Dave,
The book calls for the 15208-65F0C but the 9E should work and has the crucial drainback valve that almost all aftermarket filters do not have. The filters are very similar in dimensions (the 9E is slightly longer) but the thread pitch and O-ring diameter are the same between the two.
Publicly I will fall in line with the company and its suggestion of 3750 (6,000 km) service intervals with the factory fill ester oil and a new crush washer. However if it were my car the schedule would be slightly modified.
As far as warranty goes what they really want to see is some sort of documentation that the service was regularly performed. If you buy in bulk keep the receipts for the supplies and if there is ever an issue they should cover you....although all dealers and issues are unique and what works at one may not work at another.
To anyone else who may read this or consider buying one of these very fun, well built vehicles consider the maintenance package offered through Infiniti. Even if you get outside financing the plan through Infiniti (not an outside company) actually covers ester oil (~$12/qt), air filters (~$20/ea x2) as well as a majority of factory recommended services. Although the plan replaces many things with no out of pocket cost the plan also pays for a myriad of inspections that (on almost all new cars) will never turn up a bad or failed part.
http://www.infinitiusa.com/own....html
As a tech I can tell you no matter what level of plan you have the majority of these things are inspected with a regular old oil change. Most of these things, even when bad, will pass a visual and touch and feel test but may make noise or complaints are going to steer us into the correct direction.