about 3-4 months until your next scare. Honestly wear your condom and use birth control.

[PoorManQ45]

IM SAFE!!!!!!!!!!!She started her period tonight FREE FREE YESSSS!!!!!! w00t w00t



I've never been so happy/relieved in my life

thanks everyone for their help especially NSR240sxe

She's on her period!!!! Yey. Go have lots and lots of sex!!!! Even without a condom or Birth control, there is less then a 1% chance of her getting pregnant on her period. Also, sperm will only stay alive in the vagina for a maximum of 5~7 days. And as you should know, Ovulation does not normally occur until approximately the 14th day after her period started. Have all the sex you want from the 2nd day of her period(To make sure it's her period), till the 10th day. After that, no more sex for a few days. It is safe to have sex again after the 22nd~25th day.

On the 2nd day of a woman's period, she has approximately 0.09 percent chance of getting pregnant. On the 14th day, she has approximately a 75% chance. 20th day = 40%. 25th day 7%. 30th day = 1%.

If you are unsure of your partner's sexual past, always use a condom. And, for her safety, if you don't use a condom, make sure that your meat stick is clean. Don't want any infections.

[Nathan]

Well thats good news, didn't have to get out the ol' coat hanger.

[madbouncy]

I was going to keep quiet, but he mentioned the coat hanger, so I feel I have to. However, a warning first.

DON'T CLICK IF YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEMS WITH ABORTION!!! It's pretty offensive stuff so if you're sensitive, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT watch it. However, it is hilarious after a pregnancy scare.

Soft Outer Crust - The Big News

Grrr, it even censors urls if they're not displayed. Well if you click it, you can see most of the url except for the obvious f word being censored, so you can just put it in.

[ilovedrifting]

she and i are both clean, this is the first person i've been with so i definetly don't have anything, and im her second and she is also clean. As for spotting, nope. she was spotting last night when i made the post announcing success. she was but then it stopped, now its started again and its not stopping, im talkin cramps and a lil' bitcheness

[PoorManQ45]

Go forth and have as much sex as you want. Make sure the cramps arn't really bad though. You will find that she will enjoy it 10x more then normal!

Don't be afraid of the "Red Barron", Enjoy when it comes to town. No Preggy

[ilovedrifting]

im not so sure i want the "red barron" it could get messy. al though the no pregnancy part sounds good

[PoorManQ45]

If you are afraid of it getting messy, start in the shower. Once she is cleaned up, she shouldn't start bleeding much for awhile. And by then, you won't really care that she's on her period.

Trust me, it is awesome when she's on her period

[accel junky]

This girl I had a fling with from the summer of '03, had just gotten off the stuff and she had 3 month intervals or something like that.

She didn't tell me this and it caused a BIG scare. We're talking, had to go to the store and buy a tester and a hat (to hide the tester while heading towards the self-checkout).

My current girlfriend is on the patch, but she takes it off once a month and thats when nature takes its turn.

[s13EastTN]

I tried it once while my gf was on her period and well....that was enough for me.

[Altiman94]

I honestly am discusted by that. I wait the week out.

[Nathan]

I dont even like hanging out with girl friends when I know they are on their periods, I swear I can smell the blood. Its ****in gross is what it is, I damn well will never have sex when a girl is on her period, she's lucky if I even touch her.