MinisterofDOOM wrote:I'll offer an alternative viewpoint.
But first I'd like to comment on the actual subject of Looney's original post here:College is the LAST place I'd turn to acquire a "meaningful philosophy of life." I already have a "meaningful philosophy of life," thank you very much.
Now, I'm sure any of you who have met me in person can guess what's in store for this post...
I went to college for a couple years for the typical reasons: it's what you're "supposed" to do , my parents wanted me to.
TERRIBLE REASONS.
I went for someone else, not for me. And therein lies the problem. If I'd been doing it for me, I wouldn't have gone.
I despise school. Hate it with a passion. All the by-the-book "education" that has nothing to do with learning and everything to do with getting little pieces of paper.
Personally, I couldn't possibly care less about little pieces of paper. I'm a part of what seems to be an ever-dwindling minority. My desire isn't to just "finish school" or "get a degree." All of that is completely meaningless to me.I actually have a desire to LEARN. And the fact is, that's not something that I've come to associate with school. Only on very rare occasions have I ever learned anything in school. And those rare occasions usually involved teachers/instructors who completely ignored what they were "supposed" to be doing so they could teach us something.
School is a waste, and nothing more. It is a waste of money. It is a waste of time. And perhaps worst of all, it is a waste of effort.
Being a fairly contented person, I could be happy living in a tiny house with just my mind to keep my entertained. So I have no real desire to make lots of money. I don't make much but I make enough to keep me very happy. So I don't need to go to school to be able to be wealthy.
And so, as you can see, college/university/school has nothing to offer me. I have nothing to gain from it. I've gotten by the last 23 years learning anything I desire of my own accord. I don't need classrooms, teachers, or tuitions for that.
Then comes another factor (VMP's post above brought it up, though I'm not sure this is what she meant).Insurance. Right now I've got health insurance, dental insurance, etc. because I work full time. I certainly won't be getting anywhere in school part time, and full time a school AND work isn't humanly possible (people who do it are massochists). But I'm certainly not going to sacrifice my full-time-employment benefits so I can go to school and waste my time and my (and/or my parents') money and my effort to gain nothing.
The educational system needs a serious revamp. Little pieces of paper with degree certifications on them have become the point, when the point SHOULD be to LEARN the things that those little pieces of paper represent.
I have no patience and no tolerance for such a backward system.
MoD, you are isolating yourself (or already isolated) from society. Why do I say this? Because I care, as one human being to another. And also, I've been there, and now trying to improve every aspect of my life. It does not matter who you are, or what you look like, because good personality (I meant faking good personality, and making others feel good) goes a long way. Life is just a system; make it work, especially to your advantage.
You need a good education! Never experienced it, so you are afraid of it. You are not going to be young and energetic for too long. Trust me. I am 26 and already seen the limits of my brain's capability, and it is diminishing.
Just graduated, and... having to come from a really difficult 5 years of college with working at nights to pay for my education, and suddenly having to make lots of money feels good. Problem is that your expectation raises up to that level of spending, and now you want more and more. Just another human with unlimited wants and needs.
Here is the thing, I already know how long will I live (how long willing to live? ), how much money will I retire with, (assuming steady curve of life) and truth to be told, it is sad.
I mean the other day, I wrote a 401K calculator(code), which took into account everything possible, historic inflation, salary increase+inflation adjustment, interest, and estimated my retirement fund at the age of retirement. Numbers did not reflect my expectations. I just wish that I graduated couple years ago, and started investing, because it would make a huge difference.
Long story short, the more knowledgeable you are, the less you enjoy life(you see what future holds), but you have more control over stuff, because you are the one who has to think, and plan things. You look ahead and the future looks very scary, unless everything is planned and taken care of.
My advise, get at least a bachelors degree in a good field. Otherwise you are going to end up becoming a blue collar worker. Years are going away. I mean I just blink, literally blink, and bam six months are gone by. It is amazing! Every Christmas coming feels like 2 months, its like 2 months gone by, and hello it is the end of the year.
Well get your butt to school now, choose a degree that is in demand. Something difficult. You know one thing that saddens me is that I came to US at an age of 17. If I was born in the states and given the knowledge I have now at an earlier age, I would have been very educated, secure, happy and wealthy by this time.
Modified by sanioll at 1:04 AM 4/11/2008