Well one thing that will cause you problems trying to find that info on a board like that is that they do installs, and get payed, so that info is the original info, and stuff has been updated, but as you know, information if valuble, and worth money to them, ya know, *(not just them, most people)...your best bet is to find someone not affiliated with a shop, that will donate their time to help you.
check out
http://www.phase2motortrend.com for some more tips.
I can tell you my swap was done with the information found on HT, and normal mechanic knowlege (and experience with the sR20det)...
JESSERPI