wow where to start... ok well i havnt been on a vacation in about 4 years now, so tomorrow morning i fly out to NJ for a wedding (not really a vacation but heck its out of my area) but anyways everything was looking up, got everything organzed.. then this afternoon i stop by my girls house.... guess what, she said she is over it.. wtf, a week after prom and 1 day b4 i go on vacation, i sware she planned this out "how can i screw him over the worst?" is that how you ladys think? i dont think us guys could think of somthing like that, but heck maby u can.. ITS JUST EVIL now my whole trip is turned to crappp... ahhh oh well sorry fo' the post, had to let some of this out.. in 3 hours i fly out to NJ.. if anyone is around flemmington reply here within the next few hours if u know of somthing to do around there, or saturday night ill be in phili...
-tyler
wow women can pick the perfect time for everything...
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Just my opinion of the matter, but that sounds pretty immature of her. I don't know if you have had recent relationship problems or not, but she must have blindsided you.
If your girlfriend is serious, she's been thinking this over for a while and decided to drop this on you at a time when you can do little to object. Your responsibilities are split between different matters and you wont be able to discuss, or confront her for reasons why.
On the other hand this could just be another stumbing block in you relationship. It is possible to move past this matter and improve the situation. It all depends on if you two are serious about the relationship or not.
Women can be extremely difficult to deal with in their high school to college years. For all the so called "early maturity", a lot of them really don't know what they want out of relationships even if its staring them in the face. It takes time and experience just like it does for everybody else.
Just dont let the vacation get ruined by this. She intends you to experience a little suffering since you are supposed to go out of town and have a pleasant experience that she is not able to have. Dont let the negative feelings get the best of you. Enjoy the wedding and deal with the problem when you get back home. Good luck. Hope this helps.
If your girlfriend is serious, she's been thinking this over for a while and decided to drop this on you at a time when you can do little to object. Your responsibilities are split between different matters and you wont be able to discuss, or confront her for reasons why.
On the other hand this could just be another stumbing block in you relationship. It is possible to move past this matter and improve the situation. It all depends on if you two are serious about the relationship or not.
Women can be extremely difficult to deal with in their high school to college years. For all the so called "early maturity", a lot of them really don't know what they want out of relationships even if its staring them in the face. It takes time and experience just like it does for everybody else.
Just dont let the vacation get ruined by this. She intends you to experience a little suffering since you are supposed to go out of town and have a pleasant experience that she is not able to have. Dont let the negative feelings get the best of you. Enjoy the wedding and deal with the problem when you get back home. Good luck. Hope this helps.
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Man its been a while, you're never at home so I never get to talk to you anymore, but damn seems like she did blindside you cause you were crazy for her.
I honestly don't know what to tell you...other than get over her and do it quickly. No use in living in the past, it won't come back.
Besides, you're gonna be on vacation, I'm sure you could find someone up there to keep you company for a little while, and its not like there aren't any hot girls down in FL;)
I honestly don't know what to tell you...other than get over her and do it quickly. No use in living in the past, it won't come back.
Besides, you're gonna be on vacation, I'm sure you could find someone up there to keep you company for a little while, and its not like there aren't any hot girls down in FL;)
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Haha, you guys are great. Find a hoe is always a good idea. However, watch yourself. I've found that a chick who's supposed to just be a good time can turn into something you didn't want to get into again and are scared ****less of. Coming from a recent experience, if you're gonna do the "get a hoe" thing, make sure it's a hoe you KNOW you could never really care about...
Women are kniving *****es, but dammit they're so fun.
I gotta agree with Jesda on this one too, "Move on, and most importantly move up."
I'm gonna shut up now, so as to avoid pouring my issues out too. Just follow the above words of Jesda!
Women are kniving *****es, but dammit they're so fun.
I gotta agree with Jesda on this one too, "Move on, and most importantly move up."
I'm gonna shut up now, so as to avoid pouring my issues out too. Just follow the above words of Jesda!
Dude, that sucks to hear man. All the replies above are great.
Dude, just move on. Seriously take it from me. I was with this girl for almost 2 years. She dumped me one week before our 2-year as she was leaving for Canada. Get this...she dumped me THROUGH E-MAIL. How sad is that? What made it worse was that I couldnt do anything about it until she got back.
Now she has a man. It took me about 2 years to get over her. I regret it. I lost FOUR years to a girl that doesnt matter to me anymore (2 years together and 2 years to get over). So trust me man, get over her SOON and dont look back. I wish I took my own advice. I learned the hard way, but atleast I did.
Good luck man,
- Omar
Dude, just move on. Seriously take it from me. I was with this girl for almost 2 years. She dumped me one week before our 2-year as she was leaving for Canada. Get this...she dumped me THROUGH E-MAIL. How sad is that? What made it worse was that I couldnt do anything about it until she got back.
Now she has a man. It took me about 2 years to get over her. I regret it. I lost FOUR years to a girl that doesnt matter to me anymore (2 years together and 2 years to get over). So trust me man, get over her SOON and dont look back. I wish I took my own advice. I learned the hard way, but atleast I did.
Good luck man,
- Omar
don't get attached to hoes. in fact I recommend drinking heavily before hand so you don't even remember who it is. go to the club, if you bounce the ugly *****ies you know you are never going to go home alone.or if you are like me, I am engaged by my fiancee is car away.I dance with the fat chicks cause they treat me like I'm brad pitt cause I'm the hottest thing they ever danced with, I KNOW I'm not gonna get turned down to dance, and I know I won't be tempted to go home with them.different situation, but still funny.all my friends like to teaste me about dancing with the fat chicks, but .. hey I just know how to have a good time and stay loyal.
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FARK. Hey man, don't ever tell a chick you haven't seen in a year and a half and hardly remember cause you've only seen her once (and that you're insanely attracted to psychologically) that you'll be her first guy friend who isn't openly trying to win her over.
Why you ask?
Because then she'll show you a pic and you'll have a coughing fit for the next 10 minutes. Then, cause she's commenting on how bad it looks, you'll drop her a pic of you after washing your car and BAM, she'll drop you one of her barely clothed.... FARK FARK FARK, now I have to feign not being utterly totally insanely attracted to a friend...
Why you ask?
Because then she'll show you a pic and you'll have a coughing fit for the next 10 minutes. Then, cause she's commenting on how bad it looks, you'll drop her a pic of you after washing your car and BAM, she'll drop you one of her barely clothed.... FARK FARK FARK, now I have to feign not being utterly totally insanely attracted to a friend...
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240kid wrote:i was just talking to a girl at my job about how in the hell little cup cake paper things with baseballs and footballs can be cute or how an softball sized watermellon can be cute? sure beats the hell out of me
That bugs me too! How can that crap be cute? Most babies are ugly too, not sure what's up with that...
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nametakennow wrote:Horse manure, guys kill themselves emotionally too, we just hide it better.
I'm still reeling from those pics I mentioned ealier... you guys don't get it, she's gorgeous, absolutely gorgeous...
I know exactly what your going through. And I'm trying my arse off to get her. And guess what, its working:D
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hey just got in, thanks for the replys.. even when i was away she called my cell and tryed to talk smack.. ugg.. im over it tho..
i didnt have alot of time in NJ or phili (flew out friday left this morning) so i didnt get to do too much at all.. we had all lastnight at the hotel, it was right by the airport in phili where there is NOTHING around for awhile, well somone said there was a shopping plaza and we were gonna go get some 40oz's (cant get them here in FL) we walked for about an hour and found nothing, almost got hit by a few cars tho.. lol.. then a bunch of ticks got on us.. anyways that sucked.. but yeah back now.. time to take a shower, air plaines are sooooooo durty..
i didnt have alot of time in NJ or phili (flew out friday left this morning) so i didnt get to do too much at all.. we had all lastnight at the hotel, it was right by the airport in phili where there is NOTHING around for awhile, well somone said there was a shopping plaza and we were gonna go get some 40oz's (cant get them here in FL) we walked for about an hour and found nothing, almost got hit by a few cars tho.. lol.. then a bunch of ticks got on us.. anyways that sucked.. but yeah back now.. time to take a shower, air plaines are sooooooo durty..