SmithSR wrote:This is true, I'm not exactly old, but I've been there, done that.
You really can't see it until you've lived it and can look back and realize that your energy would have been much better spent focusing on making yourself successful. Thats all.
That is true man... But if you spent your time doing that you wouldnt have had that realization... It wasnt untill I had some time away that I realized how unhappy I was. Now that its done with I know what to look out for, and what I DONT want...
f1seb wrote:Women are the best thing that ever happened to us. They cook and give you some, well my does...so I'm happy with her.
Yeah mine cooked, cleaned, blah blah blah, basically did everything. But I wasnt allowed to do any of that If I wanted to, or I would hear something something about it, at the least, or we'd argue / fight at the most. I didnt get to learn how to do things on my own and became dependant, which is what she wanted. Now I do my own ****, and in the short time I pick up after myself (which my room is just as clean as I dont have to wait for it to be cleaned), have cooked a cpl of times (didnt burn anything either!!), and generally clean around the house and do dishes when I see them.
soilwork240sx wrote:the key to a woman is keeping her in control
Thats such BS, and when that happens youll lose your identity, or shall I say I did. Its got to a point where I didnt do ANYTHING but basically auto-x (as I would leave her at the house to go auto-x on only 15 mins of sleep, which almost happened once, I'm a fiend), as I didnt want to hear how I'm being distant (have issues with groups of people), or checking out chicks, when I glance in thier direction.... Before long you do nothing, cant go out alone, cant watch certain channels on tv like vh1 mtv bet any music channel, cant design at 3-4 am when your at your peek (****ty for someone with an AS in graphic design as I havent gotten a job in a year since getting my degree), every thing you feel or think that differs will be wrong, and the likes....
I did nothing as I got tired of hearing "it", and was ok with just hearing "you spend too much time on the computer" as I know it was true and I had my reasons why, so I could deal with that
Bah you get the gist of it...