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Fri Feb 05, 2010 11:12 am
I had to write a paper and speech on this for a class and I absolutely crushed my opposer...i'm pro choice and she was pro life and i guess mine was impactful (and got high scores on it, as well) because i'm a female who has been in an unfortunate situation and in sum, said: (and not all of you may agree with this approach--let me just say that there are circumstances in which abortion is appropriate and circumstances in which it is not):
"you're only pro life because it has never happened to you, your mother, your sister, your grandmother, your best friend, your daughter. i'm pro choice because i was raped when i was 12, and if i was impregnated at 12 (thank god i wasnt) with a complete stranger and sickos child and not being able to have a choice isnt the way i would like to live. had i had a child at 12, i wouldnt be here, i would probably be dead because the dimensions of my body would not be able to handle childbirth. had i had a child at 12 at the hands of a rapist, i wouldnt be in school. i wouldnt have a job. i wouldnt have money to take care of the child. i wouldnt have a father to help me. i would be rejected by all those around me and seen as "dirty", irresponsible, unintelligent, unfortunate, pitied. i would never be a doctor, a model, or whatever i wanted to grow up to be. my childhood would be snatched from me and i would never be able to get it back. you're a smart girl who wants to be a lawyer, right? what if one night you were walking to your car and you got raped and impregnated and abortions were no longer legal? would you be able to continue your life normally, pursue your career, your dream? Never."
im completely against people terminating pregnancies simply because it was an "accident" like you were drunk and didnt use protection, because if youre adult enough to have sex then you should be adult enough to deal with the consequences of unreasonable actions. you probably shouldnt terminate a life for selfish reasons. but if there are legitimate reasons such as you will probably die from complications from labor by having this child or you were raped by a sicko, then abortion may be appropriate.
p.s. i know people are not pro life just because it hasnt happened to them or someone close to them, but i know the girl was like this in this case because she was a complete snob who grew up sheltered and believed things like rape only happened to low class people, and she thought of herself as higher than that as if it could never happen to her.
phew sorry for the rant. i see you're trying to take a different approach but i just started ranting so I doubt this will help