I really don't know if this will help you to solve your problem, but if you follow the posts under my name, you'll find the location of the speed sensor. And, by the way, replacing the speed sensor took care of my problem.
By the symptoms that you described, it appears that it's somethingelse going on, not the speed sensor in the transmission.
Good luck!
CGB
PS: I hope the link works.
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Modified by CGB at 7:22 AM 1/30/2006